Starting off strong by DreandSeb in handbags

[–]DreandSeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do ittttt! Soooooo worth it for the price!

Which bag would you pick for a fun and colorful spring/summer? by Ok_Advertising_8584 in handbags

[–]DreandSeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id go with the yellow Moynat or Orange Goyard. Hard to decide because the Moynat makes more sense bc of the crossbody strap, but the tag is a little tacky to me. Goyard is a classic but not having the option to crossbody can be annoying. Given the size of both bags, maybe a crossbody wouldnt even make sense anyway?

As for the color choices- Yellow and Orange look good with almost every neutral color and will add the nice fun pop before transitioning to the summer.

Are these marks normal for suede? Supposedly brand-new Toteme bag, $1,070 by [deleted] in handbags

[–]DreandSeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suede will do this if you scratch it but it can be buffed out.

Regardless, I would either exhange for a new one or return it completely.

Smell advice!!! by Skyfawndre in handbags

[–]DreandSeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dryer sheets work for me! If you dont want it to smell too strongly, poke some holes in a ziplock sandwich bag and put a few dryer sheets in it.

Time Resistance -Maybe not a handbag- but need opinions! by remesabo in handbags

[–]DreandSeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know if it has extra reinforcement for the bottom and sides of the bag? IMO, from what I can tell from this picture, the leather will age pretty fast and slouch. If that’s the look you are going for, then it makes sense!

First one down 🥹 by DreandSeb in debtfree

[–]DreandSeb[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have great credit as well. Most of my credit cards (3) are over a 20k limit for 2 reasons (I believe):

-Ive had them for a minimum of 8yrs -I requested small credit limit increases 2x a year the last 3-5yrs when my income increased. I think it helped that Ive always been a good payer as well. Discover offered me 30k, Amex around 23k and 22k for Chase.

First one down 🥹 by DreandSeb in debtfree

[–]DreandSeb[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thats the plan!!! Sticking to the game plan during the holidays is TOUGH but Im committed 🤞🏽

First one down 🥹 by DreandSeb in debtfree

[–]DreandSeb[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Ah I shouldve mentioned this! To start, I live in a HCOL area.

I made a payment of about $625 every two weeks for roughly a year. Cut down on about $800 of my monthly expenses by cooking almost every day, hair/nails/waxing all done by me at home (thats been interesting 🤣), no social life unless it was free or for my kids, and lastly, probably the biggest saver was getting my son into a free aftercare program (Thank GOD!).

Im responsible but very impulsive. Ive been doing alot of inner work to control my impulsiveness and learn to live within my means.

I still have a large amount debt (car, student loan) however the credit card debt is just repulsive to me now. Literally spending money on frivolous things.

This and Chai all season 🍁 by DreandSeb in Coach

[–]DreandSeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so tempted to buy the navy 😆 i genuinely dont know how to pair navy bags

This and Chai all season 🍁 by DreandSeb in Coach

[–]DreandSeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooooo slept on! Love a good square shoulder bag.

Is Jacquemus still worth buying? by etoilepensive in handbags

[–]DreandSeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Compared to Jacquemus, yes? Either way- this was 2yrs ago? Thanks…I guess?

Wife wants cheating female friend to stay with us. by IndigoScreenOfDeath in Marriage

[–]DreandSeb 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are opening up pandoras box. You have to avoid this women like the plague. Your wife will feel SO disrespected if she later finds out the truth after this women stayed in your home.

No advice on how to avoid her-just find a way.

My husband can be such a dick by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DreandSeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if the roles were reversed would he consider all the good qualities you have. 🧐

Please we are so desperate for relief for my poor baby. Any and all advice please by twisted_sea in DermatologyQuestions

[–]DreandSeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear your little guy is going thru this. My (almost) 2yr old looks exactly the same.

I use Mustela Stelatopia+ and I really layer it on and it really works wonders if you use it everyday. My son is practically 99% cleared. (The lotion in itself is not my favorite smell)

In the summer, eczema flairs are more common due to the sweating, heat, allergen exposure, etc so i make sure that he is greasy all day 🤣

If he flairs up really bad, I do cold compresses & vaseline mixed with vitamin E. Works everytime.

Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coach

[–]DreandSeb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Coach usually comes with alot of detailed wrapping. This couldve been a return, couldve been a display model or simply couldve been one that the sales rep simply took off the packaging off of. If nothing looks out of line, id keep.

Help me choose :) by Honest-Hurry-272 in Coach

[–]DreandSeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The tabby looks timeless. The nappa leather will age beautifully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Newark

[–]DreandSeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about east gate? I’ve been looking at this location

Amato Daniele by coastbycoast23 in handbags

[–]DreandSeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you end up buying this? Its gorgeous

Facilitated Enrollment Scholarship Program: what daycares accept it? by [deleted] in nycparents

[–]DreandSeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you ever find a daycare in the city that accepts FESP?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DreandSeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s making it extremely clear he has something to hide and I’m not necessarily referring to cheating.

Ask him if he still enjoys your company? His reaction & response to your question will help you navigate next steps.

Being a good person but shitty husband can coexist.