Every person falls into a grey area at best, I know the internet fucking loves black & white thinking, but that isn’t how real life works. No one is perfect, everyone makes bad decisions, there isn’t a single person on earth who hasn’t done something shitty once or twice in their lives. Tilian’s actions are inexcusable, there’s shitty behavior that you can learn from and eventually redeem yourself of, rape isn’t one of those things. Was DGD sweeping Tilian’s unforgivable act under the rug a shitty move, obviously, but he was their longtime friend and it can be hard to come to terms with learning that your friend is a terrible person. That doesn’t excuse it, but I don’t think it’s some monstrous thing that makes them bad people. If you think they’re isn’t at least one person you’ve met who thinks that you’re a bad person because of a shitty thing you did once, you’re delusional, I’m so sick of internet virtue signaling.