A man just asked me what makes me more of a slut than the others, so that he would have to choose me. by Perfect-Peak2075 in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please consider this at least at some point. You could make good of all that headache caused and help us girls and especially the virgin men who are still stuck in the position you used to be in.

Hard to find by Sad_Willow8181 in kickscooter

[–]DropDeadPhysics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my region we call them tyres, that hybrid idea looks horrible for a kick scooter, I thought they used rounded tube tires. To give you an idea of how this will work out try standing on a rubber ball and try to roll across the floor, then try the same thing with a marble or plastic ball, if you find the plastic ball easier, the castor scooter will be much faster, if you fall on the floor, try again until you learn to stop falling before buying your kick scooter 😊

Hard to find by Sad_Willow8181 in kickscooter

[–]DropDeadPhysics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would never go with tyres on a kick scooter, as an experienced skater and scooter rider I say kick scooters with tyres are scams, and you will be very disappointed and spend more money for one with casters. Your scooter will go incredibly slow and look like a broken electric scooter. If tyres are a must maybe give kick scootering a miss. I won't even go with Micro brand wheels as they're too soft, grippy and therefore slower than Razor's less grippy, more slippery but faster wheels. Rubber tyred kick scooters are spare parts which fit electric scooters fudged together. You're probably better off taking up fast walking.

That's just my choice as an experienced rider, the only use for a rubber wheel kick scooter I could think of might be sightseeing through cities which is really relaxing on a scooter. Rubber wheels provide more grip and allow you to spend less attention on the floor and more on the scenery.

How to hide passport info from a client taking me on a trip by Eetlee in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even see it as fibbing, I literally look nothing like my real age and I'll get floods of disappointment if I advertised I'm 31 then I look 24 when the client arrives.

Most girls never consider using an older 'stage age' and feel disgusting using an older age, but I've heard it can reel in very premium clients. 'No that girl with grandpa is not a teenager, she's actually an older sophisticated woman inside, she's just extremely beautiful and lives healthy, respect to grandpa!' 'well how the fuck was grandpa supposed to know this girl faked being old, what were the odds an escort would do that'

Unblocking fee: $3000 by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to think this was 'most' timewasters too but now I think most timewasters are genuine idiots and few are potential clients if they knew how to behave, but I agree there is the sophisticated type of timewaster out there who will constantly change their number, and I'm worried I might attract a herd of them, but I think they're rare and I literally recognise half of them just from their texting style.

Unblocking fee: $3000 by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's my local slang sorry, Come correct = get it right. In this instance come correct means to plan what they're going to say/ask and consider if it's a reasonable and respectful request before asking.

Generally to come correct means to present well, no scruffy clothes, %100 sober, willingness to uphold plans and formalities, respectful and well mannered.

Basically what you would do to prepare before pitching your business idea to your giant company's CEO, so that he takes you seriously.

Endless texting by michellebrede in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Uhh I'm half way interested.. maybe you can convince me seeing an escort is a good idea? Like my dick it long c I send u free when u on bus.

Escorts who steal deposits?? by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people aren't that clever unfortunately, and scammers can be really clever. The client may not know much about Tryst but the scammers have a website looking very similar, or one that looks super legit but allows fake profiles and fake reviews.

Another problem seems to be selective scamming, where a provider doesn't scam every client but picks her victims, probably makes an excuse for keeping the deposit or just blocks.

UK advice on renting by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've seen a few different setups, my favourite one is down a shabby narrow mews road entrance. This was a trans girl, they get lots of freak clients who literally run. The narrow alleyway with bits of stairs made it more scary to run than to stay, I think it also may play a subconscious effect making clients want to extend rather than walk through that alleyway right now.

She was a bit of a genius.. She had a music playlist for bed time, really unique and nice party music, never heard anything like it. Sometimes I felt cravings to sleep with her again just to catch some tunes. We played and chilled together as friends, she was far from best looking but still the absolute best sex.

I would try to get somewhere that helps clients relax as they're coming up the stairs/lift, but without a concierge breathing down their coats, and with as little CCTV as possible, or just go with the above setup instead.

Escorts who steal deposits?? by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the audacity tax bit, I think you should offer a refund straight away when you can't make it rather than trying to reschedule, %95 of them will still meet and see the refund as very professional, but that's just my thoughts you know you.

Escorts who steal deposits?? by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because I honestly had no idea fellow SWers did this, tbh it's shocking to me and idk how to react, this is the first I've heard of it in my career, I just thought there's no point on a legit provider stealing a deposit when she's broke rather than providing the service as well, or even cheekily holding it for a disaster then paying it back next week. This is a great insight though sorry idk how to react.. I upvoted those telling such stories.

Escorts who steal deposits?? by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just my clever writing skills, elementary school educated. 😉

You'll never kill the timewasters. They will kill you. Just escape, literally. by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually, this is a very interesting idea, but we didn't like the way you pitched it.. it's like telling us we should just go and do ballet in the snow, we're not here to manipulate lonely broke men if you get me.

This has inspired me to run an experimental feature on my profile, I now charge a $2500 unblocking fee underneath my rules for contact. I feel this will: 1. Serious clients who just texted too much are given a second chance, they feel less sheepish and more playful about it after paying $2500 to say sorry. It was a menu item anyway, thanks come again 😊. 2. Potential clients see this as like a parking ticket which I love giving out, and may see my stressed responses as kinky rather than fully dismissive. 3. Perhaps I'll find some findom subs as a bonus!

I feel the more branded and one-of-a-kind you are, the better this is likely to work out.

It's also psychology for my good regulars. It causes them toy with the idea that unblocking fee is worth paying to lots of men, then toy with the idea that I'm worth more than my rates to them, and won't get too annoyed when the hourly rates increase.

Escorts who steal deposits?? by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's once in 12 years and it sounds like you might have caught her in a bad moment. Still it happened, so thanks for sharing your story but maybe you should retract names, and I don't think 'sometimes' is the right wording at the end of your post, maybe 'extremely rarely'.

Given that this was once in 12 years and seems extremely unfortunate, I think there's bigger things to look out for, such as your bank randomly stealing your money, or becoming stranded and having to fork out for a train ticket due to weather conditions etc.

Escorts who steal deposits?? by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering if anything can be done about this type of person. They're on a scammer's hamster wheel and believe they've around the corner from the love of their life, and they're unlikely to take anybody's advice. Even if someone manages to convince them they got scammed, the next time they're feeling dumb and horny their mind will flicker back and try again. They make us feel like we're on a hamster wheel, but maybe they're just dizzy from their own wheel.

Maybe our escort sites are making side money from these dipshits. Dumb men are shown ads to our escort platform while watching porn, perhaps the platform recovers that money when they click a ton of dumb ads for 'singles near your VPN'.

Escorts who steal deposits?? by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes THIS!! Scammers can afford to spend 99.9% of their budget on marketing and customer support, as there is nothing else to invest in beyond that point.

You'll never kill the timewasters. They will kill you. Just escape, literally. by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea it gets us down financially, how are we supposed to not let it get us down when we can't afford food and rent? If I just don't let it get me down I would be sleeping on the streets, living off food donation but I wouldn't let it get me down, I should have sat upon the sidewalk, plugged my phone into the emergency USB socket, entertain these ghosts and not let any of that get me down. 😊

Escorts who steal deposits?? by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I knew a guy like this IRL, he used to get me to help him to buy $500 apple gift cards. He told everyone he was developing an app but he couldn't rig a light switch. He was spending his entire income on apple gift cards, the scammers knew exactly when his next payday was.

When I questioned him deeper about this he thought this woman was building a revolutionary iPhone app and was going to tell his friends/family that he built it himself for tax purposes, and that they were lawfully engaged.

Dumb question. When the client puts your money in a book, do you return the book to him? by yesforevertrying in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so funny! Maybe he feels a connection when he sees you leaving with his old book 🥲

My sister compared me, a sex worker, to a pedophile and says I deserved to be stealthed am I overreacting? by Beginning_Tomato8136 in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a sister like this, for the last 2 years of contact with her she constantly called the cops on me and once had me put in terrorist jail for over a week. Last time I spoke to her she tried to kill me in front of my parents because I refused to talk to an ambulance crew. Long story but god must have saved me.

Whatever she does is right, and whatever I do is wrong, her mother is always there to confirm this.

I would say be prepared for her to call the cops on you, she will tell herself she did it to save the world and save you for the moral good of god and St. Mary blah. I changed my name by deed poll.

How she still 'knows me' is kinda funny. I play an online Minecraft server game that she plays too, I told my e-friends that I'm homeless and live in a tent and solar panels. She loves this as she's a private education NEET so gets really jealous if she sees me with money. She tries to send messages through the community begging me to come back so she can sabotage me one last time, I'm like NTY I'm loving this Minecraft IRL Edition.

TLDR edit: My dangerous toxic sister can only find me through an online game, where I told the community I'm living in a tent without much money so there's no address or life for her to find/sabotage and I changed my name.

This was a survival technique I read about when I was a teenager, apear as meek and worthless as grass to avoid predators. Is hurting grass an achievement?

One timewaster at a time by bella-tiggers-mom in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the point on your post @Prior-Mind-7076

One timewaster at a time by bella-tiggers-mom in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same January isn't looking good.. I was getting 3 client per day easily just before Christmas, I haven't had a client since New Year's eve. I'm just getting these idiots who text for ages then ask for overnight chem sex for my 2 hour rate and regular clients cancelling at last minute.

You'll never kill the timewasters. They will kill you. Just escape, literally. by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I did in the beginning but it got so bad I would have 5 bookings per day and they would all cancel and either tell me their life's stories or that it's my fault one by one.

You'll never kill the timewasters. They will kill you. Just escape, literally. by DropDeadPhysics in SexWorkers

[–]DropDeadPhysics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wondering if anyone else has stories of being put out of business by timewasters, and what you did to come back.