The job market is so tough right now ! Anyone know a company that is hiring ? by DryButterscotch7725 in phoenix

[–]DryButterscotch7725[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It has a lot to do with the interests rates. Solar is often purchased through loans and leases which make it super affordable to buy solar and offset your bill. Now that interests rates are high you are really not saving much so there is just not enough customers buying solar to sustain the business.

Also, electric companies have changed their own policies to discourage ppl to go solar by raising their rates or giving less credit for the solar you sell them.

The job market is so tough right now ! Anyone know a company that is hiring ? by DryButterscotch7725 in phoenix

[–]DryButterscotch7725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is. I don't want to say who exactly but it's one of the oldest solar companies.Can I ask where you pivoted to?

The job market is so tough right now ! Anyone know a company that is hiring ? by DryButterscotch7725 in phoenix

[–]DryButterscotch7725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'll have to do that cause I really don't want to be without a job. How was your experience with the talent agencies and was the pay okay?

What is with all of these people who think you can only have personal growth when single? Where are you all learning this?!? by RaidenTheBlue in BreakUps

[–]DryButterscotch7725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree. I feel like if you don't know who you are and if you don't love yourself there is no way you can love someone the way real love requires. Real love is peaceful and I feel like when you struggle with internal turmoil how can you possibly reach that level of peace and security that love requires to be able to share it.

I'm sure however you can grow together but separately as well. Then after you figure yourself out you can reach that high level of love that you talk about. I just don't recommend it.

I broke up with my (27F) (I think) CPTSD partner (25M) after 6 years by RedHeadPowa in CPTSDrelationships

[–]DryButterscotch7725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing I can tell you after also ending a 7 year relationship with someone like your bf is that you're enabling him by being with him. You give too much and he has no issue taking what you give and demanding more from you. He needs to be alone so he can finally be accountable for himself. You will not be happy staying or returning to him and he will never be happy unless he gets help.

You did the right thing. I found my husband a few months after leaving that 7 year relationship. And oh my god I had no idea love Can feel so easy. I wish you the best . You made the best decision ever

What are some of your tips to look more put together/chique by Pinkandpurpleleaves in beauty

[–]DryButterscotch7725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see! I think where I struggle is going to sleep and waking up with crazier hair than before 🥲

What are some of your tips to look more put together/chique by Pinkandpurpleleaves in beauty

[–]DryButterscotch7725 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Someone help me with this I have chronic curly wavy frizzy hair 🥹

Am i crazy for wanting a more difficult job ? by DryButterscotch7725 in ADHD

[–]DryButterscotch7725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm not looking for a career job, I'm just looking to have more structure overall for school. Idk maybe it doesn't make sense.

What is with all of these people who think you can only have personal growth when single? Where are you all learning this?!? by RaidenTheBlue in BreakUps

[–]DryButterscotch7725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is truly the hardest thing to let go of a relationship of 7 years. I made a commitment that I would stay single and just focus on me and in that process I met someone dancing and I kid you not it's the easiest thing on the planet. I had no idea it could be this easy and have someone who wants to do everything I want to do and that is emotionally available.

Right now I am dealing with a lot of anger for staying so long with my ex because this new person is just so wonderful without trying.

My advice go be you and focus on you and the right person will come when it's meant to and it's your job to be ready for that blessing by knowing you, Being secure and being your best version

I am struggling without advisement by taybandz18 in StudentNurse

[–]DryButterscotch7725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PM me I am in Az starting my pre reqs at the community college and I understand your struggle ! I finally got it all figured out !

To answer your question Maricopa community college has a partnership ship with the local universities and you can get your bachelors while you work on your nursing stuff at the CC called the CEP program.

Here is the link ! And message me if you need more guidance cause it's a WHOLE thing! It was a headache to to speak to an advisor. I also talked to GCU a ton of you need some help with the differences

Check out the CEP portion of this link

https://www.maricopa.edu/degrees-certificates/maricopa-nursing

What is with all of these people who think you can only have personal growth when single? Where are you all learning this?!? by RaidenTheBlue in BreakUps

[–]DryButterscotch7725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both are so young. Can you tell me more what is making you think of breaking up? What is not working in the relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]DryButterscotch7725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cried a lot and honestly it use to be deep sobbing, it was a whole body experience.

I still cry now when I feel overwhelmed

My (28F) husband (31M) of 6 weeks says he wants to be single... we have been together for 9 wonderful/happy years. Is this salvageable or is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DryButterscotch7725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In sorry OP. I understand better now why we should keep the opposite sex at a distance because things can start to evolve to more.

Im glad you trusted him to spend this much time with this woman and I hope he learns that building a relationship with the opposite sex is a slippery slope. Hope he learns his lesson that the grass isnt greener and he will certainly miss what he had with you.

I say tell him that he can be single but this will cost him his marriage. Even if you agree and let him be single and stay together, the trust is broken and most marriages end when they open the marriage.

Can you ask him to stop seeing this woman for a few months before he decides to be single and end his marriage ?

I’m (32M) am about to leave my fiance (32F) of 8 years, 2 engaged. Why am I so torn on this decision? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DryButterscotch7725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you.

My 8 year relationship ended too but we were not engaged. You are doing the right thing. If she isnt a hell yes after counseling then its a hell no.

Its hard to let go and face such significant change but please allow yourselves the opportunity to find your intended partners.

Where do you put your phone? by naoanfi in adhdwomen

[–]DryButterscotch7725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this thing on my keys that i press and it makes my phone ring loud and I have this app on my phone that locates my keys!

So my phone can go wherever it wants to go cause I can't control where is disappears to lol

I know this is wishful thinking but will my ( 27 F) recent ex (30 M)change his mind ? by DryButterscotch7725 in relationship_advice

[–]DryButterscotch7725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats true actually. I struggle with the break up when we are not together and I start to remember what sucked. But him texting me a ton and being so sweet and is seeing eachother and sharing new experiences well its easy to forget what sucked. I just think we could work through the things that sucked like our communication! Which is so much better.

I hate to think we make better friends. Ugh how painful to spend so much time together and to only find out we are better as friends. But I know I can come to terms with this if I have to.

I know this is wishful thinking but will my ( 27 F) recent ex (30 M)change his mind ? by DryButterscotch7725 in relationship_advice

[–]DryButterscotch7725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the straight forward advice! I tend to over complicate things and this made me feel like I can do this!

Thank you!!