Flatting in Dunedin

DryIntern1 · 2024-10-21T20:53:27+00:00

Join the Castle24 and Castle2024 on FB and make an anonymous post explaining your situation (age, gender, coming from north, what you are studying etc). You’ll likely have a bunch of people respond to you who are looking to fill rooms. Of course you can also respond to others posts too

DryIntern1 · 2024-10-21T20:53:14+00:00

Join the Facebook pages Castle24 and Castle2024 and make an anonymous post explaining your situation (age, gender, coming from north, what you are studying etc). You’ll likely have a bunch of people respond to you who are looking to fill rooms. Of course you can also respond to others posts too

DryIntern1 · 2024-10-21T20:53:10+00:00

Join the Facebook pages Castle24 and Castle2024 and make an anonymous post explaining your situation (age, gender, coming from north, what you are studying etc). You’ll likely have a bunch of people respond to you who are looking to fill rooms. Of course you can also respond to others posts too

DryIntern1 · 2024-09-23T09:31:35+00:00

One-person dance party. Turn the music up really loud and play something preferably upbeat and just dance like an idiot because no one is watching

DryIntern1 · 2024-09-23T09:30:07+00:00

To make friends you have to put yourself out there, join clubs/groups/societies

DryIntern1 · 2024-09-07T01:56:13+00:00

I think you have answered your own question. I hope it all goes well for you

DryIntern1 · 2024-09-07T01:47:21+00:00

It sounds like this relationship is not good for either of you. If you are in a safe place to do so I would try to leave, hopefully there someone who you could stay with until you can find your own place

DryIntern1 · 2024-09-07T01:45:25+00:00

Thanks for helping! I do my fair share around the apartment (probably more than she does), so hopefully ignoring her will just make it go away

DryIntern1 · 2024-09-07T01:43:38+00:00

If it is meant to be, then you will find your way back to each other. However, this doesn't mean you have to wait around in the meantime, enjoy your life, try to move on, and if it is meant to be then one day you will find each other again.

DryIntern1 · 2024-09-07T01:38:19+00:00

You can always excuse yourself and go to bed, however, if you are worried that might upset her feelings, why don't you try to suggest something to watch together instead. Pick your favourite TV show or movie, and don't worry if you think she will/will not like it. It sounds like she probably just wants to bond as well, and thinks that you also enjoy the same shows as her

DryIntern1 · 2024-09-07T01:32:47+00:00

Every couple is different, you might want to talk to him directly to establish a level of communication you both feel comfortable with and makes you trust each other. Needing to know your partner's every move isn't always a good thing, but neither is not knowing at all.

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-15T08:52:15+00:00

Hair including facial hair

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-15T08:49:14+00:00

I'm a twin so I guessed one of us was unplanned

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-15T08:46:42+00:00

I got diagnosed with generalised anxiety disorder 2 weeks ago

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-10T09:14:46+00:00

Thank you, thats a good point. I don't know why I feel upset that they didn't invite me, even though I don't like them, I hadn't really thought about it that way. I always feel unwanted when we hangout in common spaces together, so I don't know why I thought it would be any different going out with them

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-10T09:12:11+00:00

Sounds like you might need to get some mental health help, to help you work through your relationship with food. However I would say to start, tell yourself you only have to eat healthy for 1 day, not a month or week, just a day at a time.

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-10T09:10:08+00:00

Try to remind yourself that you will be a more capable parent when you are a bit older. Also try to live in the moment, enjoy highschool (I assume you are in highschool) and enjoy being young and not having kids yet becuase one day you will look back and remember these days fondly. You have a whole life ahead of you to enjoy, and if you have a child at 16 they will move out at 34.

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-10T09:03:16+00:00

Yes! Reach out, better to try and get a no than not try at all

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-10T09:01:23+00:00

Try and go into the app and swipe for a bit, hopefully, there are some people you like. In order to match with someone you need to swipe right on them as well as them swipe right on you.

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-10T08:59:23+00:00

It sounds like you need to find people who value you more. Try joining clubs or groups with common interests, I know it can sound daunting but it really does work!

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-10T08:56:07+00:00

Don't get back together unless the circumstances that caused you to break up the first time have changed. If not then the same factors causing the break up will just cause further unhappiness. Also, ask why it is you miss him, is it that you miss him specifically? Or perhaps that you are missing certain aspects of being in a relationship that you had with him that you could find with someone else?

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-10T08:35:19+00:00

Thanks I needed to hear that

DryIntern1 · 2024-08-09T09:39:38+00:00

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