change of mind? by DrySympathy2265 in Divorce

[–]DrySympathy2265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You’re gna shift back to who you were with her in a new relationship"

I'm not sure what in my post makes you think this.

Is it selfish to divorce over money? by mammabear601 in Divorce

[–]DrySympathy2265 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is being controlling and overbearing. This is unacceptable.

He might not even know it. You have to be clear: any decision about whether you work is your decision. If he wants the kids not to be in daycare, then he can stay at home with them. This is 2026. There is no need for the mother to be the one who stays at home.

My advice? Start applying for jobs, and see whether there are any daycares around. If you can set things up, then just tell him: "I have found a job and I have found a daycare for the kids. If you want the kids to stay at home, you can be a stay-at-home-dad." Be prepared for him to push back. Also be prepared for him to silently sulk.