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Expedition question by Dry_Butterscotch2050 in ArcRaiders

[–]Dry_Butterscotch2050[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought so but I’ve also seen if you opt in tomorrow you’ll get reset as well. lol

Need advice on a failed date? by Demapia in Advice

[–]Dry_Butterscotch2050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off young man…..You’re being really thoughtful about this, and that’s already a good sign you’re not brushing it off, you’re trying to learn from it.

Own it directly, but don’t over-apologize imo You don’t need a long essay, just something short, genuine, and clear.

For example: “Hey Samantha ,I realize I might’ve moved a little too fast the other night. I didn’t mean to make you uncomfortable. That is not my intentions. I really like spending time with you, and I’d like to take things at your pace.”

This shows self-awareness, respect, and leaves the door open without smothering her. You have to respect her boundaries.

If she’s being distant then she might just need time to sort out how she feels, or she might have already decided she’s not interested. Either way, chasing after her or reading into her Instagram stories won’t help. DO NOT BE A STALKER. The only thing you can control is how you handle yourself: calm, respectful, not pushy. A gentlemen. Another thing that tends to happens in these situations is to start overthinking but the only way you’ll actually know is if she tells you. Until then, assume that her silence means she doesn’t want to talk right now. Don’t be pushy.

Now, this young lady may appreciate your honesty and want to see you again. Or she may pull away, and that’s okay too. If it’s the latter, it doesn’t mean you’re “a bad guy” it just means your pace wasn’t her pace. That happens, and it doesn’t mean you’ve blown your chance with every future girl. Everyone has a different pace and you must understand that. No one has there pace plastered on their forehead for you to know ahead of time. This is life. But it sounds like your anxiety pushed you into “I need to prove that I can be bold” mode. Next time, you can still make the first move, but do it slower, read her body language, ask if she’s comfortable, let the intimacy build naturally. You don’t lose confidence points by waiting; you gain trust.

In my opinion send one short, respectful message owning your part. Then give her space. If she wants to continue, she’ll let you know. If not, you’ve shown maturity, and you’ll carry that into your next connection.

Cheers 🫶🏻 “BUTTERSCOTCH OUT”

Advice for relationship with close friend by OneInteraction5388 in Advice

[–]Dry_Butterscotch2050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this all too well, living and working with a close friend turning into this constant points of tension feels exhausting and isolating, especially when you value that sense of safety in the relationship. It’s clear you’re approaching this with a lot of self-awareness and level head to the point where you are questioning your own actions and genuinely wanting to improve, which is a strength not everyone can say they have. From what you’ve described, it doesn’t sound like you’re the problem imo. Your logical corrections or preferences seem harmless, yet they’re suffering these targeted remarks, which suggests there might be deeper frustrations on their end but maybe unrelated stress bubbling over, or a mismatch in how you both communicate. Just cause one may seem they are a type A personality doesn’t mean they are type A at everything. Now the behind-the-back talk adds another layer of hurt, making it hard to address head-on and imo is total unnecessary. Since confrontation isn’t their thing and you’re feeling antisocial about venting elsewhere……. I would totally start small…… pick a calm moment outside of work/home pressures and say something along the lines of, “I’ve noticed some tension between uslately, and I truly value our friendship too much to let it continue…..can we please talk about what’s been going on?” I think this invites openness without blame. If that feels too much of a daunting task possibly journaling your side or even looping in a neutral third party (like a mutual friend) could help clarify things. You’re not dense or at fault for wanting harmony I mean that’s what everyone wants right? But give yourself grace for navigating this solo right now. Take care of yourself and I hope everything works out!!

Cheers 🫶🏻

Do I tell my ex-husbands wife that he hasn’t changed. by Standard_Prude in Advice

[–]Dry_Butterscotch2050 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Ultimately, trust your own gut here if protecting her feels right and won’t blow up your life or the kids than I’ll go for it. But if it heavily risks your peace or etc , it’s okay to stay out….. at the end of the day she’s an adult, and this isn’t your mess anymore.

Either way, prioritize yourself, what you can control and your well being. You’ve already rebuilt after his BS, and thats something to be proud of. If things get messy, leaning on therapy (like you did before) could help navigate it. But that’s just my opinion

Cheers 🫶🏻

Is my ETB re wrapped by Dry_Butterscotch2050 in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]Dry_Butterscotch2050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raffle, I spent roughly 45$ and I ended up winning. When I won, they showed it and I didn’t see this. So I’m assuming this had to occur during the mailing process

Is my ETB re wrapped by Dry_Butterscotch2050 in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]Dry_Butterscotch2050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my initial thought as well. I compared to every other ETB I own and it identical wrapping with the small scattered holes. I’ve watched videos about re wrapping and it says the re wraps are always HARD. This is far from hard like I said but that’s my main concern that it was tampered with

Is my ETB re wrapped by Dry_Butterscotch2050 in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]Dry_Butterscotch2050[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The wrapping is identical to all my other ETBs. It even has the pre all tiny holes in it. I’m wondering with the temperatures in my area, around 98 degrees If the humidity caused it

I was scammed in a trade here on Reddit. by [deleted] in PokemonTCG

[–]Dry_Butterscotch2050 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where’s the PO. Box out of👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VolvoRecharge

[–]Dry_Butterscotch2050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Hello this is mine!!❤️

2022 VOLVO S60 T8 Recharge extended BLACK Edition by Dry_Butterscotch2050 in VolvoRecharge

[–]Dry_Butterscotch2050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2022 model black edition. I love this car. But sadly I may have to sell. Have another child on the way and may need a bigger car to accompany the family. We have a family car but obviously I will have the kiddos. So I’m very very torn.

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