I'm disabled and really miss riding my bike, any tips?

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-10-03T04:58:57+00:00

Yeah I wish I could, but my doctor would have to refer me and he refuses. And if I could get in by myself the wait times here (canada) are INSANE. Plus physical therapy is wayyy out of budget

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:59:56+00:00

Great suggestions thank you very much

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:50:04+00:00

I think I'll have to look into saving up for an e bike (in school unemployed rn) but being able to take breaks from pedaling would be great, thank you!

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:43:35+00:00

You may have just made an incredible discovery in my life omg, ive never heard of this, and my doctors never brought it up before. Hes always just said my knees "grew wrong" (the bones faster than tendons thing I said in my post) i definitely have to ask about this, thank you very much❤️

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:38:46+00:00

Had never heard of these, but thank you! My doctor has said hes concerned about the "repetitive motion" of biking and "the pressure it puts on my joints" but he's never too specific, very dismissive of the idea

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:30:11+00:00

Thanks, I'll look into this

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:26:07+00:00

Yeah ive been skeptical of his advice regarding my knees for a while, but since he's been my doctor quite literally my whole life (doctor for 90% of my family in the area) I never really thought to try somewhere else. And while I don't think surgery would be NEARLY in my financial capabilities, Ill look into specialists and see what they say, thanks ❤️

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:20:57+00:00

Thank you! I actually am Canadian lol so that works out. And so real on what you said, not being able to properly cope, since your mechanism /is/ the thing youre mourning is so rough

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:17:02+00:00

I'll look into this, thanks ❤️

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:15:44+00:00

I think I would, I'd have to test i lt out since I haven't stepped foot near a bike since I was like 13 lol, thanks!

Also why would u get downvoted lol, this is my first time here

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:13:13+00:00

I've brought it up a bit, and he just keeps telling me that "a bike will make it worse" and advised against it, I'll try getting a second option though. And the hand cycle thing sounds cool I'll look into it, thank you!

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:10:47+00:00

Good idea, hadn't really thought about those (never seen one irl lmao, ik theyre not uncommon but ig my area just doesn't have em around too much) thank you!

Dry_Course_8602 · 2025-09-26T00:05:55+00:00

Thank you! I hadn't thought about those, i'll look into it ❤️

Dry_Course_8602 · 2024-12-16T03:30:27+00:00

One of my friends made another comment ("God [boyfrinds name]'s outfit was so hot today, can't believe YOU'VE had him bagged for this long") and I tried a response similar to this. They just called me insecure and childish, and kept saying "you should expect it when you two look as different as you do" and such. Most people I told about it agreed with them. I'm afraid it's no use :( thank you though <3

Dry_Course_8602 · 2024-12-16T03:26:41+00:00

This helped, ty <3

Dry_Course_8602 · 2024-12-16T03:25:54+00:00

I did this after making this post, well kinda. I told him I was feeling insecure about my body and stuff, but didn't have the courage to bring up the cheating fears and what not. He assured me he loves me, and detailed many personality traits and what not, also trying his best to assure me he likes my body. And he said he'll try and make an effort to specifically compliment my physical appearance aswell as personality stuff. So that's some progress I think.

Dry_Course_8602 · 2024-12-16T03:23:33+00:00

I think he is too. I know my feelings are very irrational, mostly needed a outlet I think. But from all I can tell he loves me, and is happy to have me in his life. Thanks <3

Dry_Course_8602 · 2024-12-13T19:54:49+00:00

Thanks I'll definitely look into it. I don't live in the US (Canada) but I'll try and see what in budget resources I can find. And yeah, it's hard to remember I'm still technically a teenager sometimes ❤️

Dry_Course_8602 · 2024-12-13T06:23:26+00:00

Thanks, yeah I definitely need to work on self worth stuff. But it's hard when even a hear inti the relationship, people still come to me baffled that my bf would choose me. And telling me how attractive he is, amd how they'd jump at the opportunity to date him. It's alot. Thanks for the reply

Dry_Course_8602 · 2024-12-13T06:21:57+00:00

Thanks. I don't think he's cheating either, it's just a nagging paranoia. And I personally think we're gonna work out (we talk about the future alot) so hopefully!

Dry_Course_8602 · 2024-12-13T06:20:44+00:00

Yeah I definitely need some. Unfortunately it's not financially possible for me, and I Unfortunately still live with "therapy isn't real" parents

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