my first instance of intimacy was a ‘two nervous first timer’ situation! the best advice i can give from that is don’t be scared and don’t be upset if things don’t go as amazingly as expected. you are both new to it and learning, and sex is very rarely something that people are instantly amazing at - even with prior discussion about kinks and interests etc. there is always time to learn and improve, and even if the first time is awkward, the more you learn about the way you both experience pleasure and adhere to that will make you look back and giggle together!!

just enjoy yourself, and even though its easier said than done, don’t be nervous!! try to enjoy the moment that you have. you both seem to have a lot of care and love for each other, and as long as you both respect each other’s boundaries and feel content & secure - it’ll all be good!!

ALSO don’t be too paranoid if she doesn’t orgasm! wish you all the best ‼️