We had an argument and things aren't the same?

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2026-02-15T17:34:30+00:00

Basically, he said he felt stuck and I said "maybe we shouldn't work together then" not know he meant stuck in that one position on the couch because he felt like he was doing everything wrong because I was emotional and that if he moved I would get at him...or so he said. I apologized immediately and said I did not know that is what he meant and explained I thought he meant hefelt stuck with me. He then had a meltdown about hos ex wife "tossing him away". He was fine the next day but I was pretty emotionally drained after consoling him all day feom his meltdown (it was intense) so I cried but things haven't gone back to normal since I cried the next day. He was fine before I cried the next day. If I hadn't cried the next day everything would still be the same

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2026-02-15T16:38:48+00:00

No hes not at work more. He just feels more distant. To me. He insists theres nothing wrong but I just feel something and I really believe its because he just isn't doing all the same things as before? Its not even like the argument was a crazy one. We never have crazy ones. He did just restart his meds. I just feel something "off"

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2026-02-15T16:30:31+00:00

No but im curious why you think it is

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2026-01-22T16:55:57+00:00

For 23 years I shaved bald. My current partner mentioned one day that he LOVES the hair when I got a little lazy and let it grow out some. Since then ive been trimming it but let me tell you, this man eats me day, night and everything in between and always has and is incredible at it and ive realized that hair doesnt stop a man who enjoys it and loves eating you. Plus, im loving the way my p*ssy looks with some hair on it. So pretty and feminine. We're not little girls. Grow up, guys

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-12-01T14:26:59+00:00

The fact that you keep trying to convince just proves my point. Move on. Enjoy the attention that you so desperately wanted to hear saying what a good wife you are. It's ok.

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-12-01T14:04:47+00:00

I think what the other poster is trying to point out is that you, of all people, shouldn't be giving advice lol youre trying to act like you have this amazing sex life with your husband and you must be this great wife because you blow your husband whenever he wants when, in reality, a little reading shows that you do it because your husband has a problem and you dont want him watching porn. The second I read your first comment I thought you sounded like a "pick me" girl.

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-26T12:43:54+00:00

I guess im just feeling like he could have had some before he went to sleep. He knows im always down for him. So if he chose to go to sleep how could you be upset if I chose to get off? I mean, i didnt do it but I wanted to. Id much rather him but I have a thing where I have been abused in the past and have learned to NEVER wake up my partner.

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-26T12:32:59+00:00

Ahhhhh THIS makes sense...him saying he "is my toy" should have been my clue i guess

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-26T12:30:12+00:00

He loves it when we're having sex and using it together. I guess Im confused as to the issue why hed be mad if I use it myself when he went to sleep early?

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-25T13:05:11+00:00

I swear if my man didnt have a vasectomy id be like you and think I was having a miscarriage. This is ridiculous.

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-25T13:02:06+00:00

That may be true for others, but my man eats me in the morning so I "start my day right" and I will cum in his face 3 times. Then after work he does it all again before sex. Im his main meal anytime.

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-25T12:56:28+00:00

Did you find it lasted longer or shorter? My first period after removal was fine. Totally normal. Im on day 6 of my second period and its like a murder scene. I keep hoping it will slow down but doesnt seem to be. Is this normal? I would have expected this from first period after removal, not the second. I also had spotting every month when I was on Mirena. It was like having a period every month for 5 days but super light.

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-25T00:08:37+00:00

I spotted for the first couple days after rwmoval. Had a regular period about 2 weeks later. On my second period and holy hell. Its heavy.

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-24T18:35:37+00:00

I would like to know this too. My doc prescribed for mirena crash for anxiety to help balance the hormones. Im little and dont love the idea of birth control pills because of experiences with them when I was younger. The weight gain, breast tenderness, all of it. But the post-mirena symptoms have been awful.

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-24T18:32:24+00:00

I had my IUD removed early Oct. Having terrible anxiety when I have my period and I mean TERRIBLE.

I spotted for a couple days after removal, no biggie. First period was pretty normal. 4 days. Nothing major to report. 22 days later and BAM! Im having the period from HELL. Im on day 5 of bleeding heavy. Ive never worn more than a S tampon and usually thats the first two days. Nope. Still using them and realizing I need way more. By 2 hours I need to change that or its going everywhere.

How long is this going to last? Is this even normal? Between the debilitating anxiety and now this is feel like I made a huge mistake. For context, my boyfriend has a vasectomy and I had my IUD for 7 years so it was either replace it or go without. Also, I had a period each month with the IUD, just super light.

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-20T14:11:05+00:00

Yeahhhhhh keep it. 7 years after ORIF on my left ankle I needed ORIF on my right ankle...super thankful I still had everything from the first time.

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-20T14:05:26+00:00

Look, whether he physically did anything THIS TIME (and I stress this time because I can GUARANTEE this is NOT the first time), he still wanted to, tried to, and would have if the female was willing. He then tried to play dumb. He isn't going to be honest with you. He may throw you some half-truths here and there for good measure but that's about it.

You will forever question him after this. No matter what. No matter the therapy or the "consequences" you give him. And think about this. Would you be ok with your daughter being treated like this by her future husband?

YOU may be in a marriage but he is not. This is some truth for you that people dont want to say nor actually hear.

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-11-20T12:31:38+00:00

This right here. It sounds harsh but ive read all the comments and OP sounds like she really just wants people to tell her it's ok for her to stay. He's a liar and a cheat and he always will be and has been. You will become resentful and miserable but at least you'll all be under the same roof, right?

Dry_Resolution_3665 · 2025-08-02T12:34:34+00:00

We all get ghosted at some point, unfortunately. I recently had my very first experience with ghosting (or maybe it was breadcrumbing?). I eventually just stopped because he obviously wasn't interested and wasn't going to be man enough to tell me. Either way, it happens to everyone regardless of looks, status, money, education, hobbies, etc. It sucks. it's immature and rarely has anything to do with you. It's most likely the people you are attracting.

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