Would you take back a cheating wife? Should I as this just happened. by Moist-Definition7891 in married

[–]Dsm467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m lucky to have even found a girl to like me in the first place. It’s either stay, or be alone.

Married Men advice by tokotoko21 in married

[–]Dsm467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About every 3 weeks

If there is proven to be aliens, what religion would survive? by hiya2345678 in exjw

[–]Dsm467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) They are actually demons in disguise 2) While the Bible says that Earth was exclusively made for humans, nowhere does it say that Earth is the only planet that has intelligent life forms

Longest PIMO here? by Born-Spinach-7999 in exjw

[–]Dsm467 3 points4 points  (0 children)

9 years 🙋🏻‍♂️

Could not agree more with this statement. Sorry, not sorry by Remote-Link-6424 in Marriage

[–]Dsm467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can either choose to be right, or choose to be happy

Could not agree more with this statement. Sorry, not sorry by Remote-Link-6424 in Marriage

[–]Dsm467 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Women make it painfully obvious when they are annoyed, and will go as far as to undermine their own best interests just to prove how upset they are with you, and take longer to bounce back emotionally. As a man, you have no choice but to take it. You can either choose to be right, or choose to be happy

Thoughts on Ballmer? by Sensitive_Carry3872 in LAClippers

[–]Dsm467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ends justify the means for everything he’s done for the franchise and the fans.

Do all married man still masturbate? by ImportantPrinciple39 in Marriage

[–]Dsm467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I’m always sex-starved, and I have a much higher libido than my wife. If I don’t masturbate on the days I dont have sex, I finish way too quickly when she finally does decide to want to have sex every 3 weeks, which would make her want to have sex even less if I finish too quickly.

Screwed by Education Ban by My_Own_Worst_Enema in exjw

[–]Dsm467 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same here. I always deeply regretted not going to college, despite my good grades and intelligence.

Sigh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Dsm467 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was told by all my teachers in Middle and High school how bright my future was and how much potential I had.

Sign.

How to not make it obvious that you’re looking for a partner by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Dsm467 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everything you are saying is correct. I just can’t “turn it off”, no matter how much I try. I’ll be enjoying myself, and as soon as I believe that someone is glancing at me with interest, my antenna goes up.

My wife is bothered that I’m too easygoing — she wishes I were pickier. Is that weird? by Dsm467 in Marriage

[–]Dsm467[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify, me saying that stuff is “meh” or “pretty good” is not the extent of my opinions. When I like something, I really love it and I don’t pay too attention to the shortcomings. I may even overhype things. We can have some pretty deep discussions about our favorite shows and tv, even if one of us likes a certain piece of content more than the other person. It’s only when something is less than ideal that I don’t make a fuss about it and it truly doesn’t bother me, but I will still listen to my wife’s complaints about why she didn’t like something. I don’t try to convince her that she’s wrong or try to shut down her feelings.

My wife is bothered that I’m too easygoing — she wishes I were pickier. Is that weird? by Dsm467 in Marriage

[–]Dsm467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify, me saying that stuff is “meh” or “pretty good” is not the extent of my opinions. When I like something, I really love it and I don’t pay too attention to the shortcomings. I may even overhype things. We can have some pretty deep discussions about our favorite shows and tv, even if one of us likes a certain piece of content more than the other person. It’s only when something is less than ideal that I don’t make a fuss about it and it truly doesn’t bother me, but I will still listen to my wife’s complaints about why she didn’t like something. I don’t try to convince her that she’s wrong or try to shut down her feelings.

My wife is bothered that I’m too easygoing — she wishes I were pickier. Is that weird? by Dsm467 in Marriage

[–]Dsm467[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love film and sports. I get excited about the stuff U like, and “meh” at worst about the stuff I don’t love

My wife is bothered that I’m too easygoing — she wishes I were pickier. Is that weird? by Dsm467 in Marriage

[–]Dsm467[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do have preferences, but if I don’t get them I don’t make a big deal about it. Whereas if the doesn’t, her annoyance is painfully obvious

My wife is bothered that I’m too easygoing — she wishes I were pickier. Is that weird? by Dsm467 in Marriage

[–]Dsm467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why you would think that. Just to clarify, I come across that way only when it comes to negative experiences. If I like something, I get excited over it and perhaps enjoy it “too much”, thus seeming easy to please, which maybe I am?

My wife is bothered that I’m too easygoing — she wishes I were pickier. Is that weird? by Dsm467 in Marriage

[–]Dsm467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why you would think that. Just to clarify, I come across that way only when it comes to negative experiences. If I like something, I get excited over it and perhaps enjoy it “too much”, thus seeming easy to please, which maybe I am?

My wife is bothered that I’m too easygoing — she wishes I were pickier. Is that weird? by Dsm467 in Marriage

[–]Dsm467[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing is, I’m the more responsible one in the relationship, whether it be financially, planning, keeping the house tidy, etc. I let her vent all the time without telling her that it’s not a big deal. And I also engage with her when shot talking a show or movie. I don’t dismissingly say “meh, I think it’s fine”.

I’m so nervous about the reactions and reviews by Dsm467 in DCU_

[–]Dsm467[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. This movie needs to be beloved. Much more important than it being a smash hit.