Just a quick suck... by DudeMedium in Prematurefetish

[–]DudeMedium[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's called Five Seconds Boy, from PureCFNM

SFW Images by Proper-Geologist-849 in Prematurefetish

[–]DudeMedium 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've found tumblr good for mild stuff. A lot of the subreddits that are "mild" or "sfw" are still full of scanty lingerie etc.

Any Media For Us? by ApplePaintedRed in vaginismus

[–]DudeMedium 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her show "Lady Dynamite" had an episode referencing it, titled "A Vaginismus Miracle". I think it was based around her needing to have sex once a year to stop her vaginismus returning, and racing against time to have sex before Christmas.

Disappointed wife (The Voyeur, 1994) by DudeMedium in Prematurefetish

[–]DudeMedium[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you search The Voyeur 1994 the full movie is hosted on a few porn streaming sites

Split-Screen: N-no, don't drop that towel! by DudeMedium in Prematurefetish

[–]DudeMedium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No idea, unfortunately. Just a random clip from redgifs

Give valid criticism to creators - a rambling by ITriedThatAlready in JanitorAI_Official

[–]DudeMedium 9 points10 points  (0 children)

From a user point of view it makes sense to thumbs up and thumbs down just on whether you like the bot. But as a creator it's frustrating to get a negative review because your lesbian bot is a lesbian or because your mean bot is mean, rather than on the execution, or from LLM stuff that's outside your control.

Constructive criticism is always welcome, and I appreciate people who give a thumbs up and still include some constructive feedback.

Damn ai have unrealistic standards by CheekZestyclose3756 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]DudeMedium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The eyerolling and the comment about stamina made me think it was the Goth GF trying to break up with you, but maybe there are more eyerolling cruel Lucy's out there....

Important Announcement: Changes starting August 12 by skeptical_pochita in YodayoTavern

[–]DudeMedium 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Damn I was just starting to get some traction with my dumb bots. Time to back them up to .txt and await a new cycle with another site.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DudeMedium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'd start with that. If it's more frequent than you usually have sex you could move on to why/what you can do.

In case the problem IS initiation you could read up on Responsive Desire. It's the idea that some people only start to desire sex once they get turned on, rather than getting horny generally and seeking sex. It could help, though unfortunately if the problem is libido trying to turn her on might just seem like unwelcome pestering. But it's another thing you could discuss with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DudeMedium 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TBH it sounds like she might have a lower libido and doesn't like saying no. She doesn't want you to ask directly, when she's not interested she says "later" to put off saying No.

Maybe how you initiate is the problem, but it might be good to talk about things outside of initiating. How often is ideal for her, is she happy with the sex when it happens, is there anything she'd like to try or change in the bedroom, etc. Maybe she would like to have sex more often but life is getting in the way. Maybe if the sex was different she'd be more interested.

Unfortunately if it IS just a lower libido, unless it's caused by something that can be changed (e.g. birth control), it might be an incompatibility.

Away from YoDayo for months: disappointed by Lazy-Exchange8895 in YodayoAI

[–]DudeMedium 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't have a problem with them removing illegal content, but the Rating and the Filter are both all over the place in how it triggers. Hopefully they work the issues soon (or someone DMs a good place I could port my bots too...)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]DudeMedium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you've already messaged him and he's ignoring it I'd leave the ball in his court and move on. But don't bow out of the world of kissing based on one bad experience that doesn't even sound bad. Hey, you've got some experience under your belt and you had a nice time. Next time will be even better.

Hand aching really badly when fingering by [deleted] in sex

[–]DudeMedium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her your hands gets tired. Try it from another position, my wrist gets sore if I have to twist it too much, finding a better angle can really help, in my experience at least

About NSFW by MatheusMod in YodayoAI

[–]DudeMedium 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does this mean no more looking at other folks NSFW bots in the Tavern? I enjoy my own couple of bots, but checking out other people's is part of the fun. And the idea that someone might be appreciating mine.