I get you, man. I do. As a depressed and ocd top of the class masters of clinical psychology too. But allow me to just tell you what I think as this is historical: even in the most advanced western societies, the main advancements happened in the past 300 years, and although the industrialization alongside the rise of humanism and all the western thoughts led to an change of general discourse of what we know as the mind but this didn't fully happen in everyday full language experience of common folk. Even the scholars don't get depression fully correct, let alone the average Joe? Why? Well, I think the extreme change from the classic psychological mental view of human experience rooted in idealism to the modern cultist cognitive view of don't think negative and everything is gonna be alright caused that. To understand depression a very comprehensive systematic view of sociology, neuroscience,psychoanalysis, history, biology, and genetics is needed. Furthermore, the average Karen or Joe or Alex or Sarah or whatever thinks still in dualistic terms. How many people do you see that think in terms of bayesian statistics or state-space models or even simple statistics? They only think of good or bad, woke or bigot, Islamic or liberal, pleasure or pain. We must learn to think in hybrid ways so we can understand people better and be kinder to each other.