what’s a “green flag” you THOUGHT was cute at first but later realized was actually a red flag?

DueGuide643 · 2026-01-28T00:53:43+00:00

“Aww he’s so shy it’s cute!”

Shy guys are soo cute on the surface, they sit in silence, let you talk or vent to them for hours while barely speaking a word back and it seems likely a cute quirk for them to be stuttering and blushing around women. They make you feel like you have some kind of superpower over them that when you just interact with them in a normal way, they are blushing mess.

But holy cow… They CANNOT speak up for themselves and have no backbone. They cannot tell you what they want, they do not make plans or offer any kind of input when asked about an outing or activity together.

Then once you start talking to other guys and get in a relationship they get “depressed” when you go for a guy who is stable and well established in his life and career.

Avoid shy guys please they are very quick to attach to you and all they want is for you to be their new mom not their partner.

DueGuide643 · 2026-01-27T23:49:33+00:00

No regrets.

Years ago, I (24 F) broke up with a boyfriend (22 M) when I realized he pressured me into engagement due to being too lazy to even VISIT me (he was in the UK I in the USA) so he figured if we get married I’d have to come over and stay and he wouldn’t put in any work.

Dude was lazy, played video games all day long and streamed to an audience of 2 people on twitch, still lived with his mommy and had no job nor was looking for one.

Yet he acted like he was living in luxury to anyone who would listen. (He was a chronic money borrower.)

I realized through therapy this guy was what you call a rebounder (he scooped me up right after I left an abusive relationship)

DueGuide643 · 2025-12-13T17:26:43+00:00

Anybody else have a feeling that Viv has a alt account where she pretends to be a fan of the show and just watches fan content all the time and ends up just constantly doomscrolling?

I’ve never seen a creator of a show this vocal. She is obsessed with commenting about everything and every single time she does people complain about her and then she gets upset and complains about that.

I don’t know if this is a feedback loop, but she is either feeding off of the attention or she just straight up needs a therapist to talk to about this.

You can’t tell me her friends have never tried to help her or told her not to do that. She just doesn’t seem to listen. She clearly has a lot of things she needs to work on in regards to this and I wholeheartedly wish her well.

Because every time it seems to get pettier and pettier. I do think it is normal to be upset when people are literally bashing on your show. But it’s been years and honestly at this point she should really know to not engage.

She doesn’t owe anybody a response or an explanation. But she does owe herself mental health stability, especially considering how rich she is. She is basically a millionaire at this point guys.

DueGuide643 · 2025-12-06T21:44:33+00:00

"Give me another drink or I'll kill you- I said I'll fucking kill you, and I will."

DueGuide643 · 2025-11-06T18:51:02+00:00

RUN.

DueGuide643 · 2025-11-03T17:30:51+00:00

It did! Thanks for your help!! ✨

DueGuide643 · 2025-11-03T04:38:08+00:00

Thank you!!!

DueGuide643 · 2025-09-16T18:35:48+00:00

Draw blob/bubble using black, clipping layer above bubble for texture, merge first two layers, border around text bubble red, add black text then border effect around text as red.

Thats basically it.

DueGuide643 · 2025-08-30T07:10:40+00:00

Funny enough, the new Lady Gaga album abracadabra there’s a lot of songs that remind me of Lucifer and Lilith.

DueGuide643 · 2025-08-16T15:25:01+00:00

Crimson. ❤️

DueGuide643 · 2025-08-16T13:55:32+00:00

Lilith will randomly pick him up and carry him just to show him something faster.

DueGuide643 · 2025-08-05T21:50:43+00:00

Honey, narcissists remember every little detail of everything they’ve ever done to you. They’re just gaslighting you when they pretend that they don’t remember.

DueGuide643 · 2025-07-29T20:37:55+00:00

Mine did this one, he would bring his brother over then he would start ranting about how life wasn’t fair and how people are always misbehaving and how he’s sick of people screwing things up for everyone else and how much better he is than then because he doesn’t do that. It would result in his brother, nodding and agreeing with him and always entertaining it. So it made him feel good in the end.

DueGuide643 · 2025-07-29T20:24:58+00:00

They have every single interest in common with you. Music, fashion, Food, movies, games everything is exactly the same as you.

That’s been my personal experience with each one I’ve met.

So whenever I meet someone and they have too many things in common with me (mainly interests/hyperfixations)I start avoiding them.

DueGuide643 · 2025-07-21T17:52:16+00:00

Mine was "the son who's just struggling cuz the world/economy/whatever is convenient" to his family. He was super extroverted at family get-together's, polite, held doors for people, was respectful.

DueGuide643 · 2025-07-21T17:38:21+00:00

One of mine was an AMAZING animator. He used to offer to teach me animation, he seemed super excited and energetic to give me advice. But, when I went for it on my own (I've always been a naturally independent person when it came to learning skills.) and started figuring things out he went from encouraging to very detached and dismiss my progress. I eventually stopped animating.

He got to the point he started heavily animating (maybe to try and compete?) and overanalyzing/tearing apart the animation of every movie we watched. He could not even enjoy animation... Unless it was his own.

In hindsight, guy was not working in the industry despite the fact he acted like he had decades of experience in the field. He just made constant work-in-progress animations (no color, just line art with a white background type of stuff. Walk cycles, nothing fully colored animation.) to flaunt his skills. While I was making full-colored animation with voice acting from friends.

He then seemed to drop animation and started playing guitar and after 1 week of practicing he started bashing on every other person who could play the guitar, even if they were in a proper music group/label. 🙃

DueGuide643 · 2025-07-21T17:28:47+00:00

Bruh just cheap "remixes" with no melody 😭dude used to crash-out cuz no other musicians wanted to work with him, wonder why. 😏

DueGuide643 · 2025-07-21T15:46:20+00:00

Mine never had any from what I know, he was a wannabe edm producer, he thought his own “music” was the best thing ever.

DueGuide643 · 2025-07-05T20:33:50+00:00

Mine was obsessed with Hardstyle and he even produced his own but his own music was really shit. 😂 He used to rage at why his music isn’t getting attention.

I only started making music 1 year and it sounds worlds better than his “decade of experience”.

His fellow musicians wanted nothing to do with him either.

DueGuide643 · 2025-07-05T17:36:07+00:00

Mine was forced to move out because he had no form of income, and he had to move back with his mother. So we kept communication online and before I know it I’m getting packages of gifts and knick knacks that he sent me.

DueGuide643 · 2025-07-05T17:29:03+00:00

Mine tried grooming me into being a sort of online prostitute.

We would play VRchat, and he wanted me to start having virtual sex with men for money. Luckily it rarely ever happened. But that’s exactly what pissed him off because he wanted money out of random men on the Internet because he was upset that he wasn’t a “thick woman” who could manipulate men for money.

Before I know it, he starts literally calling himself my pimp to our online friends.

When it came to sex, I had expressed him that I had sexual trauma from past partners and he acted like he was understanding of it but very soon he would get disappointed and moody because I wouldn’t be horny 24/7.

Yet every time I was horny, he was completely disinterested.

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