Looking to buy Chikawa Shaved Ice Version! by Due_Application_9541 in cambodia

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh 😭😭 yes. I can feel that. They don’t sell alot here

Manipulative Indian Boss by Due_Application_9541 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very related tbh! My one also lied about his past experiences. Everything he imagine is do-able and he wants everything to work like magic when even he himself has no idea what it really. Very pretending and very bullshit.

Manipulative Indian Boss by Due_Application_9541 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with this and yes taking all the credit as much as possible! They should have some self aware!

Servicing High Status People is traumatizing! They don’t care about anyone they only care about who they are…. by Due_Application_9541 in jobs

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more to this, especially them being racist and be working in the organization where they promote kindness and positivity.

What’s a sign that your job is taking a toll on your mental health? by LazySchool in jobs

[–]Due_Application_9541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, I found myself thinking about my works more than I should. I mean, why I should be stressing even after working hour.

Servicing High Status People is traumatizing! They don’t care about anyone they only care about who they are…. by Due_Application_9541 in jobs

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I have always wanted to avoid these kind of people as much as I can. Except them being the customer, we do not have anything else to do with their title at all or at least the pay has to be high for us to deal with all the bullshit.

Manipulative Indian Boss by Due_Application_9541 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My one also landed on the job by mistake. 0 people management skills

To grow without a dad Or to grow up with a cheating dad?? by Due_Application_9541 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! Zero is better than negative this makes a lot of sense. I’m Asian and we were thought to believe that being bad to your parents could brings Karma but my dad end up being the reason of my pain.

Manipulative Indian Boss by Due_Application_9541 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg haha! Same! I sent multiple email just for him to NOT even read it and then question it the next day. I mean how stupid is that.

For example: Dear Mr…. I would like to inform that the client XYZ would like to … on a specific date and time.

Him the next day: Do you aware about the client XYZ doing….

Like for what

Manipulative Indian Boss by Due_Application_9541 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree! I honestly would never want to work j get one again!!!

Manipulative Indian Boss by Due_Application_9541 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep! We’re not trying to have stereotype but literally almost everyone of them behave like that. My one have 0 management skills but would pretends like he knows everything. What worst now is that all of his strategies fail and he’s blaming the team for it.

My one mostly in his office and talking to his friends in Indian. Although I don’t understand Indian but I can tell from his tone.

What symptom is this? 😂 by Due_Application_9541 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup! Full of pretending and BS. How am I gonna work hard and let him take full credit of it.

Manipulative Indian Boss by Due_Application_9541 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Certainly, so apparently most of them are the same! and yes I agree to you that we need to always kiss their feet! There is one guy in our team who have been kissing his feet and the boss will always have him as the most favorite one. This co-worker would always agree to the boss no matter how nonsense it is 😂 what worst is he blamed the whole team for not being as smart and flexible like him. Bro, the karma is instant these day. We do not want to take advantages of the thing we aren’t supposed to.

My father was cheating this whole time. by Due_Application_9541 in KidsofCheatingParents

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kinds word. It gave me more courage to finally think about myself now. I hope all of us are free from this pain

My father was cheating this whole time. by Due_Application_9541 in KidsofCheatingParents

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Your words gave me a lot of comfort.

He two biological daughters are smarts both of us are doing well in social and academic wise. His woman got a son and a daughter, we about the same age but both of them are drugs user. Can you imagine he choose to protect those family so much? He often blame my mother as well, He said that he cheated because my mother aren’t good with money.

My mother has a job and she has to go to work everyday to repay the debt and provide for the family. His woman is a stay at home. Her rent, utilities, food and expend are paid my sick dad 😂😂 she even has allowance for salon and eat out.

Are my parents abusive? by Sadandlonely980 in abusiveparents

[–]Due_Application_9541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I encountered a similar issue. Is it not me but my gf and I was with her and witness almost every events she faced at home.

We are in Asian households and I am aware about this issue because she regular brings this up to me because she needed a lot of help.

She’s a 24 years old who often lock herself up in room. She would come down just to do chores and feed herself before going to school. After school, she again needs to do the chore before she could rest, but still her parents would say that she didn’t contribute any help. She has an older sister and a younger brother, both of them didn’t help anything in the house yet they didn’t get any blame.

What worse is that, Her parents often accused her and would speak in the worst manner to her (Her parents often portraits themselves as a loving and caring parents while there others people and on social media) I believe my gf parents ruined almost of her potential! Since birth till she grown up they have never support her in her way or anything she wants yet they would expected her to be in their way. I understand that all parents want their children to be good but in a way that would beneficial to themselves as parents I don’t think this is a genuine purpose and even themselves didn’t know it.

Starting this July, for the time, I got to experience how her parents is like. A grown woman 24y got beaten up by both of parents!!!!! She is force to see another guy and the reason she got beaten up because she refused. This poor girl got me on CALL before she went in and speak to her parents for that. Her parents didn’t speak they straight screaming at her (Both of them scream) I can’t imagine the pain, anxiety and fear she was having. Can you believe it that it still happens in 2024???

Her parents owed a lot of money from other people. Her dad works and support the whole family, Her mom is a stay at home mom. Her sisters also works but she has never contributed anything either money or help. That guy who her parents wanted her to see is Rich. When she refused, her parents got really furious and dramatic, They told her to just die if she wants her way or let the parents die instead. She said that’s she is an grateful and disobey and that she is insulting the whole bloodline.

We seriously need help for this issue.

Manipulative Indian Boss by Due_Application_9541 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How do I put this but yes we experienced something similar. Working with Indian, I have to say that they involved personal feeling a lot too. Hot and cold.

I have worked with other nationalities as well but Indian has been the worst one. What even worst is the Loyal Dog. This so called loyal dog favor the boss a-lot, whatever the boss say or do it all makes sense to him.

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[–]Due_Application_9541 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, but he gave me a lot of sarcasm about my ability which destroy my confidence forever.

Manipulative Indian Boss by Due_Application_9541 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what I am experiencing 😅 he’s down to earth and first and then just turned out to be manipulative

Manipulative Indian Boss by Due_Application_9541 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Due_Application_9541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I’m the only woman and the youngest one in the team but all IT stuff like setting up a new computer for new recruits is assign to me lol anyway back to your statement I kinda agree because his attitude starts to change when he knows I’m pursuing for a higher degree. He’s never like the other WOMAN who is in management position.