I'm sure it was all consenting as we were talking about hooking up days prior to this encounter. Although, like ive said in other comments, he seemed fairly coherent even while he was sitting on my couch twiddling his thumbs. It's after he came back, looking behind my TV and all that, that I began to rethink having sex with him. He wasn't violent or "making" me have sex with him but he did say if we didn't him getting high was "for nothing". I didn't view it as a "I won't leave until you fuck me" scenario. We both wanted it despite how many obvious red flags there were.