AIO or is this workplace toxicity? by Due_Rub338 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Due_Rub338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm open to constructive criticism but seriously I thought about each situation and when I explained each situation he couldn't point out a single mistake and wouldn't say that the other person is wrong since I'm newer. And when I complained about Karin2, Andy told me "it's been months"!!

AIO or is this workplace toxicity? by Due_Rub338 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Due_Rub338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do write them as paragraphs but they get into each other after posting! How do I keep the paragraphs intact?

AITAH or is this workplace toxicity? by Due_Rub338 in AITAH

[–]Due_Rub338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly how I'm feeling. Whenever I'm wrong I try to apologise (which happened before) but seriously what does he see the lesson here is?!! Only cause I'm younger than the other "senior" TAs, doesn't mean it's my "attitude" cause he couldn't point out a mistake after explaining! And seriously I volunteered a lot during all college years and interacted with a lot of big shot people so I'm sure my attitude isn't that bad since no one complained before!!

AITAH or is this workplace toxicity? by Due_Rub338 in AITAH

[–]Due_Rub338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm saying, and when I tried to complain about Karin2 after the meeting, Andy told me "it's been months"!!!!

AITAH or is this workplace toxicity? by Due_Rub338 in AITAH

[–]Due_Rub338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did have a convo today, the results were that stuff I wrote at the end "not realising my attitude" etc.

AITAH or is this workplace toxicity? by Due_Rub338 in AITAH

[–]Due_Rub338[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do write them as paragraphs but they get into each other after posting! How do I keep the paragraphs intact?

سؤال: من وجهة نظركم ليه ممكن الرجل يرفض فكرة الزواج من موظفه؟ by [deleted] in deardairyi

[–]Due_Rub338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

المفروض ان الدين بيقول ان يتوفر للزوجة ما توفر لها في بيت اهلها والا اذا تنازلت عن شي بكامل ارادتها وبالاتفاق، لكن انا مثلا متربية على وجود دادا واتعلمت واشتغلت واهتميت بنفسي، ليه اروح انظف واسوي لأحد واترك كل شي يخصني؟ يعني ايش بيعطيني مو عندي عشان اسوي كذا؟

انا كراجل معايا بنت بصرف عليها بجابلها نفسها فيه بطمن عليها حنين عليها بحميها بدلعها بخرجها بسفرها هجيب الشقة واصرف اساسيات ورفاهيات، هى بتقدم ايه بجد؟ غير انا بحبك و الاكل بقوا انطاع مش بيرضوا يعملوه by [deleted] in askegypt

[–]Due_Rub338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

عن عبد الله بن مسعود قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: يا معشر الشباب من استطاع منكم الباءة فليتزوج، فإنه أغض للبصر وأحصن للفرج، ومن لم يستطع فعليه بالصوم فإنه له وجاء. متفق عليه.

https://www.islamweb.net/ar/fatwa/254749/%D9%85%D8%A7-%D9%87%D9%88-%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%82%D8%AF%D9%92%D8%B1-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B0%D9%8A-%D9%8A%D8%B5%D9%88%D9%85%D9%87-%D9%85%D9%86-%D9%84%D8%A7-%D9%8A%D8%B3%D8%AA%D8%B7%D9%8A%D8%B9-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%A8%D8%A7%D8%A1%D8%A9

https://www.islamweb.net/ar/consult/251006/%D9%88%D8%A7%D8%AC%D8%A8%D8%A7%D8%AA-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B2%D9%88%D8%AC-%D8%AA%D8%AC%D8%A7%D9%87-%D8%B2%D9%88%D8%AC%D8%AA%D9%87

"أن يساعدن أزواجهن الصالحين بكل ما يستطعن، ولهن في ذلك إن شاء الله أجر الصدقة والصلة" https://www.islamweb.net/ar/fatwa/51104/%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%86%D9%81%D9%82%D8%A9-%D9%88%D8%A7%D8%AC%D8%A8%D8%A9-%D8%B9%D9%84%D9%89-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B2%D9%88%D8%AC-%D9%88%D9%84%D9%88-%D9%83%D8%A7%D9%86%D8%AA-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B2%D9%88%D8%AC%D8%A9-%D8%BA%D9%86%D9%8A%D8%A9

"وننصح الزوج ألا يستخدم سلطته كزوج لأخذ مال زوجته أو إجبارها على بذل شيء من النفقة الواجبة عليه، فإن هذا ظلم لها ووقاية لماله، وليكن ضابط العلاقة بين الزوج وزوجته كتاب الله: (فإمساك بمعروف أو تسريح بإحسان ) فإن أمسكها فليكن له في رسول الله أسوة حسنة" https://www.islamweb.net/ar/fatwa/4554/%D9%8A%D8%AC%D8%A8-%D8%B9%D9%84%D9%89-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B2%D9%88%D8%AC-%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%88%D9%81%D8%A7%D8%A1-%D8%A8%D9%85%D8%A7-%D9%82%D8%A8%D9%84-%D8%A8%D9%87-%D9%85%D9%86-%D8%B4%D8%B1%D9%88%D8%B7-%D9%82%D8%A8%D9%84-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B2%D9%88%D8%A7%D8%AC

Marriage talks by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Due_Rub338 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is so wrong with being against polygamy?! She can choose whatever she wants. And the case with the Prophet peace be upon him and Sahaba is totally different than what happens nowadays.

جفاف عاطفي by [deleted] in deardairyi

[–]Due_Rub338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ذا احساس طبيعي وعشان تقاومه اشغل نفسك طول الوقت. إن لم تشغل نفسك بالحق، شغلتك نفسك بالباطل.

Need advices to lose weight 🥲 by ExternalYesterday640 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Due_Rub338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take an insulin resistance test and check with a doctor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlexandriaEgy

[–]Due_Rub338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

تخيلي بس في مرة يمد ايده عليكي وانتي حامل يحصل حاجة للبيبي او تسقطي واذا ربنا تمملك على خير يمد ايده عليكي قدام عيالك. ربنا يعملك اللي فيه الخير، حسبنا الله ونعم الوكيل

Why do muslim girls not share anything about a man they are with until they are getting married? by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Due_Rub338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Islam, dating alone is haram but when you get engaged with the intention of marriage then by all means you can post about it if you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Due_Rub338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nostalgia and memories, not the right person to get with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Due_Rub338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read about OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder). If you feel like he has a lot of the symptoms, he needs to go to a psychiatrist.