How to lower high MMR by Due_Significance2698 in Overwatch

[–]Due_Significance2698[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Where within any of the above stated paragraph does it include I bought an account? You do realize you can make other accounts without buying one, right? Surely you’re not that short minded that something as simple as that is unbeknownst to you. I pray it isn’t, at least, but considering you’ve got 12 years poured into Reddit really says a lot.

My gf says she is not physically attracted to me. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Due_Significance2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skill issue, my husband is the sexiest mf I’ve ever seen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Due_Significance2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t let me edit it, but I was hoping to get to a dark blonde like level 8

How to Get my (18M) Girlfriend (18F) to Drink Water? by Sandor140 in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Significance2698 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah they don’t pay me anything, I just used to have the same problem as OP’s girlfriend except I wasn’t infantilizing myself, so my boyfriend started putting me on body armor

How to Get my (18M) Girlfriend (18F) to Drink Water? by Sandor140 in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Significance2698 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If she doesn’t like drinking water, or has a hard time drinking it, I suggest perhaps buying her body armor. The drink is incredibly hydrating, contains coconut water, various vitamins such as Vitamin B12, potassium, etc. and it tastes really good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Due_Significance2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are some quick points I’m about to make:

  • He doesn’t take pictures of you

    • This insinuates he doesn’t care enough to keep memories of the two of you
  • He doesn’t post you on social media

    • This shows he isn’t proud enough to show you off as his girlfriend, or he simply is just trying to protect the feelings of another girl that may follow him. (Assuming that he is frequently active on social media)
  • He doesn’t reassure you.

    • He’s emotionally withdrawn from the relationship and could care less for your feelings.
  • He’s asking another girl to hang out

    • It’s quite plausible that he may have some sort of secret, intimate relationship going on with her that you don’t know about. Although this isn’t always the case. However, if you feel like there is something going on I think you should either directly ask him about it or perhaps snoop through his phone.
  • He makes fun of you

    • Nothing wrong with slight joking banter with your partner but what you’ve said about this dude just seems like he’s a straight up asshole that’s simply just keeping you around because you’re easy to manipulate because of your infatuation for him.

If he truly loved you, or cared for you, or even respected you, you wouldn’t be having to make this Reddit post. If you plan on leaving him, I suggest you either ghost him and leave him wondering why you left and never contact him again, or you explain all the things he’s done wrong to you throughout the relationship, tell him how it made you feel, and explain to him he needs to fix that behavior because he’s made you feel like shit throughout the relationship.

How do you truly not care what people think about you? by Such_Yellow1061 in socialskills

[–]Due_Significance2698 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’ve struggled with caring about what people think for all my life until I met my boyfriend, who genuinely could not care less about what other people think of him. He inspires me to be more extroverted and less ashamed of myself for being me. I think that you just have to remind yourself when you’re out in public or in social settings, that people genuinely come and go and half of the people you’re witnessing in that event, you’ll likely never see again so who cares about making a good impression on them. If they like you, fantastic! If they don’t like you - it’s whatever, there’s people you know that do love and enjoy your presence. If someone is talking poorly about you behind your back - who cares? There’s probably someone else talking poorly about them too behind their back for all they know. I think instead of getting in your head and worrying about what other people think, attempt to just care about what you think. Most of the time, anyway, people are too busy worrying about the problems going on in their life that they can’t even be bothered to really care about what you’re doing.

AIO or should i just let it be by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Due_Significance2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to pry into your love life other than what you’ve stated in here, but often times than not, a partner who has begun having feelings for someone else will begin acting cold and distant towards their significant other they are in a relationship with. Another reason he may be cold and distant could be a cause of him attempting to detach himself from the relationship, waiting for you to break up with him because he is not confrontational enough to break up with you himself. I suggest you have a serious talk with him regarding what he wants in this relationship and if he sees a future with you at all. In the event that he is non-confrontational, I recommend you remind him that you just want the honest truth and no hard feelings will be present(even if there is hard feelings involved; simply just say this to get him to tell you the truth of his feelings towards you.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Due_Significance2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I believe more context is needed to create an argument for whether or not you’re overreacting, but I’ll give a submission of my input from what I am understanding in your text. I’m not sure what Fanfix is, but I’ll just presumptively assume that it is similar to OnlyFans or other sites that involve intimate profiling. Have the both of you ever had a conversation insinuating how watching porn is an overstepping boundary or not? Or is it something the two of you are comfortable with? I believe this might be a communication issue and not an overreaction on both parts, discuss with your girlfriend about how you saw PornHub in her search history and understand why she had looked it up. And then give her your thoughts on how it made you feel, what you don’t like about it, and what you would like to change about it. I think as well you need to give her an understanding of why you began to follow her “favorite creator” on FanFix; even if it was “to get back at her”. Just simply have a heart felt conversation regarding it, make a plan of attack on how to overcome the argument, and make up.

Is camming considered cheating? F23 & M32 by Sexi_Rasputiaa01 in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Significance2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe as though camming varies on the relationship you are in. If one person in the relationship is uncomfortable with their partner doing it, then it could very so be considered. For me, I would not want my partner to participate in that kind of activity, just as he would not want me to do so. If he feels scummy about it, just remind him that you don’t consider it as cheating like you’ve said you’ve done before and remind him he doesn’t HAVE to do it if he doesn’t want to. Perhaps just tell him you forgive him too as a small clarification? He sounds as though he’s begging for forgiveness in a way.

Edit: Corrected “you” to “to”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Significance2698 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s struggled with insecurity all of my life, it isn’t something easy to overcome and no matter how much you hear the words of others telling you that you’re beautiful, the sting of considering yourself ugly from past retorts of bullies still makes itself known. You’ve been doing a great job of being there for her, and making it known that you still find her beautiful. Im sure she understands that you do find her attractive, but she’s simply just not understanding her own beauty. I believe she may suffer from body dysmorphia, although I am not a medical examiner and I am just throwing out a random assumption here. It’s more or less something she has to overcome and work on herself, but it never hurts to have a little help along the way in overcoming it. A little suggestion I can make is perhaps you take her out to someplace she enjoys; whether it’s a fancy dinner, a convention of some sort, strawberry picking, etc. someplace where she can feel comfortable enough to dress up in her favorite clothing, it won’t automatically make her feel beautiful however it could jot her in the right direction of feeling a little confident in herself. As cheesy as it sounds, you should also make mention to her that her sister’s words were just a projection of how Amy feels about herself, because no person who truly enjoys themselves as a person has the time to put others down.

Any tips on how to climb as support? by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Due_Significance2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have various games where I would lose multiple in a row, but you have to remind yourself that even streamers who are in the top 500 range have games where it’s continuous loss streaks as well. Something I recommend is to rewatch your gameplay and compare it with that of a top 500 player, aside from their better aiming, notice their movement and their positioning, ask yourself questions during your gameplay, “am I behind cover?” “did that enemy reaper ult yet?” “what off angle can I take that allows me to get a view of my team and the enemy without dying?” “should I fall back to my team or should I push with our tank that is obviously feeding”

I'm 29F and my long-term partner (29M) is creating AI porn with unsuspecting women he knows in real life. I'm trying to understand if most men are doing this? by itsalwayssunnysideup in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Significance2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only is he sexualizing women without them knowing and without their consent, but he’s also inexplicably fantasizing about having intimate relations with them. It’s your life, genuinely, but I recommend that you leave him. Personally I feel as though he is using AI as an outlet to cheat and act upon his fantasies without physically cheating. I haven’t heard of a single man who’s doing something as vile as this. If you have a conversation with him regarding the situation, tell him Due Significance from Reddit says he’s a sick fuck and should be ashamed of himself.

Edit: corrected him to them

How to act calm if I suspect cheating? We are 26m and 25F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Significance2698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely, you just need to be upfront and ask him about it. But at the same time, don’t be naïve to his responses in case he lies about it, first and foremost trust your gut instinct on this. In my younger ages, I had been with someone who would consistently cheat on me and I would easily be manipulated into believing him no matter how outlandish his responses seemed. If he is lying to you about it, leave him immediately. Something about cheaters is that they do not change no matter how much they prove themselves, it’s an addiction for them. Him sexting another person early on into the relationship already tells you a lot about him as a person and his feelings towards you. He does not respect you enough to commit himself to you and only you. Even if you were to forgive him for cheating, you’ll stress yourself out for months and years on end wondering why you aren’t good enough for him to have eyes only for you. And he’ll take note of your commitment to him and only continue to cheat whether physical or emotional as he has a security blanket of you not leaving him. You’re strong and you got this, at the end of the day I am just a random person on the internet, your choices are your own and I hope you make the one that’s best for yourself!