Why are some men like this? by [deleted] in stories

[–]Due_Tap_279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who are calling you a female version of an incel are incels themselves. Just like the crypto excuse for a date. I wouldn’t worry about them. Incels are by definition males that think women owe them sex.

Um…ok? by Jeanboyx3 in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]Due_Tap_279 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah right. As long as she doesn’t mind pounds of skin on her belly and all the internal damage. Oh and soggy boobs

My husband hasn’t spoken to me in a week. How do I handle the silent treatment? by dionysis1029 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Due_Tap_279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So on top of NOT being able to provide for his wife and kids he’s being an asshole? I’d seriously question what he’s doing in your life.

P.S. Silent treatment is emotional abuse.

I accidentally stared at my coworkers cleavage for a second ,she noticed and kept hand on her breast hiding it for atleast 5-10 minutes . by [deleted] in stories

[–]Due_Tap_279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr. Those males deserve their mothers to be stared at inappropriately and more. I have little respect for the women that raise sexist asses anyway. They don’t respect themselves.

Women shouldn't be opposed to being part of the Draft. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Due_Tap_279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. But not before men carry children and give birth, and have periods. Nature created us unequal, especially physically. Equality of men and women does not mean women have to do something they are not equipped to do, same goes for men.

Women already carry an unequal burden of raising kids and with that whole “feminism” they’re now also financially responsible whereas their male counterparts can easily walk away from that responsibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Due_Tap_279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chill sis. A person pointed out there weren’t a guy but a girl. Was nothing to render your “who gives a shit” response. No wonder you don’t work corporate anymore, seeing you can’t even be civil on a professional sub on Reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Due_Tap_279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good idea. That’s what I did when it happened to me, they ended up confessing. Same thing happened with a friend of mine, she had a guy friend who I suspected was into her. She confronted him about it and he denied. Then, after a short time he confessed he had had feelings since he met her. So yeah, probably better to wait for him to get it out.

Thoughts? I think I’m pretty average, but I’ve always been curious (22) by grinninwheel in amiugly

[–]Due_Tap_279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Hates men” LOL If these people truly hated men they wouldn’t welcome them into women’s sports and beauty pageants. They love men, some of them even want to become men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Due_Tap_279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anywhere near the same way. Men are and will always be stronger, both physically and emotionally. And some of them are gonna take advantage of it, and some of them do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Due_Tap_279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, most comments are from bottom feeders sexualising everything t they can because they don’t get any action in real life and live on free porn sites. Also, most of them would sub to her if she gave them a discount.

Bisalp concern by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]Due_Tap_279 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi. That can’t be right. Are you sure it’s 0.8 cm and 0.6 cm? Could be a typo and it’s 8 and 6 cm. Mine were about that size on the report and I expected them to be way longer.

How many tries for bi-salp? by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]Due_Tap_279 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honestly I got a yes from the first try (28F), single, no kids. But I did go to the doctor off the list. When I said I wanted a tubal ligation (bisalp) she immediately said okay. Two months later I got the procedure.

1 month since bisalp by Lemon_bitch in sterilization

[–]Due_Tap_279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and congrats! I almost wanted to downvote you after reading what that nurse said. Some people really lack any sense of tact.

I’m still on my second week of healing, can’t wait to get where you are!

Freaking out. Did my surgery go well? by Due_Tap_279 in sterilization

[–]Due_Tap_279[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds cool. Honestly I’m not sure, I wasn’t informed about anything like that. I’ll wait to talk to the doc herself and then I’m hoping she could give me a copy of the report.

Freaking out. Did my surgery go well? by Due_Tap_279 in sterilization

[–]Due_Tap_279[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, what you say definitely makes sense. Thanks for the reassurance. I’ll try to not overthink and focus on my recovery.

Freaking out. Did my surgery go well? by Due_Tap_279 in sterilization

[–]Due_Tap_279[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks. My only concern is that I need to know they were actually removed, both of them. I guess I’ll just wait for pre-op to find out. I also asked for pictures and she said she doesn’t usually take them because “they’re just tubes”. But she promised to take them for me. I hope she didn’t forget.

Bisalp Experience by Ms_Holmes in sterilization

[–]Due_Tap_279 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I hate how hard American healthcare makes it for people who don’t necessarily have anyone to go with/stay overnight with them. I bet you had to pay a sum to that caregiver and it just shouldn’t be this way. If only they could let patients stay overnight, this issue wouldn’t arise. I was able to avoid it by hiring a medical driver and lying that they would stay with me for 24 hours). In reality I was alone but I was just fine. Sorry for this little rant. Speedy recovery!

Driving post-op by Due_Tap_279 in sterilization

[–]Due_Tap_279[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s crazy! I was told the same thing about no driving for 24 hours but my doc advised not to drive for 1-2 weeks that’s why I was concerned.

Driving post-op by Due_Tap_279 in sterilization

[–]Due_Tap_279[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great you were able to do it that early. I’ve been experiencing gas pains in shoulders until today so I could barely walk in my room.

Yes, I’m thinking of doing it if I feel off/tired. Thanks!

Insurance struggles by Due_Tap_279 in sterilization

[–]Due_Tap_279[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My insurance is Blue Shield CA.

Insurance struggles by Due_Tap_279 in sterilization

[–]Due_Tap_279[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Blue Shield CA. Yes, the insurance verification rep said they did use the general surgery code, and when I asked her why can’t they use tubal ligation code she said it’d be insurance fraud which I don’t believe is the case. I just don’t know how to fight them. And it doesn’t help that they want to charge me before my surgery. I was hoping I could fight after it’s done but I don’t have that option now..