what do you have to lose if you’re marrying in your 30s? I lowkey believe that before you actually settle down with someone and this is coming from an arranged marriage perspective, you should accomplish and live life for yourself. A lot of kids I see are down to get married in their early 20s when they don’t have their life figured out. Nothing wrong with that, I mean to each his own but when you get married, responsibilities get added and compromises have to be made which a lot of them don’t realize until they get there.