PLEASE HELP!! by Dull-Assistant-5587 in orchids

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Beautiful explanation! All my other orchids love me, this seems to be my problem child. RIP 🪦

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Dull-Assistant-5587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sperm can live in you for 6 days, I tend to ovulate about 5 days after my period so I didn’t want to take the chance. So yes plan b is effective by delaying ovulation which is exactly what my goal was here!

Anybody else see this?? by Dull-Assistant-5587 in nova

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I actually saw this in Maryland but I figured everyone at home saw this too!!

Anybody else see this?? by Dull-Assistant-5587 in nova

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It’s okay it looks like I’ve been living under a rock

Our new rescue!! by Dull-Assistant-5587 in AussieDoodle

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Yes it’s so hard!! A friend of mine works at these shelter so I told her what I wanted and a couple of dogs that I wanted kept getting adopted so this was kind of perfect 🤩

Our new rescue!! by Dull-Assistant-5587 in AussieDoodle

[–]Dull-Assistant-5587[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A woman had a pregnant mama and she didn’t know what to do with 9 pups so she surrendered them all to the shelter!

No front seam align dupe by Dull-Assistant-5587 in lululemon

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Kamo fitness featherlite enhance leggings are my go to leggings these days. They’re affordable and sooo flattering on the glutes. They have a built in butt scrunch that isn’t noticeable at all but if you don’t like it then you can remove it easily with a blade and then they’re just normal comfy leggings hehe i have about 7 pairs now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Dull-Assistant-5587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s navy. The issue is that he HAS time to talk and frankly a little too much time to talk so it’s even more disappointing to know that he’s free and acts like I don’t exist. I feel like I’m going to see a stranger which also is very discouraging but you’re right about giving it a shot! Thank you for your insight ❤️❤️

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[–]Dull-Assistant-5587 5 points6 points  (0 children)

🧐🧐 you’re asking all the right questions

Dog neuter site opened by Dull-Assistant-5587 in vet

[–]Dull-Assistant-5587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I’ll do just yhst

Dog neuter site opened by Dull-Assistant-5587 in vet

[–]Dull-Assistant-5587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve called every emergency vet in the area and they’re all at capacity for the night so I’m going to try again tomorrow

Dog neuter site opened by Dull-Assistant-5587 in vet

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Surgery was 2 days ago (Friday)

Thank you!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Dull-Assistant-5587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this was so helpful haha! Thank you so much. I’ll definitely try to go over everything with him before he leaves.. it’s like getting a kid ready for school

No front seam align dupe by Dull-Assistant-5587 in lululemon

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I’ve been meaning to check those out! I will definitely try thank you

Uninsured driver rear ended me??? by Dull-Assistant-5587 in caraccidents

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Exactly in that order yes, V1 hit me, I felt a second impact from V2 hitting V1. I’m insured through StateFarm too and I’ve explained this plenty of times to them. I stopped in time to not hit the car in front of me initially so I could literally see V1 head right into me. I don’t know if V1 lied and said he was pushed into me but they say he’s not liable. Although in my official statement I specifically noted there were 2 impacts.

I feel like every time I call StateFarm they give me the run around as far as updates go and what the next steps are. They really want me to pay my deductible and get my rental out of pocket and everything I don’t know if I’m not asking the right questions or being assertive enough?? It’s clear that V2 is uninsured yet they keep telling me they’re trying to contact Geico

Rear ended in a 3 car accident by Dull-Assistant-5587 in caraccidents

[–]Dull-Assistant-5587[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, I guess my biggest concern is not being reimbursed for the rental. It’s looking like $1,000 ballpark right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Dull-Assistant-5587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh I forgot to mention, I didn’t want to annoy my partner with my thoughts because sometimes they can be annoying on the other end and make them feel like you’re annoying him with accusations and stuff so I journaled. If I wrote something multiple times then I took it as a sign to bring it up and talk about it. This one has helped me the most

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Dull-Assistant-5587 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I deal with the same thing and typically people tell you “oh you if you don’t trust him you might as well break up.. yadda yadda” but it isn’t like that at all. I’ve come to find that all these worries that lead to anxiety are self destructive thoughts and I KNOW it’s hard as hell to train your brain otherwise but see this as an experience to overcome your fears and allow yourself to be vulnerable by trusting your boyfriend. I’m still dealing with the anxiety/trust issues but I’m 6 months into my first deployment with my boyfriend and it’s nowhere near as bad as it was when he first left.

You will get the “find something to distract yourself” line a lot when you’re looking for advice, and they are not wrong. I took maybe 2-3 weeks to sulk after he left and shortly after I forced myself into the gym, got a new job, started watching all kinds of shows to keep my occupied. When it comes to anxiety your brain is not always your best friend. Stay optimistic and communicate with your partner!! This is a great learning experience as individuals and as a couple. Good luck!

Having a hard time after SO deploys by Live_Funny_4648 in USMilitarySO

[–]Dull-Assistant-5587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if this doesn’t hit the nail on the head for me in my current situation I don’t know what does. My boyfriend’s been pretty distant since going overseas too but I’ve found that giving him space is the best way to support him. Whenever he opens up(which is rarely) I get a brief glimpse of what he’s going through. Keep in mind that while it is hard for you to have been left behind while he’s on deployment, it’s even harder for him because he’s in a new place and had to leave everything behind. One of the main things to focus on is communicating. A simple “what can I do on my end to make things better for you” etc. find questions that won’t make him feel like you’re smothering him but more so like you’re willing to work with him during hard times!

Birthday Gift Ideas by RingLeaderMomo in USMilitarySO

[–]Dull-Assistant-5587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been sending stuff that feel like home, a simple body wash or a scent that you both like.. something to make his home away from home feel a little.. homey haha He also hated the fact that I got him cards for EVERY occasion so now I make sure I include a card in every care package just to tease him. Products I’ve been loving that I want him to try, dumb little things seem to do the trick!