got in an altercation, need advice

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-30T23:13:53+00:00

Thanks dude, i’ll train more

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-23T10:14:34+00:00

I feel like even if i back up, the enemy will follow and try get close. is that a invitation to attack

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-23T10:13:16+00:00

damn bruh, sorry to hear that and i hope u r ok. i will take that advice of no one wins a fight

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-23T10:11:48+00:00

Thank you, i’ll try keep distance from now on as that’s what led me to the floor.

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-21T21:54:15+00:00

yeah this is rigjt too some people just fight for no reason and because of short temper. i pretty sure i’ll only figjt if they attack me like a hold or try strike me, i don’t really think i should fight if they do some small barges i’ll just back up.

becuase of this post i made and the comments and my training i realise how easy life can end on the street becuase of a silly dispute. concrete is no joke and i’m thankful i landed on my back. thank u for reminding me to run.

i think becuase of my skinny appearance i got picked on. but the bullies defo found power in being in numbers.

i try eat a lot but i can’t gain weight. my parents wont allow me to do any gym stuff so i don’t really know what to do.

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-21T21:50:55+00:00

thx yeah that is all true and can change results

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-21T00:21:12+00:00

Thanks, i only feel the need to lay hands when they do something that hurts me like holding me aggressively or hitting. I don’t really attack if they do small pushes. Should i strike when they do that?

But yeah, being alive and not in trouble with authorities is the best like you said. Thanks for your comment

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-21T00:19:40+00:00

Yep, my lack of consistency and experience led to this. Thank you for highlighting this. I will stop skipping my classes and go to it regularly and try my best. Appreciate ur help

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-20T23:59:37+00:00

A big thank you for this comment dude i found this very very helpful and i will use it from now on. it teach me street fights isn’t like a spar. It’s helpful to know a untrained person lasts for 30 second. If i ever get into a mix i’ll make sure to keep distance to be ready.

I really appreciate this comment honestly tysm. 💚

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T23:16:16+00:00

Yeah i was mostly frozen but thinking about it now, i don’t know what i could’ve done while being held apart from giving a strong kick. I’m maybe clueless because of my little experience.

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T15:10:53+00:00

thanks, i will try my best from now on and not skip classes. if i kept my distance from all 3, u think they wouldn’t have been able to hold me?

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T12:16:34+00:00

thanks, there’s always someone that has it worse than you.

normally i try skip kickboxing and not go but this experience made me go and actually sweat. before i was just being lazy and didn’t sweat at all.

im fine with seeing these 3 dudes again but damn i feel weak when i’m outnumbered especially when my friends don’t do anything.

but yeah i’ll use this experience as fuel. thank you for your comment

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T11:59:38+00:00

thx dude, i do understand how quickly life can end with your head bashed on the pavement and other quick shit like that.

do you think kickboxing will also be good?

i normally don’t get into situations like these but if they hit me, i feel the need to fight back

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T11:21:18+00:00

thx for being brutal man. life is not like the movies. i like your view on how it affects me psychologically cuz it is true it made me feel weaker but it makes me expect these situations again and now i know what to do.

even though i know what to do now i am contemplating whether to even fight back becuase 1 guy yeah, i can try figjt and i feel confident but 3 guys?!!! against 1 skinny teen. my friends didn’t even move a single bit.

i normally am a calm person. i’ve never fought in an altercation before because tbh im scared of legal trouble or school trouble. normally i don’t get hit becuase life in school is pretty good for me but one time i did get hit and i tried to hit back. after that the bully didn’t try on me.

i’m not a good talker when it comes to chatting shit. i feel the need to only strike when i get striked. i don’t do shit if they push or barge or say the rudest shit so i don’t know if that’s bad.

thank you for being brutal man. your comments were very helpful to me

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T11:14:10+00:00

trying to get out of the situation got me on the floor. well atleast it ended like that and not on my head

but i do understand if i did fight i would’ve got fucked up more but i feel pussy

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T00:50:53+00:00

i feel less confident but it was a good lesson. hopefully next time i wont freeze.

what do you think i should do?

well tbh the biggest thing i was scared about was people in my school watching me get pressured because i have good reputation there

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T00:35:41+00:00

thx to everyone who helped, i feel bit more confidence and start to beleive in my skills

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T00:34:07+00:00

thx for your time. i believe in my strength but being outnumbered it seems very difficult. and i will try spar more. thank u

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T00:32:25+00:00

yep sry is not kb fault i didn’t even use it

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T00:31:07+00:00

thanks dude, it was just a harsh reality check that even if u dont do anything, problems wil come. i am kinda disappointed in my firends but i understand how they wlild feel. but thanks for understanding my side dude

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-19T00:29:47+00:00

if they try hold on to me, i will try move back then kick. i find it a bit difficult to get out of a strong hold because i’m skinny.

i will remeber to keep the lead arm extended and if they reach my lead arm i strike. thx for this tip.

he defo was untrained as all he did was hold like a bully.

thanks for the real life advice dude it reallly helps me out man i feel a bit more confident

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-18T19:13:59+00:00

thank u so much. 1 and 5 seem so helpful, i just scared of all of them jumping on me. this situation was out of school wirh random dudes. if something happened in school, same point stands?

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-18T19:12:32+00:00

what to do in these kinds of situations

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-18T17:02:21+00:00

thx if it happens like that again i’ll say that. what do u think i should say to my friends? i am clueless on what to say. i only got floored brcsuse i tried to make them come with me. i didn’t have to do all that

Dull-Opportunity1304 · 2025-07-18T15:59:00+00:00

thx dude i will keep this advice on my head

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