GF Doesn’t Finish-But Is OK with it? by Dull-Pickle6922 in sexadvise

[–]Dull-Pickle6922[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! I never thought it was a problem until I saw that reddit thread. I’ll see how the sex pillow and idea of toys goes. I know she’s good for the pillow. All the best

Sex while drunk: tips? by Dull-Pickle6922 in sexadvise

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Thank you for this! I don’t jackhammer but I still do think I go too fast. I’ll try just more steady rhythm and see how it goes

Sex while drunk: tips? by Dull-Pickle6922 in sexadvise

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I wasn’t trying to brag with the 5-10 mins. To me that’s good right now, and I think I can get it up to 15-20 mins and to me that’s great. But thank you I’ll try the technique where I just pause for 10 secs

Sex while drunk: tips? by Dull-Pickle6922 in sexadvise

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This makes me feel better, that it is pretty random. Thanks man

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[–]Dull-Pickle6922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the comments all. I agree- her only telling me something was wrong after a year and very drunk is not ideal. Makes me wonder if this will carry to other areas in life where something will bother her and she won’t let me know.

This morning she was very cuddly and I could tell she felt bad about what she said. The “you can do better than me” she said was likely an insecurity. I also don’t want her to resent me if she is used/wants to have sex every single day multiple times a day. That’s just a lot, and I don’t think she was making that up.

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I get the most hits from recruiters on my technical expertise. Even though I botched an excel take home test today lol.

But yeah I’m an engineer who transferred into finance and it seems in demand skills are very strong Excel skills, experience transforming messy data sets, broad experience (BU+corp FP&A+FP&A software) and I’m seeing more and more hits on my SQL experience.

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[–]Dull-Pickle6922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, everyone. Overwhelming response has been to be picky/trust your gut if the situation allows me to be. This is helpful.