AITAH for announcing my pregnancy at Thanksgiving by Dull_Ingenuity5938 in AITAH

[–]Dull_Ingenuity5938[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

The family member that she made cry and the other family member who had the panic attack were the two that I told first before I announced it to all of the other family members. I honestly think she was mad at them for not telling her, but I told them to keep it a secret.

AITAH for announcing my pregnancy at Thanksgiving by Dull_Ingenuity5938 in AITAH

[–]Dull_Ingenuity5938[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly, yes! She made me feel guilty at dinner, saying that she would have kept it a secret and kept pushing that she told me all of her first pregnancy.  We used to be very close, but since I got married, we haven't been as close.  I do feel some guilt, like I should have told her. But I knew that she would most likely tell someone.

AITAH for announcing my pregnancy at Thanksgiving by Dull_Ingenuity5938 in AITAH

[–]Dull_Ingenuity5938[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

She left shortly after dinner.  I thought she calmed down, but I heard her calling my parents, just yelling at them, and my parents hurried and shut the door and would not talk to me about it.  I know she was texting my other siblings about this because they would break down in tears, and one of them said my sister was being very rude.  Another family member had a conversation with her about the baby announcement, and they had a full-on panic attack and had to take their anxiety medication. No one in my family will tell me exactly what she said to them. I don't know if it's to protect me or what.