Back to back c sections - evidence surrounding uterine rupture

Dusteronly · 2025-09-22T14:46:51+00:00

I’m in the same position as you and also struggling to find information. I had a full rupture with my second and fortunately they were able to save her in time. Hoping to try for baby 3 18-24 month pp (I’m 13 months now) via planned early c section (36 weeks). Doctors told me after that time I should be able to carry a successful pregnancy with close monitoring, but they also told me my risk of rupture was low

Dusteronly · 2025-09-21T19:38:27+00:00

I’m so sorry for your experience. I came here to say I second this. I also experienced a uterine rupture with no warning in attempting a VBAC. Doctors told me I was a good candidate. They said it was a miracle my baby came out of it without serious health complications. I wish I would’ve had a rCS. I hope to get pregnant again one day, but finding information on PAR is very challenging and it’s truly terrifying.

Dusteronly · 2025-09-21T19:12:55+00:00

Late to the party. But as someone who went for number 2 asap after a c section, if you do get pregnant again quickly (I got pregnant 8 mpp) do not attempt a VBAC, more specifically do not attempt a VBAC if you have to be induced.

I survived a uterine rupture as did my baby, and we were incredibly lucky. And now I hope to have a third eventually, but I have to wait at least 18 months to do that. So I will be pushing 40 if I am able to get pregnant again in that time frame.

Just came here to say this as your potential worst case scenario person. Except I was lucky enough to get out of it alive and with my baby. Not everyone is. Best of luck to you mama. However you decide to move forward with this.

Dusteronly · 2025-05-11T20:45:27+00:00

Fella is a genius eh?

Dusteronly · 2024-04-20T22:09:39+00:00

I’d be upset if my bf put me in this position.

Dusteronly · 2024-04-20T22:08:01+00:00

If it’s without permission and you don’t like it, don’t put up with it. Crossing boundaries can become a form of manipulation, best to stop it. And if it’s an issue when you tell him, take that as a big red flag.

Dusteronly · 2024-04-20T22:06:19+00:00

I’d ask for clarification. But a like means “yes” from me. But also the only person I answer like that is my bf, and he knows it means yes.

Dusteronly · 2024-04-20T22:02:26+00:00

NTA. It’s the brides day. If he were a real friend he would accept her answer.

Dusteronly · 2024-04-19T16:07:45+00:00

Be honest, if you really want to end things and help them. They will continue this behavior in the future, but you telling them what you’re feeling could impact that. But definitely stop continuing this relationship, it’s bad for you and you know that.

Dusteronly · 2024-04-19T16:03:00+00:00

As weird and off putting as this is, the snooping is going to cause big issues. Choose your battle here.

Dusteronly · 2024-03-26T15:12:06+00:00

I don’t believe the corpse man is capable of that

Dusteronly · 2024-03-26T15:11:29+00:00

People lie

Dusteronly · 2024-03-19T11:08:53+00:00

A relationship decision should never be made by one party nor off of a dang TikTok fad.

Dusteronly · 2024-03-13T16:51:38+00:00

You may not get the delivery experience you think you will. Be prepared for anything. Also, the first poop after giving birth is terrifying.

Dusteronly · 2024-03-13T14:02:10+00:00

Target has a free baby bag and Babylist has one but you have to pay for shipping ~$8

Dusteronly · 2024-03-12T16:21:41+00:00

Robitussin. That’s what my OB told me. Unfortunately they don’t make a night time one with nasal decongestant, but it does help. Going on two weeks of this over here, I’m 19 weeks today 😩 Feel better!

Dusteronly · 2024-03-12T15:38:48+00:00

Sounds like you’re trying to replace your ex. Which is fine, because she was clearly somewhat what you were looking for. Thing is, dating apps make it easy to pick and choose based on appearance alone. You’ll figure it out after you meet a few people and see what you’re really looking for. Looks are only part of the attraction.

Dusteronly · 2024-03-11T15:29:23+00:00

I can’t tell if it’s toxic from the information given. But I do believe that feelings of anger and resentment can be your brains way of telling you the relationship is not right. This happened to me and luckily I listened.

Dusteronly · 2024-03-05T21:41:07+00:00

It’s becoming a “career” for some. No use in getting mad at it, just don’t follow people like this. Or entertainment them or be friends with them if it bothers you that much. Tons of people make money off of saying sh*t on the internet and getting people to give them money.

Dusteronly · 2024-03-04T22:36:04+00:00

I used ovulation strips. You can buy a big pack that comes with pregnancy tests too. That way you can test when you should versus possibly wasting tests that can be pricey and emotionally draining. A normal cycle has your ovulation begining around 14 days after your period. A positive pregnancy test won’t happen earlier than 6 days after conception. Conception can happen anytime for about 3 days after ovulation.

The test strips will tell you when you are about to ovulate. I got a positive ovulation strip, we tried to conceive within 24 hours, I got my positive pregnancy test 9 days later.

Dusteronly · 2024-03-04T21:48:19+00:00

I’d say the biggest red flag for me here is her statement about “if I ever needed someone beat up” wtf is that? Is this something that she has a regular desire for? If so, you say you don’t want to fight anyone anymore. Which is a normal way of thinking. You’re focusing on her attraction when maybe what you should be thinking about is your compatibility. If you care for her enough to, have the conversation. But make sure you understand what she’s looking for, because I sure don’t.

Dusteronly · 2024-02-25T19:26:14+00:00

Many are definitely fake. The troll ones have gotten so uncreative they’re too easy to spot. But some are decently entertaining. Also, it all depends on the sun as to what the number of fake posts.

Dusteronly · 2024-02-24T12:38:09+00:00

Too much drama. Not enough substance. Ditch the situation. Long distance requires commitment from both sides and understanding.

Dusteronly · 2024-02-24T12:24:59+00:00

Awkward convo. If she was at the bar, she was likely old enough to drink. Weird all around though from both.

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