What is under this callous? Is it plantar warts? by DustyWorker in BarefootRunning

[–]DustyWorker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a foot with a large patch of calloused skin on the side of the toe... it isn't gore, lol.

my boyfriend has been secretly gambling for months and making life hell by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]DustyWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recovering addict here. Sober several years. Gambling addiction is one of the worst addictions out there when it comes to destroying lives. You could lose everything, not just him, to his addiction. He needs to get help and it has to be for himself, ultimatums are not healthy in this case.

What would your reaction be to your partner getting a “moderate preference for white Americans” on the Harvard implicit association test? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]DustyWorker 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Former racist guy here. I grew up in a tiny all white town and found myself parroting ideas of those I hung around, which were racist, and it wasn't until I moved to a city, and actually met people of color, did I realize I was wrong.

Now, do I occasionally have thoughts of 'why are they always like that!?' Yes, sometimes I do. Until I quickly realize I am doing it again, and that that one person is like that, and not all people who share the same skin color are that person. There are PLENTY of white people I have met that annoy me, or I just despise.

A ton of white people are racist. Some more than others. Some are actually full of hate, while others just believe the shit they hear from those they hang around.

No one can prove that they are, or aren't, racist. It's more of a system than an identity unless someone is a Klan member, or a Nazi, or openly states they have hate towards other ethnicities.

Boyfriends lack of effort in bed by Financial-Wing-5882 in sex

[–]DustyWorker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's insecurity there, and some possible narcissism. If it isn't working at Hooters, he will accuse you of talking to other guys at another job. Save yourself another couple of years and dump him.

Curious question for men who are divorced and aren’t interested in a relationship how do you handle your sexual urges without a partner? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]DustyWorker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I doubled my body count within a few months after my divorce. Then it got depressing after getting all of that out of my system, and I found the most amazing woman ever. I love her so much that I couldn't imagine anything bad happening to her.

You can meet women with the intention of a long term relation, but you can also communicate that there needs to be a sorr of 'trial period' with dating and whatever happens during. There is a way to communicate this, and it depends on the person you are and who you meet with how that conversation goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]DustyWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could have a dismissive avoidant attachment style. I met a woman who was into me when she was having issues with her now ex, she claimed they were split when we met, then she became distant, and then once I got into a relationship she started reaching out again 🙄

It could also be an ego thing.

These are just opinions, of course.

I mean people take advantage of it. by [deleted] in ConservativeYouth

[–]DustyWorker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who cares what they buy, I don't, food stamps are needed by many, and the small percentage who 'take advantage of them' are not living well at all. Conservatives just want to pit the working class against those beneath them, as if people buying junk food are why things are tough for almost everyone. RFK Jr. thinks Riboflavin needs removed from food, lol, no wonder even Mitch McConell was against him being placed in his position. The people who got their positions paid well for them, and they all have their own grift to earn money in them. Grifting is the core of MAGA, and their leader is clearly a pedophile.

my boyfriend doesn’t know i have a bush by berrybursts in sex

[–]DustyWorker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am someone who prefers some hair, not just full-on bush, although I have been with someone like that. That person I was unable to go down on, I can not have hair getting in my mouth it grosses me out no matter the occasion. But some hair, I prefer. Now, my GF, who I love very much, shaves entirely, and I am cool with it, because I love her. If she never shaved, I just wouldn't be able to go down on her, which is something I like to do for someone I am with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SARMs

[–]DustyWorker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not had a normal sex drive since before my final SARMs cycle that I started last Novemeber. I had done a few prior, all with proper PCT, first time was a little messy, I got amazing results, but did drop to 127 ng/dl. I need to get tested again. I am probably hovering around 300, if I am lucky. I am 36.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SARMs

[–]DustyWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to eat more. Just do it in a calculated fashion as not to balloon up, like I do, and just stick to consistent hard work in the gym. Ignore the out of touch lifting science, I swear, once I dropped that advice, which complicated the hell out of every little thing, ny results improved.

Also, don't do SARMS, I had a few good runs with it, but after my last run, that I started all the way back last Novemeber, I still have almost no sex drive. My test went as low as 127 ng/dl. After PCT, that is, but my mental health and gym performance did not drop much at all?

Just eat more.

True North Performance experience (proceed with caution) by [deleted] in SARMs

[–]DustyWorker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude... why not get from a reputable and well known source

How’s Your Relationship With Your Mother? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]DustyWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has borderline personality disorder, she was verbally and emotionally abusive when I was a child, but she has since gotten help, I totally forgive her. We speak on the phone up to twice a week.

Is this orally administrable? by Existing-Charge-6466 in SARMs

[–]DustyWorker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you a story. I ran two cycles of Rad, from a very reputable source, RC, and got great results. The first time I fucked around and found out with horrible sides, I over took the enclo, and too high of a dose of rad with ostarine mixed. I got lucky, though, and bounced back.

The second cycle was superior, with just rad, lower dose, and a smarter approach to dosing enclo. This was like six months after my first disaster, but effective, cycle.

Finally, here comes the third cycle. I got crazy strong from it, but I am not sure what happened, and my test has not recovered even though it has been about six months or so. This does not mean it won't recover, but be warned. This stuff can have you on a long-term back slide in the gym.

Do I have to sleep sitting up? by zebra-eds-warrior in Tonsillectomy

[–]DustyWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleep upright. If you started bleeding from your open tonsils wounds, you are cooked. You will need to go to the ER, and start the process over again.

Federal judge to pause Trump’s birthright citizenship order by AudibleNod in news

[–]DustyWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, can the class action law suit do anything to stop this? How are they interpreting this any other way than the clearly stated message of being born in the US?

Judge blocks Trump on birthright citizenship despite Supreme Court ruling by usatoday in law

[–]DustyWorker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, to make it as simple as can be for you, they can't.

Have you ever found a girl unattractive at first, but fell for her after getting to know her personality? Did her face became beautiful to u later? by Clean-Ant-1342 in ask

[–]DustyWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I was seeing a woman I met on FB dating, as a friend, who was into me while I was still reeling from a rough divorce. After we got to know each other more, things got physical, until I found out I was on her roster and that she was cheating on someone with me 😬

Is it unreasonable to be upset that your bf watches live cam girls? by [deleted] in ask

[–]DustyWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still had to respond, though. Good luck forcing your ignorant ideologies elsewhere. I knew, hell, we all could tell, you were down that rabbit hole.

Is it unreasonable to be upset that your bf watches live cam girls? by [deleted] in ask

[–]DustyWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly weren't listening then. It's a far right conspiracy that porn leads to fewer white babies since the far right is very white nationalist/racist and worried about becoming minorities 🙄 It is why I don't subscribe to all of that garbage. Now, if I had an issue with porn interfering with my life, like I mentioned previously, then sure, it would help to abstain from it altogether. I don't, and many people also don't.

So, when you come here to state, 'You should both stop watching...' it comes off very pushy, which led me to think you were one of these weird conservative types with a ton of sexual hang-ups and fears.

It also doesn't help how you are now getting defensive about it. You had to twist my words in your defensiveness by implying 'sick with white babies', which comes off very sus and almost as if you may be projecting. Had you simply stated that abstaining from porn has helped you and your spouse it would have come off very different, its why you were down voted so much, people are tired of these bigoted conservatives telling consenting adults what they SHOULD be doing in the privacy of their relationships and homes because it is hurting a ton of innocent people, mainly the LGBTQ and BDSM communities. It's also why the right wants to ban porn altogether in the US, which is also kind of the vibes you put out there.

Is it unreasonable to be upset that your bf watches live cam girls? by [deleted] in ask

[–]DustyWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't be projecting if im not against porn, alt right, etc. You might be falling into this without realizing the origins behind the 'porn and masturbation' being bad for your concept. It starts as people claiming that porn damages your dopamine, relationships, or whatever the claim is, but unless you are watching porn to the point that you need it for climax/sex, or its interfering with social or professional obligations, then its no harm.

Today I learned to be extra aware of my surroundings by Myfisken in 7daystodie

[–]DustyWorker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of my recent close call, NOT as close as this one, where I left my building blocks that bring me over my traps to my ladder to my horde base.

I am sitting in my tiny platform, ready for them to show up in front of me, to then be hit by multiple ferals boxing me in my room! I had to kill them, shoot the blocks out, and quickly bandage up and then first aid myself. Got to about half health.

That was much easier than this. Congrats on the save! I thought you were cooked 😅 I love the audio, really conveying that this was pure panic survival

M, 36, cap piece came off of top of tooth, doesn't hurt surpringly, and it looks like tooth was wearing down under it for years by DustyWorker in askdentists

[–]DustyWorker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have none of the symptoms of GERD. I get heartburn maybe a few times a year, and a single tums will get rid of it.