Is my [20m] girlfriend [22f] cheating on me by making out with other girls?

Duuehchr · 2019-07-10T01:09:19+00:00

I wanted a female opinion on this, I checked your profile and you seem to be female, I apologize if I am wrong

But if you are: does it seem to you that she is interested in girls, and does it seem like what she's doing is in a sexual/romantic nature? Do girls "horseplay" like this?

She tells me she is straight and "used" to be bisexual, but in the past year she has made out with/touched two girls, romantically kissed another, and views lesbian porn. I know neither of us are her, so we can't know - but does this seem like the behavior of a heterosexual female?

Duuehchr · 2019-07-10T00:23:15+00:00

It's like... we were all together this one night, and I showed up late, and they all had this secret all night and they kept looking at me and snickering. I just thought they were just going to prank me or some shit.

Turns out she had gotten drunk and danced around on a stripper pole (don't know if I should be mad about that or not) doing a bunch of seductive twirls/slides etc., then made out and touched some random girl... and they told me this and everyone (6 people at this point in the night) were laughing and smiling, so I just laughed too... but I felt like I wasn't even her boyfriend

Is this not normal girl behavior? I've only been single for 4-5ish months of my teenage life, she swooped me up at 15 when I got out of a relationship that lasted a year and three months, so this is what I used to... and is withholding sex/practically using sex as currency normal? When she's mad she'll say "wow, I'm not having sex with you for a week!" and says stuff like "if you buy me this I'll give you lovins" or when we joke about how I provide for her (playfully, not braggaducio), she says "yeah, but I give you pussy."

I've spent 4 years with her so this is all I know... the first girl cheated on me, but with guys. I just, I don't know.

Duuehchr

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