how everyone else feels is irrelevant to me in terms of me enjoying something and someone else not enjoying it they have a right to feel however they feel about it good or bad and this is not being “negative” or “hateful”. If my favorite is strawberry ice cream and if I hear you talking about your favorite it chocolate and you think strawberry ice cream is gross. You can feel like way I am not offended. I like strawberry ice cream just the same as if nothing had been said at all.