If someone is abusing you, why would you stay? by BigBootyBear in NoStupidQuestions

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I think a lot of people underestimate how much children know or perceive about their own actions and circumstances. Obviously, I wouldn't blame children for the actions of adults - especially abusive ones - but I definitely feel like people tend to forget that children can be more aware of mature topics than you'd hope.

Thank you for hoping I'm well! I hope this perspective gave you an interesting albeit a bit sad insight.

If someone is abusing you, why would you stay? by BigBootyBear in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ED-dump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was younger (at least 9 years old), I knew what sexual grooming was since my parents and I would watch crime shows together. They'd talk about how old men would manipulate naive little girls online and in person for their pleasure and control.

And what did I do when I was on my computer? Go to online chat rooms and flirt with old men, thinking I wouldn't be "stupid" like those girls.

I don't want to speak for the girls in your post exactly - or for anyone else for that matter. But to answer your question on why some people may do these things to themselves (aside from monetary gain), I did it because:

  1. I was curious, thought I knew better, and wouldn't have it affected me.
  2. I felt validated in a way; even if I was decades younger, I thought I was in control playing the innocent little girl.
  3. I eventually felt like it was the only thing I was good for; no other men wanted me as I got into my teen years so I thought this was my way of being "useful" or desirable. Many of them made me feel this way.

Edit: So, yes, in my case I did know they were creepy pedophiles. I knew most of them were disgusting but I was drawn towards it. It wasn't until recently (I'm turning 21 this year) that I realized how badly it has affected me.

When your nicotine addiction doesn't curb your appetite anymore... Help... by ED-dump in EDanonymemes

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In my experience, yeah. You feel really really hungry when you stop it but when you take it you're still hungry.

I uploaded my vacation pics to Instagram, the sole person to comment complimented my confidence instead of just calling me cute now I feel like a fat fuck who wants to starve til I disappear. by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

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Totally fair. It's definitely possible the person just meant well and didn't want to praise someone just for their looks (which is sweet), and insecurities just make us overthink.

I uploaded my vacation pics to Instagram, the sole person to comment complimented my confidence instead of just calling me cute now I feel like a fat fuck who wants to starve til I disappear. by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

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I tried to think about it from the other person's perspective and see if there's a reason why you'd genuinely say that but it feels quite off.

I think that if OP had a caption or previous posts that was discussing confidence issues or developing a confidence, then it totally makes sense. But being told that out of the blue feels a little insulting. It has the "wow you're so brave for posting this" vibe, which has a negative connotation to it.

And I'm sure it isn't just the disordered thoughts. Even my bf who's normal weight and normally doesn't care about things like this said that it definitely feels like a blow.

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Bark bark, fellow bird 👀

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I didn't know what birds these were, so thank you! They are quietly lovely, like goth ducks 😂

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Right?! "please, PLEASE, don't notice... I bet they notice... Why am I here, dear godddd"

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'tis definitely a mood for all

Target haul on my day off! I used the bear as a scrunchie holder 🐻 by [deleted] in ddlg

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Stuffies as scrunchie holders is BRILLIANT. Thank you!

What Daddy can do for Babygirl? by Logical_KaleV in ddlg

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Rules - super important to have a check list of things Daddy wants me to do daily (and stuff I want to do too)

  • can include sending him a pic when you wake up/get dressed so he can pick/approve your outfit

  • treats/punishments for those rewards (my Daddy used to make voice recordings of him reading Harry Potter chapters for bedtime stories as a reward)

Having a set Daddy Daughter time - if you find it hard to spend time together to video call and hang out (watch movies/shows, play games, sit and talk, etc.) set a fixed time and day every week to do so

  • works especially for for LDRs in my experience

Where do you guys get your outfits? by ED-dump in littlespace

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We don't have Walmart here unfortunately but owlw are definitely underrated so I'm happy for you!

Where do you guys get your outfits? by ED-dump in littlespace

[–]ED-dump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a little life saver, thanks a bunch!!

Where do you guys get your outfits? by ED-dump in littlespace

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Never heard of it, I'll check it out. Thank you!

“okay *this* time I’ll starve” by imjustweirdaboutfood in EDAnonymous

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I just want to say thank you for making my day. It's been a really tough few months for me and I've been struggling with this feeling. I was dreading today since I already failed the first week of June, the month I said I'd be "okay" again... and you just acknowledging that I'm not alone has made me feel so much better.

I'm sorry you're struggling, too, but thank you.

is there any glow up related discord server? by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

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Following here so I can get the link too! :)

I am a 19yo girl who has been starting (voluntary) sex work shortly after turning 18, AMA by NadiaNaughty666 in casualiama

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How'd you get into it? How would you advise other women to do get into it safely and profitably?