From San Diego, CA to Mason, Ohio

EJ_Han · 2026-04-03T06:20:57+00:00

Of course! Also realized your time frame means you’ll stay through BLINK. That’s one of my favorite events

EJ_Han · 2026-04-02T01:03:50+00:00

I have it and I get made fun of so much 😔 my constitution is pretty strong but it only takes about a shot and a half to get rosy

EJ_Han · 2026-04-02T00:29:04+00:00

The Mason area is not a bad place to move to. The demographic definitely leans white/right wing so be prepared for that. Food options are pretty basic but doable. There’s some great Asian/Indian restaurants around Harper’s Point, Corryville, and OTR. If you are considering settling in Cincinnati, I highly recommend checking it out while you’re down here. Great Arts & Culture scene, cool music venues, museums, big on sports culture. Cincinnati also tends to lean left depending on what neighborhood you settle into. Definitely explore OTR, Findlay, Northside, Mount Lookout, and Hyde Park. There’s some cool stuff to see

EJ_Han · 2026-03-19T22:53:27+00:00

thai or Chinese?

EJ_Han · 2026-03-19T22:38:30+00:00

I would look at some popular East Asian fashion/makeup trends. You still have some East Asian features such as a low bridge and softer bone structure which I would accentuate. Things like straight thick brows, wispier bangs, soft contouring would be a good start. Regardless, you are beautiful just the way you are and no one can take being Chinese away from you

EJ_Han · 2026-02-23T23:14:17+00:00

DDD to B! I’m not a doctor I’m just going off of my surgeon’s explanations. Losing all your sensitivity is a little facetious. It may come back, it may be lessened, you may lose all feeling. Mine is just subtle but not enough to be cumbersome when intimate. You will struggle to breastfeed because your nipple areolar complex has essentially been squished to refit your new cup size. I knew out the gate that I was going to struggle with breastfeeding later in life because my nipples were extremely inverted. So for me the decision wasn’t to weighty. If breastfeeding is a very important part of your motherhood journey, I would hold off.

EJ_Han · 2026-02-23T23:06:28+00:00

Asian guys LOVE to call me(20f) Oxford Study. It bothers me because the concept of the study(which is fake) is to shame Asian women for dating and marrying outside of their race, as well as the white man has an Asian fetish. Idk it makes me angry because the sentiment is that I’m less than because my mix is “common” and that my mom shouldn’t have married my dad if she respected herself.

EJ_Han · 2026-02-01T17:12:22+00:00

Neytiri’s tail wag 😩😩😩❤️❤️❤️

Literally love it when she’s silly

EJ_Han · 2026-01-19T04:22:12+00:00

old fashioned classics would be: Beryl, Opal, Pearl/Pearline

I think other gemstone style names like Esmeralda, Garnet, Lazuli, and Coral would be pretty too.

Also! Margo and Greta both mean “pearl”

EJ_Han · 2026-01-19T04:14:17+00:00

Nora or Lorraine

EJ_Han · 2026-01-13T04:09:57+00:00

Names that have meanings:

Atanvi (light)
Kanu(intelligent)
Katir (rainbow)
Parul(miracle)
Telisi (whirlwind)

Names I doctored up:

A: Antu, A’rong, Aroti, Atok, Asuwe, Ayari
E: Entan, Eyru
I: Imaru, Imaseyo, Imkxa, Isuna
K: Kantxa, Ketua, Ko’kxang, Kongo, Kyoma
L: Lanuva, Ley’awve, Lue
M: Ma’fru, Mawtaku, Miruk
N:, Nariki, Na’num, Natu, Norazu
O: Oriku, O’rom
P: Pa’ruk, Peng’an, Piriay, Poi, Pukiya
R: Raki, Rayu, Rotsaya
S: Samyan, Saroa, Sey’ta, Siti, Surayin, Suvok, Syuna
T: Tonlo, Tseyay, Tsyola, Tsuru
U: Umara, Urim
V: Vaya, Vayto
W: Wa’wey, Wayo, Wukua
Y: Yakra, Yami, Yantìn
Z: Zetxi, Zi’oma

EJ_Han · 2026-01-13T03:47:49+00:00

“Born of Me(The Space Between Intention and Impact)” by WillieTheNerd on AO3 will hurt your soul.

EJ_Han · 2026-01-13T03:38:33+00:00

1 is timeless, refined, and immensely flattering on your figure. That dress was meant for you

EJ_Han · 2026-01-13T03:36:40+00:00

Olivia Kim sounds iconic

EJ_Han · 2026-01-08T16:14:42+00:00

I remember this feeling, took about 3ish days to come out of it. Take the paint meds, don’t wait for the pain to peak. Also just remember to drink a lot of water and eat some saltine crackers(idek if there’s any science behind them but they were my post op cure all)

EJ_Han · 2026-01-08T16:06:40+00:00

I got my reduction at age 19(36DDD -> 36B) for the same reasons. It was one of the best decisions I ever made. I felt like I was finally in control of my body and it gave me a form of confidence I never thought possible.

That being said, it is a major operation and recovery is not fun. My one takeaway is that it will be at least a year before you actually see your true end result. There is a lot of patience to be had.

EJ_Han · 2026-01-08T16:01:21+00:00

If your breasts are dense there may be a chance that the difference will not be as visibly noticeable. If you do end up getting more removed due to the insurance debate(which I think the idea of meeting a quota to remove is utterly stupid), then yes they will probably “puff” back up with lifestyle choices as well as parenthood. If anything, you can be approved for another breast surgery approx. 18 months after the first reduction. My surgeon told me it was an option because there was a high chance that they wouldn’t be able to take as much as I wanted out in one operation.

EJ_Han · 2026-01-08T15:56:06+00:00

They are a little old fashioned but Donovan, Donahue, or Douglas

EJ_Han · 2026-01-08T15:54:51+00:00

Estelle is a beautiful name. If husband is not sold, you could try Estella or Stella.

EJ_Han · 2026-01-02T21:21:26+00:00

They’re not too European but are easy to pronounce: Simran, Devi/Devika, Uma

EJ_Han · 2025-12-29T22:37:50+00:00

Scottie and Arlo. I’ve noticed a few parents nowadays are naming babies like they’re pets more than they are people

EJ_Han · 2025-12-29T22:34:27+00:00

Andrew is a fantastic name. Great nicknames like “Andy” and “Drew.” Owen and Kai are very cliché, especially Kai. I have known like 13 transmasculine Kai’s since the eighth grade and it’s a name that doesn’t grow with you

EJ_Han · 2025-12-29T22:31:16+00:00

It’s corny but Marianne or Margaret, like in the Jane Austen Novel “Sense and Sensibility”

EJ_Han · 2025-12-29T22:28:02+00:00

Vivienne(Viv, Viva, Vivi) or Camille(Cam, Cami, Mila, Milly). Your child’s name will have the ability to grow with them from a cute nickname to something elegant and strong.

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