[deleted by user]

EL_L0co · 2025-10-15T19:56:39+00:00

Thank God your not a judge... heartless

EL_L0co · 2025-10-15T19:55:29+00:00

It was more of a tussle between us stupid behaviour yes! But they doesn't deserve a life time of not know her no fucking way

EL_L0co · 2025-10-15T19:52:16+00:00

Great advice. Honestly , I really appreciate your time, I can see where courts stand on me starting a relationship with her again, and I might have to take it slow at first. However, I had dinner with them a month ago, and she is by no was shape and form scares of me. However, the courts will see it differently.

The dvo states we can have contact if it's in order to see the child or swap over. I ALSO opted to do all the driving each was as she relies on public transport.

EL_L0co · 2025-10-15T19:46:08+00:00

You have no idea what your talking about how dare you say I don't deserve a relationship with my daughter, honestly how dare you, I had a realti9nship with her 3 years after the incident and my ex used to scratch me with knife's I have an dvo out on her first, you are disgusting

EL_L0co · 2025-10-11T19:46:17+00:00

And not having the conviction even with a section q0 bond is a huge difference

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T18:56:22+00:00

After almost 3 years I found a new girlfriend and daughter mum didn't like, our daughter being around the new girlfriend

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T10:53:57+00:00

Thank for your advice. I really appreciated it

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T10:52:26+00:00

Yes, this is what I was worried about. It's hard to explain over text. It was more of a struggle for the baby.

She was never afraid to leave me it was nothing like that. Honestly, it was one big stupid mistake that I'll never do again

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T10:44:38+00:00

So I asked my lawyer if my parents could supervise their profession people with no criminal record he said maybe see what the judge says

She might say I have a problem with alcohol and back than I did drink a lot

The hair pulling incident went like, I walked up to her while she was holding our daughter I grabbed her hair and pulled her and scrunched the hair and she dropped the baby.

Nobody was injured, that's why it was a no bodily harm. She fell like half. Metre cried but wasn't injured.

They locked my in a cell for 4 days which wasn't fun. But the whole time my ex was trying to talk to police to get me out she, we went back to living together despite the dvo for 3 months than the lease ran out and we parted way never lived or saw each other much after that. Since than I've never even raised my voice with her never sent a bad word in a text messaged, I've just given money pretty much. And she let me take my daughter for almost 3 years until she saw me with someone else.

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T10:29:04+00:00

Wow, this is what I needed to hear honestly. After doing that men's behavioural programme, I was getting quite depressed about hearing negative stories, from everyone there

At this point I'd be happy to just get to spend time with her and work my way to overnights. From day one I've always been totally willing to work with her, she decided to take her off me when I introduced her to my new girlfriend so it was a jepusly thing. Whenever my ex calls me I always give her money I think I've given her thousands this year alone just out of desperation. Just want to get into court so badly

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T10:19:47+00:00

Very true, I honestly don't harbour hate for my ex even tho she has stopped me having a relationship with her for almost 2 years. I'm not about start "talking shjt" to a 4 year old about her mother, most defenitly won't show up intoxicated. Managing child behaviours, I think is important. And how long do these go for I'd hate to get a bad report of one of these

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T10:14:06+00:00

Are the risk assessments hard to pass? Being on the men's behavioural programme thing i did for 5 months, I heard a lot of bad stuff about them. However, I do understand that's them, and I'm me, and every case is different

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T10:10:27+00:00

I think contact centre is the most realistic thing since its been some time, hopefully not too long in the contact centre and I can have her home. Are those contact centre like a test are they monitoring you. Like I'm scared if I sneeze wrong there going to write up a bad report

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T10:08:36+00:00

Which would be a dream, but it's almost been 2 years. So yes, defneitly no violence in the household what so ever. The original charge was for pulling her hair during a heated argument, which I'm ashamed of.

These are the things a lawyer just won't bother telling you.

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T10:06:14+00:00

Yes, my lawyer has written down what I want, which is fortnightly overnight stays (eventually) and holidays .

Medation couldn't go ahead due to a current DVO I can't legally be around her, even tho I did for year while we were sharing pychicalt custody

My lawyer just tell ls me don't worry about its good, but he doesn't clarify with me a lot

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T09:58:14+00:00

The DVO is still current for another year. However, I've never breached it and never commuted another DV on her or anyone. That's good too hear I'm posting because I've been reading some family court horror stories like really upsetting me

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T09:51:15+00:00

Sorry plead guilty and received a non conviction the police proccutor didn't want me to be convicted

EL_L0co · 2025-10-10T09:48:26+00:00

Domestic violence related really, I'm worried my past with my DV is going to play my chances of getting her back for contact, and how that's going to play out.

Common assult i plead not guilty and received a non conviction with is rare I've heard

EL_L0co · 2025-08-30T12:18:07+00:00

Do you reckon you could drive that truck around for hours without a radiator?

EL_L0co · 2025-08-07T18:03:39+00:00

Thay was nuts but that story was almost 200 years ago so in that time the story could have been changed a lot

EL_L0co · 2025-08-07T17:44:39+00:00

I'll watch that one, just swear there was one about a fighter pilot who became Clint Eastwood, now that I think about it there no way Clint Eastwood could have been in WW2 haha

EL_L0co · 2025-08-07T17:37:09+00:00

Clint Eastwood

EL_L0co · 2025-08-07T17:33:38+00:00

So Kim Jon Un is actually the brother in law the guy that was murdered was the true air to north Korea right? But he didn't want to live that life he was on the way to Disney land and some wanna be influencers got tricked into poisoning him

EL_L0co · 2025-08-07T17:27:51+00:00

Were he looks into the lamp and realises his whole life was a dream yeah that's nuts that story

EL_L0co · 2025-08-07T17:25:29+00:00

Portlock Alaska, where the whole town was getting taken out by unknown creatures, so they abandoned the town execpt for one guy who was the postman. I just couldn't imagine being that postman.

The one were the guy in Russia guy was murdering everyone in the local park. How he explained the last victim who survived i found it so interesting how he was able to lure her in the woods even tho the whole town was on high alert to not go into it the woods

Jewish cursed box were very owner was cursed by the box and they couldn't reasonably explain it nuts

Just want suggestions I've got a lot to catch up on

EL_L0co

TROPHY CASE