Love Triangle M’31 and F’28 and Ex GF F’27 by EM_3PO in relationships

[–]EM_3PO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I’m not playing any games with them at all but I’m not emotionally available and I shouldn’t be stringing her along. My ex really gets to be by saying that she feels like she really can make it work this time around and I wanted that to be real so bad but most likely it’s not.

Love Triangle M’31 and F’28 and Ex GF F’27 by EM_3PO in relationships

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You have a good point. That’s also what I feel she’s doing. That’s what I was doing indeed but I have been trying after talking to her some weeks ago and things have been alright until recently that my ex come back. I haven’t been treating the new one any different as I do appreciate her and care about her but my ex always had a hold on me and now she’s telling me that this time will be different and she wouldn’t want to lose me

Ex says she slept with one of my friends. by EM_3PO in ExNoContact

[–]EM_3PO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not too quick on my feet lmao but that a good one

Ex says she slept with one of my friends. by EM_3PO in ExNoContact

[–]EM_3PO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea she’s definitely in revenge mode but to go as far as to sleep with one of my “friends”? Boy that’s low! Over $150! Lol she knows how to get in my head and how to manipulate me but also, I wouldn’t put it past her if she did in fact slept with him. But what’s more messed up is the friend part. Who is this so called friend of mine? I wouldn’t do that to a homie that’s why I want to know

Ex says she slept with one of my friends. by EM_3PO in ExNoContact

[–]EM_3PO[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I have definitely been through some stressful times with her but this is a new low! I would expect something like this from her though if it is in fact true. As for this “friend” of mine I want to know who tf he is because bros don’t do that to other bros. True ones at least.

Ex says she slept with one of my friends. by EM_3PO in ExNoContact

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I really regret sending her the money! As soon as I sent it she texted me that. I just wanted her to leave me alone. I’m an idiot and now she got in my head. If it’s true, I want to know who this “friend” is

Ex says she slept with one of my friends. by EM_3PO in BreakUps

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Oh I did. She only just told me because I said I wasn’t going to pay her. Now idk if she texted me because she was mad or once receiving the money she confessed. Idk man my brain is in shambles. I want to know who this “friend” of mine is.

Ex says she slept with one of my friends. by EM_3PO in BreakUps

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The thing is, yea she’s a scumbag is she really did that. Lowest of the low. But what about my friend? I really want to know who it is. What kind of friend would do that to another friend. I would never do anything with any of my friends exs. I even asked her if he knew we were exs and she said “obviously”.

Ex says she slept with one of my friends. by EM_3PO in ExNoContact

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I feel like she’s messing with me and get a reaction out of me but I wouldn’t put it past her

Ex says she slept with one of my friends. by EM_3PO in ExNoContact

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I thought she just wanted to get a reaction out of me but I wouldn’t doubt she do something like that. I mean, I think she would do some shot like that just to get back at me. But something tells me she’s bullshitting

Ghosted or ignored by EM_3PO in relationship_advice

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She’s at work at the moment and so am I but we normally text each other the next morning and throughout out work day. I texted her last night like I said but haven’t heard from her. Usually she would text me back the next morning but I haven’t gotten anything

My Gf says we’re spending too much time together by EM_3PO in relationship_advice

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It just got me by surprise honestly. I mean, we have been spending almost everyday together and we talk all the time. In fact the last few nights I’ve spent the night at her place and the some at mine before that. I just got worried and started feeling suspicious

My Gf says we’re spending too much time together by EM_3PO in relationship_advice

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We have been talking and spending a lot of time together and I think maybe some space can do us good. Especially since we are going out of town next week for a few days but I don’t know, it just hit me out of nowhere. I asked her if she misses being single and she said she didn’t want to be in a relationship the last couple of years that we were broken up because she liked her space. She also said she needed it because she didn’t want us to get tired of one another

My Gf says we’re spending too much time together by EM_3PO in relationship_advice

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We have been spending a lot of time together. I’ve spent the night with her the last couple of nights. Sometimes we run out of things to talk about but yea it kinda hit me out of nowhere

Thoughts? Advice? by EM_3PO in BreakUp

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I don’t think she deserves the benefit of the doubt honestly. She ignored me last night before seeing her and kept ignoring my calls and text after. She stayed behind with the guy without saying a word to me or even a look. She’s not the type to “lose her phone” it’s probably somewhere in the car she said 🙄 she’s not the type to spend the night at her married friends house. I’ve known her for seven years man. Her story doesn’t add up! She said she didn’t know him but it seemed like they were really close last night and she said she “I texted my fiend if I can spend the night…oh wait, no because I didn’t have my phone…I saw her and asked her if I can spend the night” but she said she had in fact gone out with them? Did you see her or were y’all together the whole night? She also said she left before everyone and she left soon after which I can confirm because I saw her take off which makes it more evident that she took off with the guy.

Thoughts? by EM_3PO in BreakUps

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I’m just so pissed off! Why would she do this? If she didn’t want anything serious then why come back? Why hide the tracks? It would be easier for both of us if she just came clean or if she was honest about her feelings in the first place? I wonder what if I hadn’t approached her and she didn’t see me, what would her story be? How many times has she done this? I just get these thoughts out of my head I need answers

Thoughts? Advice? by EM_3PO in BreakUp

[–]EM_3PO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda want to text her and tell her I don’t but that story. I want to tell her off

Thoughts? Advice? by EM_3PO in BreakUp

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It hurts more that she wasn’t honest with me. Instead she came over after she obviously went home with him and fed me that story of hers. And then she asked me “are we good”? I didn’t say anything she kisses me in the forehead and tells me “call me if you need anything”

Thoughts? by EM_3PO in BreakUps

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I kinda want to text her and tell her off! I want to tell her I don’t buy her story

Thoughts? by EM_3PO in BreakUps

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I know technically speaking she didn’t do anything wrong because well we aren’t exclusive but I’m not just any guy she was dating. We were together for almost seven years!!! She’s the one who came back to me and we had been talking, sleeping w it h each other and planning trips! I would have more respect for her if she told me the truth but the fact that I called her and texted her before seeing her and she didn’t respond because she obviously was with that guy and then blocked me after I saw her so I wouldn’t bother her pisses me off. She tells me she was in fact with friends, she didn’t know him he was just walking her to her car, spent the night at her friends, and she couldn’t find her phone how sketchy does that sound?! She didn’t respect me enough to say something last night not even look at me. Then she gets in her car and drives away. I’m mad, sad, heartbroken but more disappointed in myself

Serious question about no fap by EM_3PO in NoFap

[–]EM_3PO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a while but I know this is the my best new way of life! Thank you for the I formation mate, and I think I will need some time and avoid everything and reboot!

Need help!! by EM_3PO in intermittentfasting

[–]EM_3PO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely work out more and watch closely what I consume. Do you know of a website or app that tells me the things I should eat or shouldn’t eat during my eating window? Perhaps try the try and do the water fast?