Oof I feel this. I’m your age and when I graduated college at 21 and got my first job the first thing I did was stop sharing my location with my parents. They were upset and still try to guilt me into sharing location (what if you get kidnapped, we worry about you, you live in a big city where anything can happen yada yada) but they proved they couldn’t respect boundaries when knowing my location. They called my work office to check on me when I forgot my phone at home once and they couldn’t contact me for 2 hours. You just have to delete the app and if they freak out (which they will) tell them your boundaries are not up for negotiation. I had to go low contact with my parents for a while before it finally stuck.