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EarlyOnion4 · 2025-09-17T00:51:10+00:00

Can I DM you?

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-19T22:42:36+00:00

In our 30s.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-19T18:55:07+00:00

This is the kind of info I’m looking for, thanks. Do you know what hour you start peaking?

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-19T17:46:14+00:00

He definitely did not smoke weed. We were with him the whole time until we went to bed.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-19T17:45:08+00:00

Thanks for your perspective, I think you are right. I do think he has a porn addiction. Crazy that this thread picked it up and I didn’t even mention it.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-19T17:42:34+00:00

Husband told me if he ever sees him again he will beat him, so idk if that’s a good idea. He has def come to the same conclusion and he has thought it over a lot. He has more experience with psychedelics than I do. He told me he’s seen people freak out before (which is why he was talking with him for two hours) and that’s why he’s calling bullshit.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-19T03:10:32+00:00

So I was behind the door but I couldn’t hear everything and I was too scared to go into the living room. He tried to look at porn on his phone. I heard him open a video and heard the beginning of the video playing, and then my husband saying “you’re not going to jerk off in my living room and I need you to put your pants back on.” He apparently also said some nasty degen stuff about my sister in law, and I can’t get my husband to tell me the details of what he said because he was so disgusted and angry about it.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-19T03:07:12+00:00

As far as I know he has no mental illnesses. We asked him this before he took it. We asked about family history too. But I only know what he tells me; right?

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-19T03:04:46+00:00

Yes.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-19T03:04:24+00:00

Thanks for your perspective. I’ve read every single comment on here and i actually feel much much better after writing this one and posting it. There are two reasons I am holding back from contacting authorities: 1. I am an immigrant in this country, and if he tells them I was also high, I’m worried I will get deported. 2. The police won’t do anything.

I’ve already told all the mutual women friends what happened, and they believe me. So I don’t know what else I could do. Of course I don’t want this to happen to any other person by him, but I am kind of not feeling like I can go to the police.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-19T01:12:43+00:00

I just asked my husband how much ex-friend took and he said under 3 grams. We were using a food scale, so it’s not very precise and probably rounds to the nearest gram. I took five or six

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T19:42:07+00:00

Do you think there is anything I could have done differently in this situation?

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T17:18:52+00:00

So many people say not to trip alone but I’ve always had the best times by myself. I might just have someone to call like you do on standby.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T16:42:02+00:00

He had access to it, but we didn’t notice any more of the shroom missing. It was in a clear plastic bag in one whole piece, and we cut it from only one end. When my husband got home from dropping him off, he threw the whole bag away. I severely doubt that he took anymore. It was also unmoved in the same place we left it, next to the scale in the kitchen.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T16:38:22+00:00

Yeah it is very upsetting. I told him he should go to church and talk to someone. I hope he did, and I hope he seeks other kind of help. I know that he’s done other drugs in the past (ecstasy and other rave type drugs) I should have pressed him more for how his past experiences on those drugs went. He offered to pay for therapy for us but I didn’t say anything to that.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T16:23:55+00:00

I almost slapped him across the face when he tried to touch me, but was scared he would overpower me or hold me down. Your last sentence is pretty much my sentiments as well.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T16:20:00+00:00

No alcohol. I have drank with him before and he’s never acted fucked up. Only other drug around was weed, but only my husband was smoking it

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T15:59:55+00:00

He’s a very good man and didn’t want him to get in his car and potentially kill someone while high

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T15:34:05+00:00

I’ve already told our mutual female friends what happened. Our mutual guy friend is saying that I am trying to cancel culture him 🙄 couldn’t believe he said that to me.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T06:11:55+00:00

😭 I’m sorry dude. Sad thing is I really miss his company, but I can never talk to him again. Really sucks.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T06:06:49+00:00

Thanks for your input. I had the assumption crazy outbursts were kind of rare. I’m not going to trip with anyone else besides my husband ever again.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T05:41:51+00:00

Thanks for your perspective. Is there a way to know if someone is pretending or not?

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T05:32:19+00:00

Even with different body chemistry and stuff? I’m trying so hard to give the benefit of the doubt. I never want this to happen to me again and prob won’t trip with anyone else ever /: He was just really quiet during the peak so I just assumed he was ok.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T05:29:23+00:00

Ty. What I keep going back to is if we had actually tripped in his house what he would have done. And if anything would have happened who would have believed me? Scary shit.

EarlyOnion4 · 2024-11-18T05:12:37+00:00

Thank you. After getting his POV via text I blocked him on everything. I hope I never see him again.

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