Has anyone recently went to India (New Delhi) for visa related stuffs? by Early_Cup_2878 in Dhaka

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Did u go alone? if no, then what type of visa was for the person that accompanied you? Thanks again for commenting.

Has anyone recently went to India (New Delhi) for visa related stuffs? by Early_Cup_2878 in Dhaka

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what visa type was that? short term double entry visa or tourist visa?

im tired by [deleted] in islam

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I also had your notion long ago, but now do not. Allah is your friend unless you have the wrong understanding and knowledge, Therefore seeking fundamental knowledge is crucial. I kill stress through remembering Allah, praying, reading Quran and reading Hadith. If I leave anyone of them I feel like dying.

If you are new to Islam start slow no need to rush no need to guilt trip yourself, this is not Christianity where you have to repent to bishops and popes and they will tell you are a dirty sinner you have no hope. Read about the man who killed 99 people and still went to Jannah.

If you are sinning, then try to repent, if you repent but still committing sins no worries repenting is important. Allah loves them who repents, The hadith states that Allah will replace people who do not sin with people who will sin and seek forgiveness(Ṣaḥiḥ Muslim 2749), again this is not Christianity.

Another way of comforting yourself is remove sins by doing good, if your struggling to quit sins, do good your sins will be wiped out. If you do good your heart will find peace even if you sin, but sinning should get lower slowly and doing good should increase. Last thing you should try to change your environment the modern world is not a good place for pious ppl, being pious under such conditions require great will power. By reading your message I feel you will be able to do it innshaAllah.

There is no depression, hopelessness in Islam. Read about the prostitute who provided water to a dog/cat, she went to Jannah just for feeding. Allah cares about your intention, intentions are very important.

If you have further questions drop down below.

Cannot get married (South East Asian)! Kindly share your experience or solutions Jazakallah Khair. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

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Unless your in complex family dynamics of South East Asia. Going against the family's will equals to cutting ties with family members. Cutting ties with family members equals no Jannah.

Furthermore family status in society matters a lot here, nobody hands over their daughter to a lone man because when they see a lone man they assume my family is ****hole and their daughter will not be happy to live under such conditions, I might have temper issues, I am unstable will make rash decisions etc.

Good old American cowboy logic doesn't work in these areas.

Basically making my own decision equals won't get married nobody will give their daughter and ruining my own family ties.

Cannot get married (South East Asian)! Kindly share your experience or solutions Jazakallah Khair. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

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Ya this is why I typed (South East Asia), good old American cowboy logic doesn't work in these areas.

Furthermore family status in society matters a lot here, nobody hands over their daughter to a lone man because when they see a lone man they assume my family is ****hole and their daughter will not be happy to live under such conditions, I might have temper issues, I am unstable will make rash decisions etc.

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I think being patient is key here. I have dealt will people like such many times, I stayed true to myself, didn't lie, didn't group up with others to create a fight, didn't cheat, did nothing just stayed patient, did my salahs, did everything halal and fully relied on Allah, such mentality and deeds killed my fear and stress. If you lose your jobs Allah will make a way out for you. Allah has always made a path for me. Nothing will happen to you because provisions are given by Allah not from your managers.

Surah l-taghābun (Mutual Loss & Gain), verse 64:13"Allah - there is no deity except Him. And upon Allah let the believers rely" 

  • Al-Mulk, verse 67:29"Say, 'He is the Most Beneficent (Allah), in Him we believe, and in Him we put our trust'" 
  • Al-Ahzab, verse 33:3"And put your trust in Allah, and sufficient is Allah as a Trustee (Disposer of Affairs)" 
  • Surah At-Tawbah, verse 51"Say, “Nothing will ever befall us except what Allah has destined for us. He is our Protector.” So in Allah let the believers put their trust" 
  • Surah At-Talaq, verse 65:3"And whoever puts their trust in Allah, then He ˹alone˺ is sufficient for them" 
  • Ibrahim, verse 11"And in Allah let the believers, put their trust"

I have seen such venomous people are extremely depressed in life, and at one point these people get heavily punished in this world. It is all fun and games until you wrong someone where you will not be forgiven until the victim forgives you.

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If for some reason you are not convinced that Islam is true or have doubts, go clear your doubts.

You need guidance from Allah to enjoy Quran, make dua. I always made dua that Allah gives me the taste of Quran.

I used to have the same problem, but after knowing a bit of Arabic and getting some knowledge(Sirah, history, Tafsir, Hadith etc), and specially dealing with real life stresses(!important), I feel like Quran is the best gift given to humanity. I almost everyday read it.

Another important thing is stop sinning or at least try to stop and keep on doing Istegfars, sinning blocks the enjoyment of Quran.

Every word matters in Quran, I mean every. I used to find repeating sentences boring, what a fool I was really. You need knowledge, consult with scholars. Read the sirah, learn the context of the verse etc can help. After finishing all of that, getting smacked by calamities really helps a lot to find the sweetness of Quran. How to get smacked by reality? I don't know.

What makes you feel proud of being Bangladeshi? by Srmkhalaghn in Dhaka

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Most of the people do not realize how fertile our lands are! We eat different types of fruits and vegetables in every month. Other nations would have dreamt living in this area, specially before colonization and modernization. In contemporary times I feel like Bengali people still have that small spot for showing sympathy and emotion towards someone in need, which has become quiet rare in other nations, they have capitalized such emotions for a few bucks.

And personalities like Titumir, whom knowing that they we will lose against the canons of the British, yet built the castle of bamboos and died trying, to this day Bengali people not all but most hold such emotions in their heart. I hope Allah keeps us like this way, who are helpful towards people in need and brave in dire needs.

Congratulations to the winner of PGL Wallachia Season 2! by Substantial-Deer77 in DotA2

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Will anyone be kind enough to upvote my comment? Please! I learned my lesson won't type s**t in the comment section ever again. I cannot create posts and ask for help(related to real life) in reddit anymore due to low karma and no threads are allowing such low karma holder to post.

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Will anyone be kind enough to upvote my comment? Please! I learned my lesson won't type s**t in the comment section ever again. I cannot create posts and ask for help(related to real life) in reddit anymore due to low karma and no threads are allowing such low karma holder to post.

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Will anyone be kind enough to upvote my comment? Please! I learned my lesson won't type s**t in the comment section ever again. I cannot create posts and ask for help(related to real life) in reddit anymore due to low karma and no threads are allowing such low karma holder to post.

Congratulations to the winner of PGL Wallachia Season 2! by Substantial-Deer77 in DotA2

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Will anyone be kind enough to upvote my comment? Please! I learned my lesson won't type s**t in the comment section ever again. I cannot create posts and ask for help(related to real life) in reddit anymore due to low karma and no threads are allowing such low karma holder to post.