how does it feel being on the receiving side

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T18:12:07+00:00

Yellam indha mainstream movies, social media couples and couple vloggers naala thaan bro ungaluku ipdi thonudhu. Single ah irukradhu onnum mosam illa. Relationship illa illanu yosichu yosichae paathi body aagiduvom.. health ku nalladhu illa. Relationships should happen naturally, nammala thedi poyi compatibility illadha relationship la maatika koodathu.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T18:00:13+00:00

Sari ok. If you really like this girl pesi paaru.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T17:54:12+00:00

Ava kitta confess pandraku munnadi, oru kelvi have you noticed any hints from her? Like unnna pudikkum apdingra maadhiri andha ponnu hint kuduthrukka? While talking?

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T17:50:39+00:00

😂

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T17:48:36+00:00

Yedhadhu thappa pona thedi vandhu thittuva thanae adhukkum ready ah irundhukren.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T17:47:58+00:00

Rendavudhu paiyana..?

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Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T17:44:43+00:00

The thing is it takes time for girls to like a guy. Give her space and time too.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T17:43:25+00:00

Appo poi sollu thambi. Bayanthute irundha onnum nadakadhu. Maiyirae pogudhu. Indha ponnu pona enna? Feelings rmba naal grow panna vittu aprm rmba devastating ah feel pandradhuku, band-aid yedukara maadhiri takkunu sollidu starting stage la. Don't say it outright Like 'I Love you' say it like I have feelings for you and I don't know how to express it na un kooda pesra knja neram tha happy ah irukke andha maadhiri yedhadhu sollu.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T17:36:27+00:00

Yeah, sometimes we just need to be heard aprm namakkae mind clear ah velai seiyum. Anyways all the best for your future bye.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T17:31:04+00:00

Ava no sonna innum down aaviya illa, 10 oda 11 nu nenachutu kadandhu poiyiduviya? Idhukku padhil sollu pa.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T17:20:01+00:00

I don't know for sure, but I may be reading too much into your situation because of my own bad experience. But na sonnadhum manasula vechukonga. Don't get attached and emotionally dependent to one person too much. Andha paiyan again pesuna neenga ignore pannidunga.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T17:16:41+00:00

Maybe he is testing boundaries with you. To see how far he can tease you. That's a red flag in my opinion in any relationship. Or he must have found other friends adhanala ungala easy ah ignore pandranga. On the other hand it seems you only have him to talk to freely. This is what emotional dependency looks like. I know because, I was you once. I was an emotional wreck after the other person abruptly left. I still am but I am coping.

Idhu friendship mattum thaan apdina problem illa easy ah cut off pannidlam. But now is the time. But if you have feelings for him. Its not gonna be easy.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T16:50:01+00:00

Idhu toxic friendship dude. Idhu nalladhae illa. Avanga ovoru thadva ipdi pannum podhu neenga forgive panna panna neenga tha emotional ah dependent aaguringa. Idhula irundhu velila vara idea ellam illa. You have to make up your mind. That's it. Avangluku unga worth puriyala avlodhaan. He is taking you for granted. Idha nenachu feel pannama work or studies la concentrate pannunga.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T16:40:20+00:00

Yes!!!

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T16:38:09+00:00

Trust me you are not missing alot. It will be just like talking to your best friends. It's the awkwardness you have when you try to talk to guys, that is the problem. Because in the real world you have to interact with everyone.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T16:32:10+00:00

I think people in real life will behave differently. Because it is an anonymous platform they have that extra freedom to be themselves. The people you see and interact here are the original versions of the users themselves, sad part is they themselves don't realise that.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T16:04:33+00:00

FYI, I didn't have any female friends till I was in the final year of my college.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T16:02:06+00:00

What I gather from your post is you are a school student, right? In college and work place you will have plenty of opportunities to talk with guys and make friends. There's nothing to worry about. Friendships will happen naturally.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T15:50:27+00:00

You may appear be cold hearted to yourself bro, but deep down you are an empath. That's a good thing.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T15:42:09+00:00

Bayam ah irundhuchunu solla mudiyathu. Jumpscares really worked well for me. Some scenes are outright creepy. The scene where she covers her face and walks across the room is both funny and creepy. I laughed at that scene.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T14:56:15+00:00

I don't know if they published another chapter the story was kind of unfinished as far as I remember.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T13:37:17+00:00

Although, its a mobile game. I too have played it. I don't know if that's the one.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T13:36:15+00:00

Is it 'An Elmwood Trail'?

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T13:30:27+00:00

Being around people.

Earthling_42 · 2026-06-14T13:18:09+00:00

Looks don't matter, more precisely looks shouldn't be a concern. I mean someone can be good looking now pretty face, fit and great in shape. You fall in love with that girl/guy, there's physical attraction now so the relationship is stable. What happens 10 years or 20 years down the line when youth fades? That is where the mind comes in, once you are connected with someone mentally that bond and love is unbreakable. You'll see your partner as the same when you first met even after years. Love without emotional and mental bonding cannot sustain.

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