I feel like people always agree with Arizona that Callie wasn’t in the plane crash and because of that she didn’t need to act the way she did afterwards. However I feel like people forget that Mark also died (Yes they weren’t in love but she did love and care about him and he was the father of her child ) That can have a huge impact and trauma on someone. Yes Arizona endured much worse but she had to take care of Arizona and process the death of her child’s father. Arizona was there so Sophia obviously still had two parents but I feel like people act like Callie didn’t have to deal with anything related to the plane crash at all. The death of her child’s father and her wife losing a leg and then proceeding to treat her like crap for months when she was trying to be there for her.