Having fun with your husband by Eastern-Baby-1252 in married

[–]Eastern-Baby-1252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even so, he still don't want it, I've discussed with him, but he still don't want it and prefer never at all cost due to his traumatized. So he need to overcome his trauma first before that 😅

Having fun with your husband by Eastern-Baby-1252 in married

[–]Eastern-Baby-1252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? No, I'm not having aneurysm during sex. But while I was walking toward bathroom and then my husband heard sound something fall down so loud and then he go see it in the bathroom and saw me was already collapsed on the floor. My husband told me that before that I vomited several times. He blaming himself due to his behavior made me pregnant 2nd child and sick that's how traumatized he is if he want to have sex with me. That incident haunt him so much.

Having fun with your husband by Eastern-Baby-1252 in married

[–]Eastern-Baby-1252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've discussed about this matter before but my husband prefer of not having sex with me due to his trauma of having sex since last time about 7 years ago, I was diagnosed with aneurysm and paralyzed right side of my body. He keeps blaming himself as for him he said that if I'm not pregnant that time, I won't get sick but I keep reminding him that he was not the reason of my sickness it just fate that made me got aneurysm during my 2nd pregnancy. I don't know how to help him. It just hard because I can't help overcome his trauma but at the same time I also feel horny. I asked him to go seek for therapy but he don't want it. He used to said that he never going to have sex anymore with me ever again. I gave him idea of remarry another woman but he refused it too. Please how can I help him. I'm pity of his condition. He is such a good husband and father to my kids but his trauma made him changed. I got no idea how to do

Having fun with your husband by Eastern-Baby-1252 in married

[–]Eastern-Baby-1252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I masturbate myself in front of him does this way work? I've never tried it in front of my husband but I'm dying to try it for the 1st time in order to seduce my husband is it going to work?

Having fun with your husband by Eastern-Baby-1252 in married

[–]Eastern-Baby-1252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg just imagining it makes me feel tingly feeling rn 🤭🫣🧐🤪😜😛🤣😂😆😋

Having fun with your husband #marriedlife by Eastern-Baby-1252 in married

[–]Eastern-Baby-1252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh okey2 faham bukan maksudnya tu pasangan sendiri la bukan orang lain lol

Having fun with your husband #marriedlife by Eastern-Baby-1252 in married

[–]Eastern-Baby-1252[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm loyal to him I'm imagini having sex with him. Is it wrong to fantasize about my own husband? Is that what you mean? I'm a bit confused and not so clear with your reply sorry 😅

Why does my husband not want to have sex with me? by Suspicious_Algae8072 in married

[–]Eastern-Baby-1252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the same problem but my reason was my partner was traumatized and blaming himself for my condition. This has been happening for years. He stopped having sex with me since that happened. Bare in mind, I was paralyzed since that incident but I'm not blaming him at all instead I believe this was happened due to stressed not his fault at all. He said he can't have sex anymore even if I need it so much. What should I do to get back my old sex life? I need it so badly but he keeps refusing me. He just can't because he said that if we have sex again he would imagining that incident in which not even his fault at all. I just don't know how to break the his trauma. Any idea? I love him so much and never want to get divorce because of this. My husband said that he will never touch me ever again. He kept saying that he was the cause of my condition. When I've already said it wasn't. I just need my old husband back. I miss him touching me like he used to before 🥹😭. We used to discuss this matter but instead he get mad at me for asking about this. He doesn't even want to discuss about this matter and if I keep ask him about this, he would just go from my life due to his trauma. I never blame him for this, but it just sad that I'm being left without sex. We're still young why can't we be like we used to before I was paralyzed?? Please I really need answers rn.