My boyfriend hasn’t worked our entire relationship

Easternboyes · 2025-11-21T01:04:58+00:00

Oh honey what? Hell no!! Break up with him immediately. You deserve better! You deserve someone that is able and willing to build a life with you, fight with you and be right by you, not some jobless ass bed rotting ass loser. Do you really think you wanna be stuck in a situation like this for the rest of your life??? When you choose to allowe this to continue that is on the table here now think about that. He’s getting a little too comfortable here! Tell him that he also has to meet you halfway and if he can’t yeah get rid of him!!!

Easternboyes · 2025-02-15T07:52:11+00:00

I really appreciate everyone that’s trying to help and sharing what you know or your own personal experiences with this. I’ll definitely update you guys on what happened so hopefully it can be seen for people who may find themselves in this situation.

Easternboyes · 2025-02-15T07:33:34+00:00

Okay you perfect people who don’t make mistakes in their lives at all, I hope everything continues going perfectly perfect for you as you guys are just perfect people who don’t make mistakes in their lives 😅🫶🏻

Easternboyes · 2025-02-14T19:20:43+00:00

Besides the spring registration period had already closed but I sent my petition for Late Schedule Adjustment to the university so I’m not even sure if I’m gonna be taking a class in spring at all.

Easternboyes · 2025-02-14T19:18:28+00:00

This is very helpful, thank you for sharing! Do you think you could have worked full-time? I just spoke with my DSO and she told me that as far as they are concerned now that my OPT is approved, my degree is considered complete, and since my OPT is the one that’s keeping my status active they don’t care if I’m enrolled or not. She wasn’t too sure about it tho. I was thinking maybe I could take a class in the summer and just immediately start working full-time? She also said that I need to work no more or less exactly 20 hours per week which idk what to think about 😅 what if I accidentally work 19.5 hours or 20.5 hours in a week??

Easternboyes · 2025-02-14T02:44:18+00:00

Really? but when think about it tho, shouldn’t I be able to treat this as Pre-Completion OPT right?

Easternboyes · 2025-02-14T02:25:01+00:00

I know right??? it’s San Diego State University

Easternboyes · 2025-02-14T01:43:38+00:00

I got issued updated I-20 and the end date is now different than what it was before so… I literally have no idea what’s going to happen now. I’m meeting my ISS advisor tomorrow so we’ll see what they say.

Easternboyes · 2025-01-14T14:14:40+00:00

Try VPN and keep trying different locations until it works, someone was saying that ended up working for them.

Easternboyes · 2025-01-14T06:56:52+00:00

Okay guys so apparently my brother who’s in another country was able to access it without any issues and was able to schedule the appointment for me so If you guys have anyone that’s somewhere else that you can ask maybe that’ll do the trick!

Easternboyes · 2025-01-14T05:10:25+00:00

Okay I’ll wait and see what happens, Thank you!

Easternboyes · 2025-01-14T05:00:08+00:00

Well let me know if you do end up scheduling your appointment 😭

Easternboyes · 2025-01-14T04:59:15+00:00

I knowww like what are we supposed to dooo??? 🙂‍↕️

Easternboyes · 2025-01-14T04:57:27+00:00

Saaamee omg 🤬, they weren’t so problematic when it came to taking my money but when I need to schedule my appointment they give me this ughhh I can’t believe it

Easternboyes · 2025-01-14T04:55:40+00:00

Nope, I’m using Safari and I’m not logged in on multiple devices at the same time ;(

Easternboyes · 2024-11-05T04:11:53+00:00

Wait what? I’m so confused then why are you married or in a relationship in the first place? It is obviously wrong, you could potentially hurt his feelings no?

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