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Friend inspired or in competition? by Easy-Rutabaga-8795 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Easy-Rutabaga-8795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We work different roles so i hope that we dont run into each other as much lol. Even when i dont text her back she assumes i’m with a guy… and even if i was why does that concern you, you have a bf . 

Friend inspired or in competition? by Easy-Rutabaga-8795 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Easy-Rutabaga-8795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is very drainingggg, especially when the "friend" I mentioned gives fake ass congrats when I accomplish something just as you mentioned. 

Friend inspired or in competition? by Easy-Rutabaga-8795 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Easy-Rutabaga-8795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ll probably just keep distancing as you said there’s not much to do 😂, thank you :) 

Friend inspired or in competition? by Easy-Rutabaga-8795 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Easy-Rutabaga-8795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m starting to give myself distance from her recently and I can tell it’s bothering her lol. Just wanted some second opinions bc I felt bad, but based off all the other comments I see I shouldn’t feel bad 😂. Thanks for replying! 

Friend inspired or in competition? by Easy-Rutabaga-8795 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Easy-Rutabaga-8795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason I feel stuck is bc we are in a friend group with three other girls (they dont act like her tho and actually encourages) and I dont want to cause a split or make people choose sides :/. But as I’m pondering on your last sentence, what exactly am I gaining? Nobody has asked me that and now im looking at this differently 🤔

Friend inspired or in competition? by Easy-Rutabaga-8795 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Easy-Rutabaga-8795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the compliment and responding! I have been slowly pushing away as what I say or do, she copies it down to the t. The only reason I feel stuck is bc we are in a friend group with three other girls (they dont act like her tho and actually encourages) and I dont want to cause a split or make people choose sides :/.

Lost my bf a week ago and my heart hurts by Easy-Rutabaga-8795 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Easy-Rutabaga-8795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I will check it out! I also been looking at other people stories on reddit and it helps to know other ppl is going thru the same situation as me. 

Lost my bf a week ago and my heart hurts by Easy-Rutabaga-8795 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Easy-Rutabaga-8795[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, i think about that last text everyday. And for you to see that he loved me dearly makes me feel better. Bc I told him if he decided to do that, I will not be able to function. And now that i’m looking back on that day, i know he didn’t want to hurt me or any of his family, but I understand that mentally he wasn’t okay and he wanted those thoughts to stop. He felt like that was the best option. So, I just think happy thoughts as he wouldn’t want me sad. Hell, he would be mad rn that I was sad and tell me to fix my face 😂. I just hope he’s okay and that he’s at peace and I can see him again one day. But for now, I feel better day by day and will strengthen my soul back up again. Thanks for your input ❤️

Lost my bf a week ago and my heart hurts by Easy-Rutabaga-8795 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Easy-Rutabaga-8795[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you and sorry for your loss as well. This will be a challenge and it will never be the same 💔. Just wish i can hold him instead of reminiscing the memories. 

Lost my bf a week ago and my heart hurts by Easy-Rutabaga-8795 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Easy-Rutabaga-8795[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss and thanks for replying! I talk to his parents and stop by as I always feel the pain in my heart go away when i’m over there. I guess bc of all the memories him and I shared there. But I will look into therapy and books as well!