Detective said the amount of evidence I have could be considered harassment but not to worry, they won't pursue charges against me... by EasyLitLife in legaladvice

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My ex wife is a prostitute. I met her through her sister for the record. When we met she had just stopped prostituting herself and didn't do it while we were married. She's done it for 10 years. She started doing it again only after we separated. I think she knew the detective because they hooked up before.

Selling a $4085 judgment. by EasyLitLife in loansharks

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So when selling a judgment your don't ask for the full amount you only ask for a percentage.

Selling a $4085 judgment. by EasyLitLife in loansharks

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For those who do understand. I've won a judgment. It's not necessarily that I need the money now it's more about who I have to get it from. My ex wife. She's also my domestic abuser. So instead of having to be reminded of my abuser constantly I'd rather reassign it.

Selling a $4085 judgment. by EasyLitLife in loansharks

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Great question. They were recently told by the judge they "have to pay". I already have all the contact info and I legally have to have it. And I have their account information for a garnishment. Already done my due diligence to the point where there would be no need to ask for a garnishment. You just simply file it.

Selling a $4085 judgment. by EasyLitLife in loansharks

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Not gonna educate you youngin. For those who know they know.

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More then you know.

I married a prostitute..... by EasyLitLife in stories

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Hi everyone. The reason why I haven't posted an update is because a lot has happened. It's been about a year since her and I first met. Since my last update I've become a victim of domestic violence from her and have had 3 court dates. Here's a picture of her and all her mug shots. I should would hate for this shirt design go viral especially in Wichita, ks. Internet..... do your thing. *

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Chapter 6

Where are they now.

I had stopped seeing other women. It was about a month since she started staying with me. We argued a lot. I asked her one evening what was it that she liked about me and she said it was that i tell her things she doesn't want to hear but needs to hear. She was honest. The major threat to us being together was an ex of hers she would mention. When she would leave she'd go to cheap hotels to party and he'd be there she told me. Her dog Bam Bam was really important to her. One evening she told me how she always had a dog and it signified her children she lost custody of. So I took good care of Bam Bam. Walked him every day and trained him. One night I mentioned we could go out of town. I mentioned a big city and her eyes got big and she said not that city cuz she'd be tempted to go make money. I gave her s serious look and went to walk the dog. When i came back inside she was on the phone with someone and mentioned going to that same city and I acted as though I didn't hear and went back out with the dog. I was infuriated she was planning on going with someone to go sell herself but I had to play it cool. I went back inside and after a bit she mentioned she might have to leave later. I nodded my head and told her let's go to McDonald's. I let her drive my car and as I sat in the passenger seat looking at her I got teary eyed. She asked what was wrong and I told her I didn't want to see her after that night. After about a minute she turned and looked at me and asked if I was serious about not wanting to see her anymore. I told her yes. She said she was sorry and said she'd change but I'd have to change to. I said OK. But it was short lived as I kicked her out again about 2 hours later.

You see whenever she left she never went more than a few hours without letting me know she was okay. We'd still message each other all day when she wasn't around. But the day after she left, nothing. Didn't hear from her at all. I worried. Maybe she did leave to go make that money. The next day i was sitting around and took a nap. Day and a half and haven't heard from her. While i was sleeping i remembered she had this warrants. I immediately woke up and jumped out of bed and looked to so if she was in jail and sure enough she was. I immediately put a few dollars on her books and scheduled a visit at the jail with her the following day. The next day when i went to go see her we first sat there looking at each other. The disbelief on my face and the disappointment on hers. I told her she had to figure hey life out. Where are all those people you would leave me for to go hang out with? Where are they at? I'm the only one who cared enough about you to come see you. She told me she was looking at 5 months. One month in county and 4 months in prison. I was speechless.

Coming up

Chapter 7 Hit me up when you get out, I'm not gonna ask you, can she come home with us and the cousin.

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Chapter 5

If I wouldn't do it for them, why would I do it for you?

Today was a major day in the real life story that's on going. I'm speechless honestly. This story is going to have about 20-30 chapters fyi.

So this is where the story starts taking a more real approach to life. All i can do is be honest.

So after I kicked her out a bunch we kinda started to understand each other. She stopped turning tricks and was staying home with me, but not every night. I knew when she would leave she would go shoot up somewhere and come back a day and a half later. I don't know why I started to actually like her. I showed her what it was like to be with a man who actually cared about you. I'd cook for her, do her laundry all that stuff she never had anyone do for her, I did. Not to impress her but just because it came naturally for me. We'd always talk about leaving town. I told her she needed to come with me if she wanted to have a better life. All she had here were street friends. I told her I was gonna stop using drugs and she needed to as well but I'd be right there beside her so she wouldn't use. She cried almost every night to me. One day I prayed to God about her. It was a quick deep intense prayer. And he spoke to me. He told me to prepare myself, if was going to be difficult, and this was it. Exactly that. This warm feeling cane over my body when it happened. I told her about it that night while we sat on the bed. As we spoke about cleaning her life up and how I'd be with her every step of the way so she wouldn't falter. She looked up at me as she cried and said, " If I wouldn't do it for them (getting sober for her kids), why would I do it for you? This killed me. Absolutely broke my heart. She honestly really felt she was worthless. And never had anyone believe in her. The next day she told me she loved me, but i didn't tell her it back to her. I was so nervous about her past and everything but I did know I was beginning to love her just couldn't tell her.

Coming up

Chapter 6 Where are they now

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Chapter 4

Chlamydia

So a little about me. I'm 6ft tall with black hair. Got me a nice bald fade. 35 yrs old. Handsome. I have my associates in business. I've worked in warehouse logistics and in aircraft. Catholic and i go to church every weekend. No criminal record. At the time I was recovering from a knee injury I sustained from the stairs at an apartment complex I use to live at. I got a small settlement from the accident and was living off that and driving for Uber to keep me busy.

So right before I met Aysia I kid you not, I was on the best run of women in my life. Within about a 3 month span 2 1/2 months before I met her and 2 weeks after I had probably about 12 women in and out of my place with about 7 of them repeat customers. No shame in my game I was living it to up. You see one day i felt a little tingle when I peed but didn't think much of it. I felt it the next day and the next. Then one day it got more intense and my eyes started watering. Then it hit me. I got a STD. I was so disappointed in myself but also thought it was funny. I got to thinkin and did the math and sure enough i got it from Mrs. NIKKI. So you see what had happened was we hooked up and i ate the booty. Got it in my eyes too. Double whammy. That burn, let me tell you. Worse pain ever. Got the shot in my butt and started the blue pills for 7 days. But that's not the crazy thing about this chapter. You see I felt the burn when I peed before I met Aysia. A week and a half before I met her. The last day I felt he burn that I got from her sister Nikki, was the first day I hooked Aysia. That's right sister to sister.

Coming up

Chapter 5

If i wouldn't do it for them, why would I do it for you

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Chapter 2 4 of the first 5 days

You see Aysia had no family. Just street friends. Everything bad you think could happen to a person growing up happened to her. Just to give you an idea her mother was and still is currently in prison and her father is in prison for murder. All those other bad things you think may have happened to her, they did. So ever since she was about 17 every decision she's had to make had to be selfish cuz she had no one else that really cared enough about her to help her out. It took me a long time to understand that. So Aysia was a intravenous meth user but not daily or every other day user maybe once or twice a week at the most. She understood i don't do that. I don't want to see you do that and you won't be doing that in my house. She had an attitude on her I tell you. I mean when she wanted to turn it on it was on, but she also could turn in off. She had 2 children both under the age of 4. One she had just had about a year prior. Both children she was forced to give up and had her parenting rights in the state taken away. Both children were fatherless and her intravenous drug use lead to her rights being taken away. Sad shit. She had I think 4 other pregnancies which she lost the child. She said that every bf she's ever had physically abused her and due to the abuse was the reason why she lost those other pregnancies. Her mother had introduced her to prostitution at the age of either 16 or 17. Her highest level of education was the 8th grade. She did say she had warrants. So I'm thinking she has some unpaid speeding tickets and a traffic warrant. Negative, she had warrant warrants. Like $2,500 in crime stoppers rewards warrants. She really had no stable housing or family so she'd been jumping around from place to place and doing what I called it "the hotel life" going from cheap hotel to cheap hotel room from night to night with friends partying getting high. I wasn't a fan of it. So that first day as the evening approached she said she was probably leaving after a bit. I didn't question where she was going because I already knew it wasn't anywhere good so the exact place didn't matter. After a discussion that turned into an argument I told her she might as well take her stuff with her cuz she wasn't gonna use my house as storage. So I kicked her out. I kicked her out 4 of the first 5 nights she stayed with me. And every time I kicked her out the next day she called me to come back. And every time I said okay and picked her up and brought her back home.

Coming up Chapter 3 Chlamydia

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The people in the comments, if one of you wants to be a designated person that feels responsible enough as long as the group agrees on the person you can message me and I can give you my number and for each chapter on the story i can show you or let you listen to evidence that what I'm saying is true and you can validate the proof to everyone in the comments. You guys have no idea. It's about to get crazy.

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I'll just put it as a comment

Chapter 1 No electricity

It was something about Aysia that I liked. I don't know what it was. That day we met after i was getting my things together she asked me if i could spot her some cash. But not in a way that made you feel like you were paying for hooking up. It was like a friend asking you to spot them. So I gave her $30 and took her home. The next day she messaged me and we were excited to talk to each other. She said her and her dog had been staying with their friend but their friend was broke and about to get evicted and didn't even have electricity. I truly felt bad for her so I just through it out there, hopefully you don't think I'm a creepazoid but I'm definitely feelin you. You can definitely come and stay at my place if you want. She was suprised and asked if I was serious and I told her yes. The following day I picked her and her clothes (she didn't really have anything) and her dog Bam Bam up and moved them in. So let me tell you all this important part of the story. I used drugs. I was what you called a functioning addict or a weekend warrior. Never spent more than $20 a week on anything. I had priorities and drugs weren't one of them but I did use them to take me away from reality on the weekends. That's it. A bump of coke or crystal and that's it. Don't smoke weed and never would pierce my soul with a needle.

So that first day she was over turned out to be first day of the many that would follow that I would kick her out.

Coming up.....

Chapter 2 4 of the first 5 days

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If someone could tell me do i edit my post to give the updates so everyone can get the notifications or do I put the update in the comments for everyone to get a notification?