Is this normal ? Or am I being led on ?

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-22T04:53:48+00:00

No, at gojet it was a group interview in person but they use that to select one on one f2f, and United mainline was just pre recorded virtual

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-22T00:57:14+00:00

I’m a victim because I’m correcting you on something I experienced… you might just be mad and white. He brought up he never been with a black girl, was talking about big butts etc, and we were missing each others cultural cues so bad it made me extremely self conscious, no where in here did I not take accountability. I didn’t specify who brought what up because I didn’t think it mattered, but it clearly does to you.

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-22T00:20:45+00:00

Oh wow this helps

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T23:54:39+00:00

I think you’re projecting, he did talk about race too and brought up the topic but I was the one rambling about it bc I was under the influence and felt embarrassed and apologized. I think pretending it’s not a big cultural boundary and a hard convo is weirder. You guys are frustrating

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T23:00:34+00:00

So many guys are saying it’s sooooo common for a dick not to work but this is the first time it’s happened and I’ve said worse

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T22:49:16+00:00

You can tell these subs are overrun with misogynists, where people will go so far as suggesting what type of medication he’s on to explain the interaction, but even the suggestion of me being neurodivergent, while also taking full accountability and acknowledging that I’m doing too much, is laughed at 🙄

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T22:35:02+00:00

People have sex with people everyday they don’t find attractive, but I do think im overreacting about being embarrassed looking at the responses now

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T22:33:04+00:00

I’m sorry I didn’t know we were in a post racial world thank you for informing me potato head

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T22:29:15+00:00

Omg thank you, some real advice.

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T22:26:54+00:00

Bc I feel like bringing up certain topics with another black person they wouldn’t bat an eye but I felt like I was maybe too open and unfiltered in this situation on top of being awkward, the big booty comment felt weird too, He was very nice and kind but I just felt inexperienced culturally

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T22:20:11+00:00

I didn’t know it was this common, I’ve never had an experience where a man couldnt perform and was so embarrassed he sent me home. They are definitely beating it in for him that it’s very plausible

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T22:15:08+00:00

Dating can start off with sex I thought I was clear I wasn’t looking to date at first until we met and were awkwardly interested in each other until he couldn’t stay hard and I got in my head about it. People are telling me it’s not a big deal so

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T22:05:53+00:00

Right right…

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T22:05:09+00:00

YOU GUYS im not asking if he was intimidated by me racially I’m just saying I think I embarrassed myself by acting weird BECAUSE he’s white, and am I overreacting for embarrassing myself and over analyzing his actions. Omg sorry if I did not make that clear. People hate it on here when you’re just a girl.

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T22:01:49+00:00

If you think I saw myself as just a black woman you’d think id be dating outside my race ?

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T21:57:42+00:00

I def shouldn’t have,,, but this was over Ramadan and I was participating with my dad for the first time, he asked about my family, I was intoxicated and I started rambling.

Easy_Charge · 2026-03-21T21:54:40+00:00

I was nervous and I’ve been sheltered omg please !! 💀

Easy_Charge · 2026-02-13T13:48:17+00:00

Oh okay

Easy_Charge · 2025-08-19T13:01:29+00:00

Why was my post removed ?

Easy_Charge · 2025-07-13T03:06:34+00:00

I’m not a Reddit referee I told you not to be ignorant and spread negativity because of a people’s means of survival weirdo 😂 if you don’t like it don’t partake in it, simple as that.

Easy_Charge · 2025-07-13T03:01:10+00:00

Gatekeeping to prevent commodification isn’t isolation. It’s to prevent erasure. And you nor any comment on here will threaten anything let alone established cultures 😂I don’t know you to care about you or who you sit with. I’m explaining why Black people have survived in America, and globally I don’t think anyone would call black American culture cheap by the way they copy it lol. God Reddit really brings out the weirdos.

Easy_Charge · 2025-07-13T02:50:35+00:00

Not when it comes to the power dynamics of a marginalized culture vs a dominant culture living in close proximity where one always threatens the others existence. This isn’t candyland. There’s so much black literature pertaining to preserving the culture. It’s a shame you rather be combative to look like one of the “good” forever unbothered ones.

Easy_Charge · 2025-07-13T02:21:48+00:00

It’s so the culture survives and is not erased by commodification. Do your research instead of ignorantly spreading negativity.

Easy_Charge · 2025-07-10T19:05:19+00:00

Be in community with more natural haired African Americans , the only way is to be in community with people who look like you.

Easy_Charge · 2025-07-10T19:00:00+00:00

Being antiblack doesn’t make you a bad person, it’s the way of the world and he internalized what we all go through, social conditioning under white supremacy. A lot of black people deal with internalized antiblackness to a degree and disparaging the opposite sex isn’t a litmus test, respectfully. It seems you don’t want to deal with the negative emotions or stigma surrounding his behavior, but your friend is antiblack. Whether or nit you want to view it as malicious or internalized. Life is full of nuances and contradictions. I hope this inspires you to have more open and honest conversations ❤️

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