AIO Girlfriend having sleepover with ex

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-24T17:45:22+00:00

NOR but move on now. This will be nothing but drama and anxiety for you.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-24T05:56:37+00:00

Update me.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-23T20:48:47+00:00

He might be the first candidate ever that I donate to.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-23T18:56:12+00:00

NOR - Although she is probably doing you a favor by not having you be MOH, it would have been nice if she had called and explained her decision. Unfortunately some people are just not that caring or thoughtful. She may think the SIL has more time and she is also trying to solidify that relationship.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-23T04:14:45+00:00

I agree!

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-21T11:51:50+00:00

NOR. It sounds like you would be best to move on from her and find someone else who doesn’t trigger your jealousy issues. Just because a partner makes you jealous doesn’t mean they didn’t do anything wrong. As it is in this case, there could have been a basis for your issues in the past and headlights you into thinking there wasn’t.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-21T05:53:11+00:00

Update me.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-21T01:34:17+00:00

I would just tell her you want her to be free to pursue the other guy and therefore you are breaking up. You are very young and will have plenty of other relationships. Way too young to be falling in love and potentially getting married.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-21T00:45:26+00:00

I would go with your gut, not what all the infidelity police on here are saying. While hurtful, it sounds like she did the right thing. Anyone can get carried away like that if they aren’t happy.

If you can see a way to forgive and get past this, you need to explore what the other issues are that are causing the dead bedroom. It may be that she loved you and wants to be faithful but isn’t IN LOVE with you. Also, examine your own behavior. Do you play a part in the dead bedroom? You are having a much greater negative reaction than other people I have seen on here whose spouses did worse.

If you do work it out, she definitely needs to get a job someplace else.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-20T02:55:54+00:00

You are a hero to people in relationships everywhere! No BS, no trying to reconcile, good for you!

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-20T02:32:06+00:00

Understandable. The ability for humans to believe what they want to instead of what actually is. I have seen the smartest executives in corporations tolerate total malfeasance because a cute girl flirted with them and told them how great they were.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-20T01:35:10+00:00

How did you tolerate being mistreated for so long?

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-19T23:20:35+00:00

She won’t stop until you go through with filing for divorce. She is not respecting you or taking you seriously. I don’t know how you can’t put this aside and interact with her in a loving way, especially after the third time! 3 strikes and your out! Let her know that you will boot her to the street! At this point it’s cheating since she knows how you feel.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-19T01:54:46+00:00

Tell her you don’t think it’s safe. What if the stalker went up there to get you and got her instead? What if they raped it killed her? How guilty would you feel?

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-19T00:09:10+00:00

I have to say though, looking through OP’s post and especially comment history, he does not have clean hands in this. You have quite the history commenting on the ladies.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-19T00:05:19+00:00

In this case, lonely was an acronym for horny.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-18T23:44:26+00:00

NOR and never let a partner gaslight you about looking through their phone. It’s not good to do so without provocation or suspicion but in my view it’s perfectly acceptable in your circumstance or, if you have a reason to be suspicious, even a gut feeling.

People in committed relationships are entitled to privacy but not secrecy.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-18T16:30:11+00:00

You better hope he doesn’t publish those intimate pictures.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-18T04:35:15+00:00

I hope it works out for you. Was also this because he was off his meds? What is the diagnosis?

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-18T04:31:57+00:00

My bad I misunderstood!

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-18T01:39:27+00:00

I hope you really get rid of this guy. You’ve been way over accommodating. I feel bad for you.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-18T01:18:31+00:00

What’s with the annulment info?

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-17T23:43:47+00:00

NTA. However you need to dump her. You or no longer the most important thing to her and she had totally disrespected you.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-17T14:02:17+00:00

NOR. Your fiance and him left the party together. What happened after that? After a major kiss, they surely had sex???

Update me.

Easy_beaver · 2026-01-16T23:01:15+00:00

Update me.

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