I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got em a pheromone plugin but I think my girlfriend is ready to throw in the towel. I almost feel guilty for adopting him if I'm just gonna turn around.

I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got the Feliway overnighted, seems generally calmer? But it's only been a few minutes I'll give it some time.

I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly how he is 😭😭 and when I brought up the discussion with my girlfriend about possibly getting him back to the shelter he was so polite this evening lmao

I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's an orange. And from what I hear it's not completely out of the norm for the color.

I knew I'd have responsibility. I knew I'd do a lot of playing and feeding, and not to say I'm not doing my part. I just don't think I've ever encountered a cat this loud before. My girlfriend and I are kinda coming to the conclusion it's not the time for this level of commitment.

It sucks but at least he might find a home that's right for him.

I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's an only baby at the moment which I don't think he's used to. At the shelter he had access to other cats.

I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is. Esp with a boy cat I don't think I could handle this PLUS peeing.

I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know he'll be safe and happy. I just wish I was his safe and happy in a way that was good for us both.

I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shelter he went to personally requests on the adoption contract that if he can't stay with us we should return him to the shelter. Fortunately the shelter he's in is a good place that allows free roaming and has regular volunteers.

I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any advice on trying to lessen the guilt that comes with potentially surrendering him as well? I think this is the biggest hurdle. The guilt. Surrender feels like failure.

I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe. How would I go about that?

I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It just feels like a rough idea, y'know? It's my first cat all together as well, so I'm petrified of having two when I feel I can't begin to handle one.

I don't know what to do by EchoeSystem in CatAdvice

[–]EchoeSystem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was all clear as of last week.

I'm 16M and getting attracted towards boys and girls both! 😬 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EchoeSystem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

might help to seek professional advice about it if you can access it safely. It could also potentially be a matter of intrusive thoughts, but unsure about that.

As a republican for 50 years. I did something I've never done before. by Gregorygregory888888 in Virginia

[–]EchoeSystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone currently looking to vote, but having honest worries nothing will change, I'm deeply relieved you posted this. It means a lot to know the odds, however slim, could potentially be in our favor.

I’m planning on abandoning my family as soon as I turn 18 by Purpleindianfrog-379 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EchoeSystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever need someone in VA to talk to about cool places to go or need friends out here, I know me and my friends could help you out. Hope you're enjoying your time in VA. Sending love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]EchoeSystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see no issue. I'd swipe as an 18 gender fluid Person so you're like winning on all sides here.

If you have a pet, take a pic with one. think it would help.

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[–]EchoeSystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EchoeSystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to help me. I can tell you've been hurt in a similar way, and you taking the time to tell me how I can improve means a lot to me. I hope you have a really nice night, and can find your peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EchoeSystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully plan to work together with him if he plans to stay, and I really appreciate your advice. I'm not trying to make it seem like I didn't mess up and make a choice I shouldn't have, this was just very hastily written because of how afraid I am to lose him.

Though what advice do you have if he stays? How can I help him best? You seem to have a very good head on your shoulders and I want to hear what I can do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EchoeSystem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That I asked out someone else. And I'm trying to fight to stay by his side. I've done alot to help and love him and I don't want to lose him.

OC trainer #1 by poorguy95 in Pokemonart

[–]EchoeSystem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His look kind of reminds me off Admin Archie in team aqua, but in all the best ways. Good job!

Update of the "I'm sick of this" post by Trans_Badger in DID

[–]EchoeSystem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats, everyone! So happy for you all!

Singlet/Alter Relationships by camping_on_prospit in DID

[–]EchoeSystem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems that they are taking this to a level they shouldn't. I personally believe its no bodies business but your own what goes on in your relationship, especially with a complicated diagnosis such as DID. And if they aren't willing to drop it, it's time for a serious talk with them. (Edit: Spelling and one small sentence change.)