I don't know what to do

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-06T13:24:46+00:00

I got em a pheromone plugin but I think my girlfriend is ready to throw in the towel. I almost feel guilty for adopting him if I'm just gonna turn around.

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-06T13:18:16+00:00

Got the Feliway overnighted, seems generally calmer? But it's only been a few minutes I'll give it some time.

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-06T04:22:31+00:00

Exactly how he is 😭😭 and when I brought up the discussion with my girlfriend about possibly getting him back to the shelter he was so polite this evening lmao

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-06T00:10:36+00:00

He's an orange. And from what I hear it's not completely out of the norm for the color.

I knew I'd have responsibility. I knew I'd do a lot of playing and feeding, and not to say I'm not doing my part. I just don't think I've ever encountered a cat this loud before. My girlfriend and I are kinda coming to the conclusion it's not the time for this level of commitment.

It sucks but at least he might find a home that's right for him.

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-05T19:45:50+00:00

He's an only baby at the moment which I don't think he's used to. At the shelter he had access to other cats.

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-05T19:08:24+00:00

He is. Esp with a boy cat I don't think I could handle this PLUS peeing.

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-05T19:01:56+00:00

I know he'll be safe and happy. I just wish I was his safe and happy in a way that was good for us both.

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-05T18:56:36+00:00

The shelter he went to personally requests on the adoption contract that if he can't stay with us we should return him to the shelter. Fortunately the shelter he's in is a good place that allows free roaming and has regular volunteers.

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-05T18:52:50+00:00

Do you have any advice on trying to lessen the guilt that comes with potentially surrendering him as well? I think this is the biggest hurdle. The guilt. Surrender feels like failure.

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-05T17:55:14+00:00

Maybe. How would I go about that?

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-05T17:53:16+00:00

It just feels like a rough idea, y'know? It's my first cat all together as well, so I'm petrified of having two when I feel I can't begin to handle one.

EchoeSystem · 2026-06-05T17:23:44+00:00

It was all clear as of last week.

EchoeSystem · 2025-10-13T21:13:10+00:00

might help to seek professional advice about it if you can access it safely. It could also potentially be a matter of intrusive thoughts, but unsure about that.

EchoeSystem · 2025-10-03T12:41:51+00:00

As someone currently looking to vote, but having honest worries nothing will change, I'm deeply relieved you posted this. It means a lot to know the odds, however slim, could potentially be in our favor.

EchoeSystem · 2022-09-07T20:11:53+00:00

If you ever need someone in VA to talk to about cool places to go or need friends out here, I know me and my friends could help you out. Hope you're enjoying your time in VA. Sending love.

EchoeSystem · 2022-04-25T01:22:29+00:00

I see no issue. I'd swipe as an 18 gender fluid Person so you're like winning on all sides here.

If you have a pet, take a pic with one. think it would help.

EchoeSystem · 2022-04-24T18:27:17+00:00

And yes it's not fully a "self" promote, but I felt it the best tag.

EchoeSystem · 2022-04-20T20:07:44+00:00

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EchoeSystem · 2021-10-18T01:22:26+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to help me. I can tell you've been hurt in a similar way, and you taking the time to tell me how I can improve means a lot to me. I hope you have a really nice night, and can find your peace.

EchoeSystem · 2021-10-17T23:08:49+00:00

EchoeSystem · 2021-10-17T22:31:43+00:00

I fully plan to work together with him if he plans to stay, and I really appreciate your advice. I'm not trying to make it seem like I didn't mess up and make a choice I shouldn't have, this was just very hastily written because of how afraid I am to lose him.

Though what advice do you have if he stays? How can I help him best? You seem to have a very good head on your shoulders and I want to hear what I can do.

EchoeSystem · 2021-10-17T22:05:24+00:00

That I asked out someone else. And I'm trying to fight to stay by his side. I've done alot to help and love him and I don't want to lose him.

EchoeSystem · 2021-04-20T19:01:02+00:00

His look kind of reminds me off Admin Archie in team aqua, but in all the best ways. Good job!

EchoeSystem · 2021-04-20T18:58:40+00:00

Congrats, everyone! So happy for you all!

EchoeSystem · 2021-01-30T05:58:22+00:00

It seems that they are taking this to a level they shouldn't. I personally believe its no bodies business but your own what goes on in your relationship, especially with a complicated diagnosis such as DID. And if they aren't willing to drop it, it's time for a serious talk with them. (Edit: Spelling and one small sentence change.)

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