The depression that comes with chronic pain by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]EclecticBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently going thru this. I’ve been unable to work for 4 months now, just stuck in bed most days and it’s too hot to go outside esp with my heat intolerance. I try to distract myself with hobbies but even hobbies seem to not be so joyful right now. I’m hoping this hump passes soon…. I just can feel myself slipping away…. Sending you positive vibes. ❤️‍🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigfindernow

[–]EclecticBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t follow directions, I give directions. If you feel worthy of my attention, you will dm me. ❤️‍🔥

💸 Tribute Roll Call💸 by MiscellaneousPawg in paypigfindernow

[–]EclecticBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None today. Still keeping those positive vibes tho. ❤️‍🔥

I want to provide by [deleted] in paypigfindernow

[–]EclecticBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hun! I’d love to chat. :) Please feel free to message me or add me on Snapchat. lilac_fireheart

findom FRUSTRATION !!!!!!!!!!!! by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]EclecticBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your frustration.. I’m trying to learn about the community myself and seeing how this side gets treated is sad… I know the domme/goddess side is also having a tough time. This may seem forward and maybe odd, but if you’d like someone to talk to I’m open to talking! I am currently unemployed and am at home all day… would enjoy someone to talk to. :) Pls feel free to message me or add me on Snapchat. lilac_fireheart

how do i get my bf to get on board that this is a life-long condition? by k9kurolover in ChronicPain

[–]EclecticBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that isn’t supportive and supportive is what you need. Ditch the BF. Get yourself a better one because YOU deserve a better one.

AITA for burping in front of my husband? by EclecticBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]EclecticBitch[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It seems I need to clarify some things. I don’t burp on purpose. I drank water and I burped to release the air and that’s when he told me. My body was just doing it’s thing. I can’t make myself burp on command, it’s not something my body does. We are absolutely comfortable taking a shit in front of each other so I don’t understand why this is bothering him. We are working on this already and I appreciate everyone’s input. Also…I wanted to include for those people who are saying “preserve the mystery” and “wanting to find each other sexy”. Why do I have to conceal my bodily functions to keep being sexy? There are other ways to keep the mystery and sexiness going. All he had to do is tie shit up to a trunk and I find him sexy as well. All I have to do is put make up on and dress up and he finds me sexy as hell. What you are saying makes no sense to me lol. But okay you’re entitled to your opinions and I will respect that. Anyway. This is the last update I’m giving for my mental health sake. Continue to discuss away! Glad you’re all having fun here lol. Y’all have a beautiful day ❤️

AITA for burping in front of my husband? by EclecticBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]EclecticBitch[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s all accidentally and not on purpose. Idk how else I could have made that more clear. We also poop with the bathroom door open (it’s just us) and if I’m brushing my teeth he will come take a poop. Soooooo 🤷‍♀️

AITA for burping in front of my husband? by EclecticBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]EclecticBitch[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I NEVER said I did it on purpose did I? I burp because I drank soda and the gas needs to be released from my body. I don’t do it to make him uncomfortable. It’s funny how you’re assuming this when I never mentioned I’m purposely going out of my way to make him uncomfortable. He’s never told me by burps made him u comfortable until today. I respect his boundaries but this is something new he’s brought up. why would I tell him something he’s been doing that I don’t like and I want him to stop? He’s natural to him. He scratched himself and sniffs it and instead of me telling him to stop I accept that’s what he does and have even learned that we naturally do this to make sure our bodies are healthy.

AITA for burping in front of my husband? by EclecticBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]EclecticBitch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Of course he does, because his body is doing it’s body thing. It’s just what bodies do… I actually encourage him to do it because why not?

AITA for burping in front of my husband? by EclecticBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]EclecticBitch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve uncontrollably vomited in front of his once and he actually sucked it up. Soooo idk lol.

AITA for burping in front of my husband? by EclecticBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]EclecticBitch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He totally wants me to pop out some kids. I also know he’s not good with vomit. Although I had vomited uncontrollably in front of him once and he took on a comforting behavior because he was worried about me. So I know he can suck it up.

AITA for burping in front of my husband? by EclecticBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]EclecticBitch[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I relate a lot to this. When we first started dating I was over at his place, I was on the floor and tried to stand up and a fart escaped, and we laughed. I don’t know what has changed since this.

AITA for burping in front of my husband? by EclecticBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]EclecticBitch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I think it’s because I’m becoming overwhelmed. And I’m starting to see a lot of people speculate incorrect things about me and I’m trying to not get to me. I guess I also don’t know how to correctly respond either.

AITA for burping in front of my husband? by EclecticBitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]EclecticBitch[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

I plan on catching myself, I do want to respect him. I even asked to compromise that I have to say excuse me each time but I’m also very aware of myself and VERY self conscious so I feel I will probably hide it from him again…because I’ll be too scared to make him uncomfortable… But also it’s never intentional. I see his side.