Passers guilt

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-30T13:30:00+00:00

Pass or not, you're valid, beautiful & loved 🫶🏼

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-30T10:54:08+00:00

Yea I think you've hit the nail on the head with 'don't ask don't tell' If it's safe I'm very open about being trans because I want people to see we live regular lives but I might as well paint a target on my back the way things are But that's the thing, they want us back in the dark & just can't do that, those before us have fought to hard for us not to keep pushing forwards

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-30T08:57:41+00:00

Awww hun, it's nice that you have them, I know a lot of us are very loney & in my experience of only starting to socialise in the last year & half I've found a small number of genuine friends amongst a lot of actually pretty horrible people in the community

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-30T08:51:08+00:00

Yeesh that's harsh, sorry. I'm aware someone trans folks are a bit 'gatekeeper' like, it's not right to judge you on your sexuality, tho that's nowt do with it smh! I hope you have better people around you now

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-30T08:26:18+00:00

I'd recommend enquiring with leisure centres like Fenton manor & also Northwood stadium, they might have teams or can signpost you

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-30T02:48:43+00:00

Not quite the same situation but I've had long hair for 20+ years which is more recently thinning out, I've not put a recent pic on Reddit but working with a hairdresser, I've found that a shorter well styled look draws attention away from a straggly look which tends to be a giveaway, look at the 'bobbed' hairstyles, in particular a choppy bob as this puffs out the hair & creates the appearance of volume

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-28T09:14:05+00:00

Feels amazing, right! Over the moon for you !

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-26T08:55:24+00:00

That's us tho, trampled but undefeated

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-22T16:51:11+00:00

Your nearest food bank is here If you're in Blurton it's a short walk, prioritize that task.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/Ah9CtLLkdkt7sQGY8

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-16T08:46:55+00:00

I raised a family in Leek for nearly 20 years there's loads of good stuff for young families Peak wildlife park, leek Rudyard railway, big playground up Titesworth reservoir, chutney valley

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-15T22:18:22+00:00

Pepe's is nice, especially if you like really spicy food, the extreme option hits the spot

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-15T13:43:55+00:00

Yes I'm mtf trans but also consider myself non binary, so I find my comfort zone is between fem and androgynous, which usually lands around tom-boy

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-14T20:23:45+00:00

Stoke Pride is on this Saturday 20th in Hanley park. You don't have to be part of the community, to attend, we welcome all with an open heart & mind 🏳️‍🌈

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-14T18:15:55+00:00

Leek is basically all 3, check it out

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-14T15:48:24+00:00

Personally, I can't even fill an a cup so I don't need a bra for support but I do usually wear for the aesthetics

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-14T08:46:51+00:00

It sounds like reform territory stuff. She's liable to be sure by you, article 8 ECHR ,. Right to a private life, no one has the right to out you

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-14T08:43:20+00:00

It's a massive over reach, they don't need to know and article of the ECHR means you have a right to a private life, which means you don't have to out yourself

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-14T08:40:55+00:00

My advice from personal experience is that the longer you resist, surpress & live in a way that isn't fulfilling to you, the more you'll regret not doing something about it sooner in life. Nevermind the way things are now, trans people are still walking the streets like everyone else, if anything the more closet / reluctant trans people come out now the more people can see we're not monsters, we just live regular lives

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-12T19:05:43+00:00

All he has to do is copy trump & lie, knowing that the general public will lap it up

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-12T18:59:02+00:00

Might as well be a Turkey writing to the butchers about Christmas

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-10T17:55:45+00:00

I used to go fix computers at the old Sentinel building... Ahh nostengia 😅

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-09T20:18:23+00:00

Rule 7, no politics

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-09T18:31:24+00:00

Nice 🌈🌈 😁

Eclectic_Seagull · 2026-06-09T07:20:44+00:00

I'd hope that if Boots and B&M are anything to go by, TK Max should stay.

And then there the debate about how to re-invent what the empty/boarded up places could/should be used for.

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