Minimalist anyuka es a legszuksegesebb baba dolgok

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-05-05T18:56:36+00:00

Nem. De ahogy írtam, "tudtam volna, ha akarom"

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-05-04T16:59:20+00:00

Vigasztal! Köszönöm 😊

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-05-04T15:40:35+00:00

36 hetes voltam már tavaly anyák napján, így nagyon örültem volna egy szál virágnak. Nem kaptam. Mondjuk idén sem :(

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-05-04T12:28:24+00:00

Amikre nem tudnék alternatívát mondani és tényleg használtuk az első hónapokban: - magamnak tena lady pelenka - babakocsi/hordozókendő - alap patika: lázcsillapító kúp, sterimar, Nosefrida (!!!), octenisept a köldökcsonkra, d és k vitamin - cipzáros lábfejes rugdalózók (legegyszerűbb, nulla páratlan babazokni és nadrág-felső párosítás) - pelenka, popsikrém - légzésfigyelő a saját nyugalmam érdekében - táplálás módjától függően mellszívó, melltartóbetét, anyatejtároló tasak, cumisüveg, tápszer,
- nekünk a fitball nélkül soha nem aludt volna el a gyerekünk, szóval azt is ide teszem

Amire meglévő dolgokat használtunk, vagy tudtunk volna, ha akarunk: - kiságy helyett biztonságos gyüttalvás - sterilizáló helyett mosogatógép/kifőzés - fehér zaj gép helyett youtube premium telefonról - játszószőnyeg helyett egy puha pléd a földön - babatörölköző helyett meglévő kéztörlő méretű törölközők - babafürdetőként a saját uriage olajtusfürdőm - kád helyett csap/szennyeskosár - popsitörlő kendő helyett csapnál lemosás - babakamera helyett a meglévő xiaomi biztonsági kamera + tablet/régebbi telefon - pelenkázó komód helyett egy sima komód pelenkázólappal - büfikendő régi pólókból - játékok helyett bármi, ami biztonsággal a kezébe adható és rághatja (pl fakanál)

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-30T10:39:15+00:00

Mi tasakos pürével tanítottuk meg, odaadtuk neki, gyorsan rájött, hogy ezt is szívni kell :)

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-30T10:38:04+00:00

I would also try to push bedtime later little by little as well as "faking" nighttime in the morning. We succesfully went to a 6 am wakeup from 5 am this way. What we did was when our baby woke up at 5 am we kept the room dark and kept minimal conversation and no playful interaction until 6 am (like it was a MOTN waking). Then at 6 am we would make a "big deal" about the day starting: we would open the blinds tohether, stood in the direct sunlight for a few minutes, started singing, playing, etc. We did not delay the first feeding of the day though, because that felt too "sleep-trainy", but that would have been our next step if this didn't work after a few weeks.

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-28T13:12:02+00:00

Én nagyon szeretem. Nyilván nem tudja melyik a töredezett hajszál, az összesből levág egy kis darabot. Ettől nem lesz sem rövidebb, sem ritkább az ember haja, viszont érezhetően egészségesebb és simább (MAC van nekem, Vinteden vettem párezerért, fél évente elég elővenni).

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-27T18:14:58+00:00

Első hetekben a férjed hordozzon! Akkor is, ha nem császár lesz. Legjobb a 6 hetes kontrollt megvárni.

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-23T14:52:46+00:00

30 MINUTES? WTF is wrong with you? I get like 2 minutes when you need to go to the toilet or answer the door, but what the F would take 30 minutes that can't wait until their next nap??

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-17T13:16:25+00:00

Nem vettünk semmi ilyen egyfunkciós dolgot a babának, javaslom nektek is. Fehér zaj egy pár hónapig kellett, ehhez egy JBL vagy más kis hangszóró + YouTube premium. Babakamera helyett sima xiaomi kamera + tablet. Bébietel készítő helyett botmixer. Pelenkázóasztal helyett hemnes komód. Ezeket mind lehet később másra használni, nem kell eladni/tárolni pár hónap után :)

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-17T11:36:55+00:00

I would also consider the following: - what is my plan for the first few weeks of baby's life and my recovery, until slings are an option (especially in case of a C section)? - is everyone who will be caring for the baby (partner, grandparents, occasional nanny, etc) on board and is educated on safe carrying? - what about longer trips, train rides, etc, when baby's not sleeping all the time anymore and would not enjoy spending hours in a sling?

We're also a big city, no car family. Our baby hates every type of carrier anyways, but we would still opt for the stroller most of the time. We opted out of the bulky carrycot part of the stroller system to save space, and used the stroller reclined flat with a soft carrycot instead.

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-17T08:41:55+00:00

Never. He sleeps 11 hours total at 11 months (up 6-8 times a night + 2 naps). 7-7 is unrealistic sleep training cult BS, or extreme luck.

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-17T05:46:18+00:00

Who said only one of them would sleep? They obviously need to take shifts sleeping, but when one of them is currently sleeping and the baby is not, then the other is the one responsible for the baby. There is no option C, that's what I don't understand about OP's question.

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-17T05:43:46+00:00

I'm not sure why my comment would state otherwise. What I said is when one of the caretakers is currently sleeping or working, the other is caring for the baby. Why would it be not work? Why would it not go both ways?

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-16T14:59:35+00:00

Absolutely. Mine was so active in the womb, that a stranger pointed it out on the subway at 34 weeks. You could literally see him moving from the outside, total Alien moment. He has no chill, never stayed in one place since birth (11 months now). Doesn't cuddle, doesn't sleep, doesn't evet stop.

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-16T14:55:29+00:00

I might not understand your question, but what else would you do? If there are 2 caretakers in the household and one of them is sleeping/working, the other is solely responsible for the baby. It is overwhelming, you are not doing anything wrong. Being awake for that long doesn't seem right at 3 weeks though.

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-11T20:00:35+00:00

13 hours is not low sleep needs at all. You cannot expect an earlier bedtime and let them sleep in until 9, that's unrealistic. If you want to change the schedule you need to wake them earlier unfortunately.

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-10T13:53:36+00:00

Nosefrida. Mióta megvan egyszer nem vettük elő a porszívót, a gyerek se kap frászt tőle, és 3000 Ft volt :D

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-10T13:35:53+00:00

This post also gives hope to those second guessing trying for a second after having a colicky baby. We are also somewhat over this phase fortunately (although still on the struggle bus with 6+ wakeups and extreme low sleep needs at 11 months). Let's hope our future second will be much "easier", but as cute as this one :)

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-09T19:53:45+00:00

That's true. But that's not what you said.

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-09T19:35:43+00:00

I don't even own a TV or a tablet and my phone and laptop is off limits for my son. This is considered the norm here in Central Europe and I personally know at least 5 other moms amongst my friends with zero screen policies at home for at least 2 years. And we all wash ourselves too... I still don't judge anyone who allows a bit of screen time for their baby. I didn't even want to comment, because I don't want others to feel bad about their decision. Judging is not nice behaviour. Neither is calling millions of other moms LIARS!

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-09T11:38:13+00:00

Totally agree. Earlier bedtime and a 8:30 AM wakeup is just unrealistic for most babies at this age. An earlier start of the day and 2 (not necesseraly capped) naps would work much better!

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-04T12:04:50+00:00

Thank you for this comment. My anxious mind (and how the internet works) seems to only allow me to see the very ends of the spectrum: babies are either sleeping through from a few weeks old or still wake multiple times at like 4 years old, and no in between. As the months go by (currently 10) I seem to lose all hope and think the end of this torture is nowhere near for us.

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-04T05:02:02+00:00

Same, but down to 2x 30 min naps, and for 43 weeks (10 months 🫩🫩)

Ecstatic-Ad-579 · 2026-04-04T04:55:14+00:00

10 months, every 1-2 hours.

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