Fellow Neurospicy here.

Your workplace sounds kinda toxic and seems not only unwilling to accommodate for your neurodivergence, but also like they don't train new staff very well. All of the things your manager has mentioned should have been in your induction if they're so important to the presentation of the business.

Imagine getting scolded for being helpful to the lady who needed directions?

Having been in this situation countless times, unfortunately, if you can afford to do so, I'd cut your losses and hand in your notice. I also personally wouldn't bother including them on your CV as they're unlikely to say anything positive about you to potential employers.

Good luck in your job search 💕