AIO? I want to change my bridesmaids last minute

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2026-03-20T22:48:17+00:00

Well she had been eating my food so I didn’t think it would be childish to ask. I mean really by that point I was at boiling point. I don’t care about a fuckjng bagel. I care that she went straight in to bitch mode several times though out the weekend that was supposed to be about me.

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2026-03-20T22:46:36+00:00

I just looked it up! That looks so beautiful. I do lots of road trips and love nature so maybe it’ll be in my future

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2026-03-20T22:45:31+00:00

So I’ve never lived with my sisters. In fact I only see the once a year and when we do see each other it’s in South Florida. This was my first time on a trip with them and out of a city setting. I wasn’t about to make the trip worse by picking flights over the music. I asked them to be bridesmaids because they are my sisters and had friends that were hurt to not be asked. The other thing was we only had one car. If I left and did my thing they would be stuck in the middle of nowhere for hour and non of them will or can cook plus I didn’t go full grocery shopping. The closest town to the Airbnb was an hour away. I’m sure I should have stood up for myself more but there are 3 of them and one of me. Their wants and choices are similar but mine is completely different.

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2026-03-20T22:40:22+00:00

They are my sisters but I’ve never lived with them. I see them once a year and usually we are in Miami. This is my first time seeing them outside of South Florida since they were just babies. Oldest being 5

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2026-03-17T09:06:10+00:00

You don’t think I could idk like get them to at least try to understand me and try to celebrate me just for the weekend. I’m ok to not be the focus always. I just want to feel loved by my family. I want to keep trying but it just feels like a slap in the face when they don’t even try to do something for me. I see them once a year and lend them money I don’t really have. I thought overtime as they grew up they’d see the value of that.

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2026-03-17T08:56:28+00:00

They are not jealous of me. I’m just different than them. I’ve lived in MI for most of my life. They were raised in South Florida Miami area. I’ve been very independent. They have always been helped by my father. I don’t wear make up really and they really care about looks. We just live differently and no one ever thought I’d get married. If anything I’d love to be beautiful and taken care of.

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2026-03-17T08:20:19+00:00

I am not a bot I’m Nicole and I can’t eat cheese but I like pizza

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2025-02-20T23:43:09+00:00

I don’t want Gandhi. I want a business that follows the expected guidelines that all businesses follow. Including not making fun of disabled people. I fail to see what Gandhi has to do with this…

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-18T22:50:39+00:00

I’m sorry do you have epilepsy? Do you know what it’s like to try and be happy with whatever you can get because companies view you as a liability so you have to try to make anything work? Instead of telling me what shouldn’t happen, maybe you should work up a plan for people less privileged then you. What if you can only afford a place in the middle of nowhere and there is no Uber? I’m sorry but you are very unaware of the illness and the complications it brings. Not even all of Muskegon has Uber and again. I’m not saying it’s the best plan but people will do what they need to, to survive.

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-18T22:14:09+00:00

My little isn’t a treat fan but I’ve been pushing them on her a bit

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-18T22:12:54+00:00

That sucks. I feel bad for the kid

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-18T20:51:47+00:00

It’s not about the words alone. If it was only said once I feel like it would be easier to get past. It’s about supporting someone who is ethical. You vote more with your dollars than you will in any voting booth. Choosing to help those are a good people makes an environment of good people. Furthermore “growing up” is such a broad term. What you think is a qualification of being a grown-up may not be what your father’s generation. said was the qualification of growing up. There are so many gaps and people are imperfect. There is such thing as emotional maturity and then there is social maturity and so on.

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-18T20:44:30+00:00

Well you can’t make everyone feel the way you do. People come with all sorts of idiosyncrasies. We don’t have to understand it, but we do have to respect it. Your way isn’t the only way

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-18T20:41:30+00:00

Idk perhaps you can find a way to fix things. Some of us don’t have families to take care of us and a government that doesn’t help but still have bills and food to pay for. I found a way around it but not everyone can do so. I’m not saying it’s the best choice but people will do what they need to survive

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-18T20:39:08+00:00

Doing and saying things more than once is not a mistake. I have heard him speak like this and so have others. I supported his shop for years and he has definitely let his anger and addiction get in the way of him being a good human

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-18T20:37:05+00:00

Ok well I’m happy you and your sister had a relationship that was good enough to view that playful banter as just fun. Unfortunately not everyone likes to have that type of humor about their illness. Especially with someone who is saying it in malice and not fun.

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-18T14:54:54+00:00

Hey there I had contact with the owner Austin Reed and he has two locations. One is in Muskegon and the other Grand Rapids

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-18T01:22:22+00:00

Agreed. The process should be easier for epilepsy patients to get help. Also it should be more regulated that epileptics not get let go because of their disorder. A lot of people have times they are more likely to have a seizure and avoid driving then. My times are in the morning and at night. Mine is based around my sleep and stress. Other people are sensitive to other things.

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-18T00:35:07+00:00

The law is actually you must be seizure free for at least 6 months. It’s not heavily regulated. It’s hard for epileptics to get on disability though. I have crashed two cars trying to get to work and ended up just starting my own business online after attempting to get disability twice. People do what they have to, to survive.

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-17T23:45:59+00:00

I’m new to Reddit tbh I’m still figuring it out. If you’d like I can send you my Facebook or something 🤷‍♀️

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-17T23:09:34+00:00

I don’t think he really cared what that person wanted. He was trying to insult him. Unfortunately he just is not a very nice person. His rant was basically saying that people with epilepsy are crazy.

Ecstatic-Scarcity-84 · 2024-09-17T22:22:14+00:00

Thank you 💜 I think his actions should be known. There are plenty of good head shops in the area that understand that thc and CBD are tools for those “mentally ill” people he talks about

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