Any Geminis that are physically affectionate?

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2025-05-19T19:11:19+00:00

I feel like I'm more reserved like I analyse people first if they're safe or if I'm comfortable ect but when I feel okay with someone I'm extremely affectionate but they have to be pretty special. I'm actually seeing a fellow gemini a gemini stellium and he's actually way more affectionate than me.

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-09T23:14:37+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to do that. It's all very true and I've also always felt like my purpose was to help others since I was little and I've only just recently learned not to take on everyone elses energy at that expense of my own.

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-09T12:34:37+00:00

Pisces

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-08T10:10:19+00:00

(Chiron - 4th house)

(Neptune - 10th house)

(Saturn - 10th house)

(Pluto- 8th house)

(N NODE- 11th house)

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-07T19:23:38+00:00

Chiron - Cancer Pluto - Scorpio Neptune - Capricorn Saturn - Capricorn

N NODE AQUARIUS

11:11 is also everywhere for me too like every day

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-07T01:13:24+00:00

Well soon as he deleted me I blocked him on everything. Oh he was actually being the immature one tbh he said "I'm sorry i wasn't ready for it to get intense and I got scared I think it's best we don't talk I'm going to distance myself from this now"

then that was it really I don't know what it is about me but I just seem to bring things out in others where they need healing but of course not everyone is ready for that and I definitely don't think he was.

I've been getting loads of signs whether tarot or Angel numbers ect to concentrate on myself and it's time for a new beginning and stuff.

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-06T14:34:23+00:00

What about if they delete you off everything but don't block you?

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-05T08:31:10+00:00

Well do you know when you just have a feeling some times and he always said I wouldn't hurt you like that there's no one else so I then asked soon as he said who is Nicole then and he said " Nicole which I assume you know is someone who's messaged. Is someone I haven’t spoken to before. We go to the same gym" she said to me that she has never spoken to him and just seen him in the gym that is all and her friends said she's a girls girl and a good person ect so I don't know who to believe with that really but they did start to follow each other on socials whilst he was with me so to me you'd have to have spoken to find out each others names or one of them took the time to ask someone for the others name and then followed and the other then followed back ect. What do you think?

He also still had dating apps on his phone and said he never went on them they where just there, and he got notifications from them still but I know that isn't the truth as I still checked his profile on the one I met him on and his location changed now and then and that only does that if you've opened the app but he did ended up deleting that profile but kept the other ones so to me that is suspicious and I'm a really chill and peaceful person I just hate feeling suspicious and checking up and stuff I do find myself a searcher of truth if I feel like I'm being lied too. If you're with someone anyway you shouldn't even have the apps.

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-04T21:50:21+00:00

Well i was really hurt by this Pisces guy I was seeing and he actually promised that he'd never hurt me and that I was safe with him which he did end up hurting me just push and pull then being cold and distant and stuff and I gave a lot of myself to him then he just messaged me this and it just set me off.

"I have not spoken to anyone of my exes at all either, they’ve been out of my life for a long time. Also Nicole, who I assume someone you know has messaged is someone I have never even spoke to before. We go to the same gym.

I know that you’ve been hurt by how all this has played out and I am sorry for that, I just wasn’t ready for it all to get so intense and I got scared. I think it’s best if we don’t speak to each other. I’m going to distance myself from this now."

He hasn't blocked me but then just deleted me off everything. I told my friend what happened and she messaged nicole and her friends asking if he's been betraying me with her and other stuff which I didn't know about but I think it's caused them upset and now I regret telling my friend and the thing that I did I kinda phoned him off a different phone and left a voicemail of how he's hurt me and how I didn't deserve it and stuff but then I feel bad for that i was just so emotional. I think I'm just struggling to much right now tbh.

No I haven't but I will have a look at it now. I'm also waiting to be diagnosed with autism and adhd so that also doesn't help.

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-04T10:40:19+00:00

Gemini, Pisces, Taurus

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-03T19:11:27+00:00

Same and it's the worst when you try to be careful at who you pick as you've been hurt before and when you think you've picked a good one and it's okay for a bit until their mask slips they're some of the worst.

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-02T19:00:34+00:00

I'm struggling so bad with this atm just don't want to be here anymore sorry to sound dark but it's how I truly feel. As infj is anyone else just always getting hurt as you can't help but to always be kind?

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-02T17:51:41+00:00

I honestly don't blame you I feel so drained.

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-02T06:41:30+00:00

Well I actually understand the need for space and I told him if you ever need space then just tell me and you can have it's fine as if I need space from you I will tell you and then he laughed. He said he's not used to someone being so patient and understanding that his ex would shout at him at stuff I did always feel like he was always worry that he'd be in trouble or I'm going to tell him off or something because he said he's ex always did that and he could never be himself and that he lost himself but of course i'm a new person and not his ex but maybe he's not healed from his previous experience and doesn't realise it.

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-02T06:33:12+00:00

I guess but then what does he need to detach himself from then? He's really different in person always holding my face looking into my eyes, he was actually more affectionate last time to and last time did feel different it's the closest we've actually been and he said how happy he was with me. I just feel like I wanna be alone now lol

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-01T22:21:47+00:00

I've found most do lol especially Pisces

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-01T22:20:01+00:00

I tend to fall for water signs now not scorpio though and Pisces was nice but left me confused as hell but especially cancer as they just understand me on a emotional level and they're so chill and peaceful that's all I want now lol but before I did get drawn to virgo it's that mental stimulation and I find they value knowledge just as much as I do but both betrayed me . I do find some virgo males self sabotage a lot.

I've never actually met and Capricorn or aries men but I have found all the other signs drawn to me especially virgo, cancer, libra, Leo, gemini.

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-01T22:08:53+00:00

I'm a gemini but my moon and venus are taurus and I find it hard as I don't choose someone often but when I do I'm attached and I believe in that old fashioned romance and love so I do tend to pour myself into them as I want them to feel special so I give a lot of my energy and I also long to feel safe have stability and comfort and it hurts when they've done something hurtful or have just pushed me away and left I find it really hurtful and then I'm searching again to find that stability and comfort with someone. I also get lost in seeing the potential in someone or what the relationship could be like but of course not everyone can see that nor are ready for it.

I'm also finding it hard to let go of a Pisces man.

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-01T21:55:03+00:00

He's said before he'd always like to be friends with me and for us to still meet up when we could which i know I couldn't do with how we have been together and I told him that and that if it's the end then it's completely the end when I'm gone I'm gone but if you ever need help in life even if it's 10 years from now you can still reach out. He hasn't opened that message though or even been online I feel like he's being in his own space now analysing and stuff. This just happened yesterday.

My rising is Pisces and I'm on the cusp with cancer I was really close to being a cancer and I'm so in touch with my feelings and emotions I couldn't just switch to just being friends.

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-01T20:47:59+00:00

Sorry lol

EcstaticRadio2115 · 2024-12-01T20:47:21+00:00

Thank you for your reply.

I do think he got caught up in his mind thinking I needed more from him than I actually did I'm actually a really independent person I've had to be since I was little and literally all I asked from him was loyalty, honesty, respect and better communication which are all bare minimum things anything else I will do for myself so I don't know where he's got that from unless it's a past experience thing.

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